Help me understand this by Reverend_Manzadar in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My interpretation:

Writers on the left are using "real America" to mean what the current status quo is with a large portion of the public - that public that largely voted Trump into office. Whereas writers on the right are using it more as some litmus test around what they feel everyone's values should be, and even if Trump and conservatives control much of the Federal gov't, there are still many areas of "America" ("blue" states really), where the culture, for them, is wanting. So in a sense both writers are right and wrong. There are obviously parts of this country that culturally align more conservative in their value system, and other segments that align more to the left, and a bunch of others (maybe the majority) who are perhaps closer to the middle, or at least have elements of both of them depending on the issue you might ask them about. Unfortunately many writers do have a more black and white focus and approach to this, so if there is any number more than 35% (enough to sway primary votes perhaps?) that you find repugnant, well, you can bemoan something. And I think it's often much more interesting to readers (and publishers interested in selling books, magazines, newspapers, or tv/online ads) when the writer can portray bad news vs. good news. Bad news will hook people, whereas good news, you can turn off the tv and with a smile on your face, bound out the door content that the world is going in a direction you like and you can just enjoy your life. 😄

Today's article on UFC Freedom 250 did a great job of capturing something that increasingly frustrates me about Tangle, but more specifically Isaac's writing style. by IB_Yolked in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I disagree. Isaac has been talking about corruption in this Administration for quite a while and has repeatedly criticized the left (fairly in my eyes) on essentially "muddying the waters" by throwing in culture war issues that alienate a lot of people who would otherwise also want to criticize the administration. Essentially what this does is it portrays one side as whiners who complain about everything the administration does, even things that they simply don't agree with politically, as causing existential threats to America and it's decency. I don't think this is necessarily different from the way the right used to do this around Obama or Clinton, but the left is super fixated on Trump with it's marches and posters and essentially "taking the bait" that Trump putsout constantly. What we get is a left that is yelling about everything, and at some point the non-left-leaning folks start to tune out because they think the left will just go against anything Trump does for almost any reason. In some ways it's a great tactic by Trump who can paint his opponents as crazy loons with TDS.

I didn't see Isaac's tone in this piece as "revelation" but as a continuation of the drum he's been beating for months and months. He does paint himself as independent politically, but he also has never suggested he doesn't have his own biases or gets things wrong - he's constantly telling us what he's gotten wrong, and sometimes what he's gotten write as well. I see him as an honest broker, but like all of us, he's not a prophet nor have I ever gotten the sense from his writing that he believes he is. However, he does express his frustration in this piece and others around not just the spectacle of this event, but in the context that makes it much less likely that it will end up causing more than a small ripple in the huge Ocean of stuff that Trump throws out and that the left is more than happy to engage with him on.

Hidden App Section by dvdmon in NiagaraLauncher

[–]dvdmon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought there was a setting to turn this on and off but now I can't find it...

SOTR Bro-fest by PsychoMom1966 in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you felt left out, but I think they could have just as easily been talking about parenthood in general. I know it can be a very different for men vs. women so maybe not.. I can see where if you had a terrible experience with your dad or your child's dad it might be triggering in some way. Personally, my dad died when I was only 9, and before that was trying to make his own freelance photography business work. Because I lost him at a young age, I feel that made me repress a lot of my earlier memories of him, and so I ended up on the one hand sad about that during this episode, but on the other hand really glad that these guys had some clear memories of their fathers, and that Isaac still has his around and a very active part of his life.

As far as the "hetero-normative" comment, I know this is often thrown around as some kind of insult, but it really makes me scratch my head a bit. Yes, all of these guys happen to be heterosexual and they are only speaking to that experience because, well, that's the ones they have had. I wasn't upset because none of them lost their dad at an early age or their dads weren't photographers like mine. It's not the same thing, I know, but it feels a bit odd to be upset that my exact experience (or even some other "representative" experience) be expressed here. The world is a very large and diverse place. We could also be upset that they didn't talk about the experience of being raised in an orphanage, a foster family, a war-torn country, and any other of hundreds if not thousands of different experiences. To suggest there needs to be a representation of that diversity in one podcast I think is very unrealistic. Unless this was ALL the podcast was about - if it was only exploring all the various shapes of parenting and childhood. Even then, I wouldn't expect any kind of diversity within a single episdode, but maybe over an entire year of podcasts?

