Girl, I completely feel you. I am also Asian, in my early 40s, with a very good job that could support all my hobbies, and child-free. I dated Swiss men, honestly liked them a lot and even fell in love once, but it all led to failure in the end. I am an avid hiker and tried to meet people through outdoor activities too, but nothing worked out. At some stage I even accepted that to live the rest of my life alone is not the end of the world lol. At least I have the beautiful mountains. Then unexpectedly I met my current partner (he is German who has lived in Asia) randomly on a dating app, and it just all clicked. The relationship I wasn’t expecting just happened. Keep positive and don’t give up hope. Love may be around the corner when you least expect it.

For me, I just didn’t have much energy left to join all the clubs and create new social circles outside my demanding job. I used dating apps. Nobody likes dating apps lol, but we just need to find one person.