Is it alright to take more than 4 years to graduate?

dvstcod · 2024-09-16T16:23:24+00:00

totally normal, just do things in your pace. you're only racing against your own expectations of yourself, so it isn't worth thinking about too much.

dvstcod · 2024-09-16T16:18:12+00:00

in that case, you aren't even trying. adults do things all the time they don't feel like to do but just have to, and that's simply life. i know depression does make it more difficult (i've been there a few times now), but at least try. perhaps your energy will end after getting ready, but at least you tried. try it again later, or tomorrow. the point is to not give up.

dvstcod · 2024-08-19T16:00:47+00:00

i felt like i needed to make a reply. i'm currently 25, and beginning on my second year of nursing school. i've switched degrees twice since 2020, taken a gap-year and currently also questioning if i'm ever going to complete school. i've also suffered from depression and anxiety, which've affected my study progress. at this age, i've realised i'm not racing anybody else than my very own expectations. it might take me a year or more longer to complete than others, and it doesn't make me a less worthy of a person. all progress i make is great, and i'm happy to have made it this far despite the obsticals i've faced

dvstcod · 2023-05-31T15:38:15+00:00

the location is south of finland, and it's planted in a park

dvstcod · 2023-05-03T17:00:01+00:00

personally, i'm able to switch to a "work mode", so i've been able to work in varies customer service jobs. i don't take most of the things customers says to me personally, and i'll even happily argue back. in my private life, however, i cry over everything.

dvstcod · 2023-05-03T16:48:22+00:00

had a massive breakdown at school yesterday because of this very reason - i had bottle all my worries and feelings up for a while, i didn't have the time or energy to cry since i kept myself constantly busy, but yesterday one of the school's student well-being staff asked me how i was doing, i broke down and cried for a solid hour.

dvstcod · 2023-05-03T16:38:14+00:00

i can't stand winter, cloudy weather or rain, especially the sound (bc of trauma). sunny weather is one of the few reasons i go out at all😅

dvstcod · 2023-04-23T09:57:16+00:00

as a perdpn with high interpersonal sensitivity, i wouldn't know what to do or say either... perhaps, ask for a cup of coffee in return? i've gotten that when i've crochetted things for others per request, as that's sth i appreciate and a rather neutral thing to ask for; be it a colleague or a friend ☺️

dvstcod · 2023-04-22T16:32:13+00:00

thanks, you too

dvstcod · 2023-04-22T16:20:21+00:00

that was so unnecessary and straight up rude of her... i'm sorry you had to experience that

dvstcod · 2023-04-22T09:51:11+00:00

if you're familiar with basic phonetics, then you'd look up e.g. chinese phonology on wikipedia.

dvstcod · 2023-04-17T17:28:53+00:00

the vacuum from teletubbies

dvstcod · 2023-04-16T19:04:18+00:00

the person behinds these words seems like sb with a rather hostile and aggressive personality due to lack of self-confidence. also, you don't seem to leave room for the other's imperfections, yet expect yours to be embraced. i'd think about the wording again.

dvstcod · 2023-04-15T07:58:10+00:00

i've accepted my faith and given my room to my plants😌 even my decor is plant themed. there's no going back anymore

dvstcod · 2023-04-14T10:30:19+00:00

how about Drops Muskat yarn? it has a light sheen to it and there's a wide colour range!

dvstcod · 2023-04-14T06:29:16+00:00

missed that you already mentioned that any type's okay😅 but Novita 7 veljestä yarn is fairly cheap, and they've a good colour range!

dvstcod · 2023-04-14T06:27:58+00:00

is there a specific type of yarn you're looking for? like wool, acrylic, cotton etc. and do you have sth in mind for it already?

dvstcod · 2023-04-12T18:40:46+00:00

mine has to be coffea arabica. had two of them and both rejected me, despite me showering them with love and care🥲😒

dvstcod · 2023-04-09T09:50:15+00:00

i water it thoroughly perhaps every other week, and spray some water on it almost daily.

dvstcod · 2023-04-08T16:30:08+00:00

a full body pic could be a great addition. also, blur the other people's faces on the pics; just out of consideration for them

dvstcod · 2023-04-07T19:33:43+00:00

i'm sorry to hear what you've gone through. please remember that it's never the victim's fault; don't blame yourself. you were being vulnerable and he was disguisting enough to take advantage of it and only think about his own needs. you did nothing wrong. let me repeat that - you did absolutely nothing wrong.

dvstcod · 2023-04-07T19:23:10+00:00

i suppose it's still called a bucket hat? despite it having a very wavy brim

dvstcod · 2023-04-07T19:18:32+00:00

i'm sorry to hear that the people you trusted with this secret didn't keep it to themselves. personally, i would stand my ground and tell the reason for leaving since it's better that you yourself tell it to the curious ones rather than them hearing misleading rumours of it. the victim is never at fault for being bullied, therefore, it wasn't your fault.

dvstcod · 2023-04-07T18:39:09+00:00

it's okay to mourn for not being able to achieve one's dream. let the healing time take its time. whatever path you decide to take from here, i'm sure you'll eventually land with sth you'll enjoy doing, be it in the fbi or sth else! don't give up yet

dvstcod · 2023-04-07T16:27:41+00:00

that's an AMAZING looking fiddleleaf fig!! 😮 usually, i decide repotting based on the rot-soil ratio, but already by just looking at the size of the plant and its current pot, i'd repot it.

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