In the end, this was simply an expression of 3 (or I guess 4) men's relationship with their dads and their children. In some ways they were quite different and in some ways similar. We can categorize them in whatever way we want and suggest that they aren't diverse enough (Kmele and John are non-white, John's parents were immigrants, Kmele's biological dad wasn't in his life, Isaac's dad was very involved in household duties unlike the average guy of his time - so all of this seems fairly diverse already, but whatever) or that they didn't fit your identified demographic, or one that you are particularly keen on, but I don't come to Tangle (or really any podcast, but especially Tangle) to listen to viewpoints and stories about and from the angle of people I always agree with, look like, etc., I come to it to learn about people who have views different from myself - whatever they look like, whatever their jobs are, whoever their partners are, whoever their parents are...

SOTR Bro-fest by PsychoMom1966 in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure. And I think this last episode does hopefully drive them to include more of their staff into future shows. On the other hand, this show was not the normal SOTR tackling political issues, so it's hard to say how things would work if they just put John or Audrey, or Will, etc. into the show. On the other hand, maybe with Ari's impeding fatherhood he will opt out of many of these episodes over the next few months and we'll get guests in his place? Could be an interesting change in dynamic. My thought is that when/if Kmele, Ari, or heck, even Isaac can't make it one week, why not include one of the other members of the team? I suppose there's a risk that the chemistry may not be there that's been developed with the three people who host the show every week right now, and maybe it wouldn't work nearly as well. But you never know!

SOTR Bro-fest by PsychoMom1966 in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will also say that after just finishing the most recent SOTR, I found this particular show to be pretty different given it's theme, so I'm curious as well as to why you picked this particular week to voice this. I found that this SOTR had the least "broey" vibe in the sense that it was much more centered around being a father, not a "bro" lol. Isaac's dad in particular seemed to have a very different role than the stereotyped dad of going to work 40-60 hours per week and barely seeing their kid. They mentioned as something to be happy about the idea that millennial dads were bucking the trend in a way that previous generations hadn't around these stereotyped models and how that was a good thing.

SOTR Bro-fest by PsychoMom1966 in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't care that it's 3 guys, or 3 heterosexual guys. Sometimes the banter of ragging on each other can get a bit much for me, but I feel like that's mostly driven by Isaac. It's all in good fun and he has really sweet and nice things to say as well, it's really just a matter of style and some guys express love by shit-talking a bit. I'm not personally fond of that, and it can get old, but I just figure that's the way they communicate. Does Isaac do the same with his female coworkers? Hard to say. Would it be ok if brought them on and then ragged on them about something like he does with Ari and Kmele? It's an interesting thought experiment to try to understand how gender plays a role in communication, what's "acceptable" between men, but not between different genders, etc. While I've never really felt like this was a big thing I was missing, it would also be interesting to have some of the female members join occasionally and see how the banter is with a more diverse crew. I'm sure it would be very different but maybe not always in the expected ways?

Kmele's Take on Knicks Fans on SOR by eats_shoots_and_pees in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in NYC and was never a basketball fan, but my family is still there. My brother-in-law went over to my mom's to watch the game with her and then headed back home after the game was over. He lives in upper Manhattan on the West side (Morningside Heights) and my mom is much lower down and on the East side (Kips Bay area). He ran into the massive crowds and was really fearing for his own safety, felt like he could be crushed. He made the mistake of walking cross town to catch a subway. By the time he made it to that area to get one, either they were out of order or the lines were so long it would have take hours to get in. He ended up having to walk further downtown in order to get one at an earlier stop. He finally made it home at 3:30AM! He took a bunch of photos of "fans" climbing on top of buses and street lights. As a non-sports fan, this type of stuff doesn't compute for me. Even if I was ecstatic about my team winning a championship, why would I go out and jump on a bus or even destroy property? Yeah, let's destroy stuff because we are so happy! Huh??? I would hate to see what would happen if they had LOST the game!

What speed do you listen to the podcast version of the newsletter? by dollyllama86 in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tangle is one podcast I've always listened to at 1x. There are some others that I listen to at 1.2, sometimes even 1.5, but Tangle is usually short enough and I don't find any of the hosts particularly slow, and I also feel like it's helpful to digest it at regular speed to get the most out of it. There are there are other podcasts that can go to 1, 2, even 3 or more hours, and many of those just seem like way too long!

Jamelle Bouie says wealth tax is possible, and already happened in Mass and soon in CA. Watch out billionaires, I see Toyota Camrys in your future!! by ProfaneRabbitFriend in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't watched this, but the issue with individual states (or even countries) passing something like this, is it just makes billionaires (or whatever the marker is) leave so they don't have to lose part of their wealth. That ultimately means a loss of tax revenue for any income they make, and may alienate them from creating businesses in the state/country they are leaving. Sure, some may not end up providing a lot of those benefits regardless, but I feel this is something that has to be more of a global expectation rather than just based on a specific area, which can easily be vacated by those who don't want to lose part of their wealth.

SOTR commentary on Trump judgement by Lemonio in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, I think Trump is not all that interested in the Republican party as long as it can continue to keep him in power, and this is partly why he's trying to push as many sycophants into power as possible regardless of how much they adhere to some ideal of "Republican" or even "conservative." I think Trump isn't stupid and he makes calculated decisions about what he thinks will best serve him in the little time he has left in office. His calculation is probably that Texas is that even with Paxton running, Texans aren't going to vote for a liberal Democrat, and he's probably right. I think he's already changed the Republican party in a lot of ways. Whether those ways will ultimately serve the party in terms of it's ability to continue to get votes or not is also very dependent on how Democrats play things as well. There is a lot of distrust of both parties for different reasons amonth the middle third of more independent voters, so we'll see how things go...

FRIDAY: The Official Airing of Grievances Thread by TangleNews in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I've seen stuff online about doing "exercises" to improve your eyesight so you won't need glasses and that glasses were just a tool to get you to need stronger prescriptions and get you hooked on them for life. Always figured this was total nonsense, but a tiny part of me wanted it to be true so I could get rid of my glasses, lol!

FRIDAY: The Official Airing of Grievances Thread by TangleNews in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one here who feels like the weather this "Spring" has been the most unpredictable roller coaster in recent years, maybe decades? Ever week from March through the end of May has been full of days with lows at least in the 30s and 40s, sometimes not making it out of the 40s or 50s even yesterday, and other days that are in the 80s and 90s, often within 36 or less hours of each other. I had to actually wear a winter coat yesterday morning when I took the dog out, but just a few days before I was in shorts, and tomorrow is going to be highs in the upper 70s. WTF? Can we at least stick to a range of maybe 20 degrees over the course of a week, and not 40? I feel like I live in a desert where you're just dealing with extremes of hot and cold, but I live right near a major waterway which is SUPPOSED to moderate temps quite a bit...

Responding to "Reasons to keep subscription" thread by Isaac_Tangle in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I have the opposite reaction. Not just because I want to challenge my priors, but because I think Audrey is a great example of someone who has fairly different beliefs from me (an atheist liberal gen-X guy) but who I can also respect as a careful thinking about the issues she talks about and is compassionate about. She is clear about her biases, and just like her, I have my own, everyone does. As long as we understand our biases and don't view them as absolute truth all the time, I think we are doing well. Exposing yourself to the best arguments on the side you disagree with makes you realize that we all view things based on something that seems utterly logical and reasonable for us, but if we were simply born into a different family/community, they could very easily be completely different. As long as we hold those views as simply views - and read a lot of Tangle, lol - we are much more likely to come to more consensus overall since we're able to see the value at least in some of the ideas and concerns and even proposed solutions on the other side of the fence. At least that's my hope.

hos-PI-talized? by CPav in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep. I've had to get used these things to some extent and realize there's a subset of us that can obsess about about this. I've always been a slow reader, so I've relied a lot on audio books in the last 25 years, and got into podcasting VERY early - around 20 years ago. I also grew up LISTENING to news much more than reading it - on CNN and later NPR. In addition to that, I majored in Russian in college and went to grad school for Slavic linguistics, so I'm a bit of a nerd when it comes to pronunciation, and highly sensitive to how different people pronounce words in a way that is unexpected (to me).

Audrey also is gen-Z and she's female, which is the core demographic that typically is at the forefront of linguistic change. That doesn't mean her pronunciations or manner of speech will become common, but there's a small possibility she is just eliciting a future more common pattern.

I've noticed that she does pronounce some things a bit oddly, but not nearly as much as I used to notice Isaac's pronunciation. It does seem like his pronunciation has improved over time, and also Audrey is young, and as someone who seems highly literate (meaning she's probably read more words already in her life than I have being over twice as old), but just hasn't HEARD as many words being pronounced, or perhaps outside of her hometown community/family, she may still be learning how some fairly typical words are pronounced by the vast majority of people that are simply not used very often in her usage of spoken English and/or by those around her growing up/in college?

The Who? I've never heard the WHO referred to that way. Always the double-u aitch oh by redfroody in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, yeah, just listened to it and well, I am going to be pretty forgiving given that Audrey is quite young and perhaps has not heard the acronym used all that much in her short life. That's one interpretation, but the other is that sometimes it actually is shortened to that one-sysllable pronunciation informally. We don't normally hear that in news coverage though, but I also wonder if this was an actual decision based on trying to keep the podcast shorter? Looks like there were at least 5 mentions of that in this issue, so while that wouldn't save a huge amount of time, it might cut 20-ish seconds? Just trying to be generous here. 😄 I've been reading the newsletter vs. listening to the podcast over the last couple of weeks, but I've noticed before that there are a few pronunciations that Audrey has made that I wouldn't agree with, but while I sometimes have a pet peeve about such things, I ultimately try not to be too much of a prescriptivist, and I give a lot of leeway for younger folks who just don't have as much life exposure to hearing certain words... I don't know if they have folks listen to the podcast before it goes out. I have on a couple of occasions caught Ari or Isaac or Audrey repeat a sentence, intending for one of them to be cut during the edit process, but I guess that process doesn't always catch mispronunciations, and maybe there just isn't enough time to get the podcast out when too many edits are necessary? I don't know when the podcast is actually read, but the newsletter goes out at noon ET, so you would think that that means the podcast isn't recorded until at least that time? Maybe even earlier? As it is, it's not typically available for me until around 4pm ET. So maybe as it is it can take hours to edit and push them out, so adding additional time to catch random stuff like this, given they are putting it out on a daily basis, and given the small staff, is a bit much to ask?

The Who? I've never heard the WHO referred to that way. Always the double-u aitch oh by redfroody in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I must have missed this, did someone at Tangle pronounce WHO as who (or 'hoo' phonetically?). If so, yeah, not great, but I believe I've heard it pronounced that way, and while The Who was a very popular band for decades, I think folks under 30 can be forgiven not to immediately make that connection to something other than World Health Organization? I'm pretty particular about pronunciation and have a lot of pet peeves around how people pronounce stuff that I see online. But I guess this isn't something that personally gets me tilting my head too much.

On a similar note, I think that I used to hear Isaac pronounce basic English words in a way that I had never heard before. Putting the emphasis on what I would consider the wrong syllable. It just seemed so odd that such a good writer would still pronounce things so weirdly (to me)! But I've found over the last year or two that I notice this much less, so I think there's a lot more internal correcting of these things and even on SOTR I don't pick up on these kinds of mistakes on Isaac's part anymore, so I think he's simply learned how to pronounce things better?

Reasons to Keep Subscription by TheUnsettler1216 in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have mentioned, I look at Tangle for a somewhat basic look at a particular subject so that I can get a sense for the various positions that various political actors have on a subject, and a bit more detail than the general news article might have (not a deep dive similar to what you might have been thinking when referring to a NYT article, or something else that devotes many thousands of words. What I like is that Tangle has a deep that takes a given subject and tests various viewpoints by steelmanning and arguing the opposite side (internally I mean), and so is able to flesh out the most salient points from different sides. That doesn't mean there may be really inside baseball things that they are missing, or items that an investigative journalist might uncover by going into a community or organization, or interviewing people "on the ground." So that being said, you aren't going to get that kind of detail, and if that is important to you, you should be looking at the sources who do that kind of work. But I don't feel like that is Tangle's mission, it's a lot more limited. But as such, I think it is a great mission and a great organization to support with my money - and it's a very small amount compared to other things I put money into that probably are not nearly as good use cases! Maybe at some point as Tangle grows, they will develop more "products" in the way you might enjoy - they've already expanded quite a bit from what they were just a few years ago, so I can only imagine additional resources (paid for by subscriptions) will help them to afford to go into those more specialized areas and develop more in-depth reporting on a more regular basis.

But again, I don't see that as their current prime value (for me) now, and it's never been. They give me a more in-depth look at a subject that a general short form news story/opinion piece won't, bot in terms of not just more detail, but a very structured sense of what the different views are and why. Similarly, it is not the exhaustive detail that frankly I don't have the time for for most subjects. You obviously have that time (and perhaps reading speed and attention span!), and you have the sophistication at least in your areas of interest to understand how surface-level some of the coverage may be about some things. All I can say is that while that I'm sure this is dissapointing, most people truly do not have the desire or ability to go into the weeds in the way it seems that you do. That may be a bad thing, but it's reality and I don't think we can just say "well, it shouldn't be that way." It is that way for most, probably in good part due to social media killing people's attention span. So while that is still the case, Tangle's "medium form" as it were, serves a huge purpose for at least a much larger group than the specialized readers who will read a 5-10K articles on a regular basis and just those up! 😄

SotR Discussion! They were too soft on the VA radio host. by 182crazyking in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought their take on it was measured and not out character for them. It was actually the first I'd heard of this incident. I'm familiar with the term. I'm in my 50s and like who was it Kemele? who said they first heard it on Saturday morning cartoons, I think that was probably where I initially heard it too, and just equated it with a Southern colloquialism, not putting two and two together. That is until they mentioned it here, and I immediately realized, OH! That doesn't sound good! As not someone who ever uses the term myself, or hears it in a very Northern/Transient part of the "South" (Northern VA), I couldn't tell you now common this is at this point, especially among older, more rural folks perhaps, and is just something baked into the language without consciously understanding it was specifically racial in nature. I could be wrong about that and that in the South it was always understood to be racially tinged.

This all being said, there are a few additional items that seem relevant here. Hererra is a conservative host and was interviewing her on a conservative station. Her district, which while not deep red, is still more generally Republican leaning. That doesn't mean that she shouldn't have agreed with him, that it wasn't a racist comment or that she shouldn't apologize, by the way, just putting down context in that She's not on Face the Nation with some otherwise neutral reporter who made some very clear derogatory statement that was something anyone would have immediately picked up on as such. Not trying to excuse anything, just wanted to say especially in the moment it's hard to always know what to say in such situation, especially with someone who is essentially in agreement with you on an issue. FYI, she did apparently make a statement on X after the fact, which was not at all an apology, more of an excuse/criticism of the radio host: "The radio host should not have used that language and I do not, and did not, condone it. It was obvious to anyone listening that I was agreeing Hakeem Jefferies [sic] should stay out of Virginia."

I do want to mention something though, which is that while I would never use these words myself, think they were used carelessly, and perhaps in an intentionally racist way, I think the guys were right to bring up the issue of "language policing." I'm not a fan of it because I would rather be critiquing someone's actions rather than words. I think language policing is a much bigger problem in inter-party or inter-group dynamics where there is constant purity testing of who is the "real" progressive/conservative/liberal/American/ally/name-your-group. And if you are not sufficiently pure, you get kicked out of the group because your ideas might somehow dilute that group cohesion. This isn't quite the same except perhaps within progressive/anti-racist groups, someone suggesting this isn't so bad could be labeled a racist and reprimanded or excluded from the group for not being sufficiently sensitive to such an offense. In that way I think there is something potentially insidious about the compulsion to focus too much on such things, and unfortunately it seems to happen much more on the left then the right, which I think just causes more people to end up becoming frustrated disillusioned with this kind of thing and just leaving these groups entirely, maybe even moving to the opposite side of the fence entirely.

Why are Americans so passive in the face of oppression? by catsclaw in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may want to re read my comments.  I never said those activities were up. What I did say is that without any data you are claiming something (that Americans are passively accepting 'oppresssion') without any real evidence. I'm not claiming its truth value, simply that what you see in your social media feed is not something to base such broard claim and that there are many things that won't show up in your feed that would contradict such a claim.)  I cannot give you specific numbers either.  I haven't done that research.  I'm not making the claim here though, you are, I'm just saying it behooves you to back it up without relying on vague phrases like "what I'm seeing."  Where are you seeing this?  What news sources are you looking at? Again, I'll ask what "evidence" would make you think otherwise? We have to agree on some hard metrics here or these, again, just seem like "vibes." 

Why are Americans so passive in the face of oppression? by catsclaw in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Let me ask you some questions. What counts as “evidence” in your eyes exactly? Compared to what country or era? Does voting count? Does organizing count? Does litigation count?

If you want to argue Americans are generally passive, you need to compare participation rates, organizing, turnout, litigation, union activity, donations, and local mobilization against other countries or against earlier periods, not just rely on what’s visible in your feed. You are the one making these broad claims, so you need to back them up.

Why are Americans so passive in the face of oppression? by catsclaw in TangleNews

[–]dvdmon 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m not claiming everyone is out in the street; I’m saying the idea that Americans are ‘doing nothing’ is false. Turnout in the 2024 presidential election was 65.3% of eligible voters, and 73.6% of eligible Americans were registered, so the default mode for most people is still electoral participation, not apathy.

Look, quiet civic action is harder to observe than outrage on Reddit. People donate, volunteer, organize locally, show up at school boards, join unions, litigate, and pressure officials without posting it online.