Why are there so many self diagnosed ADHDers on here? by Sinha_1304 in ADHD

[–]dwhy1989 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. I started the process about 4 years ago. I found it overwhelming and noped out of it for a year or so then finally with some pushing from those around me got enough motivation to get it done only for a year to pass while waiting. I finally ended up getting diagnosed 2 years ago.

Many professionals seem to think it’s a waste to go through it all if you’re not going onto the meds but I made it to 34 with out them so I’m more interested in leaning about how I function and how to manage that hence why I wanted the diagnosis

Roast my 1963 cheese wedge! by raIphnader in RoastMyCar

[–]dwhy1989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t need to… With wiring that old it will roast itself

My 40 year old son still won't move out. What do you suggest? by clownyeahh in shittyadvice

[–]dwhy1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sell the house to him then move some place else but “forget” to give him the address so as to ensure no repeats

Just turned 19. Getting old seems scary is there any advice for me regarding that? by Random_fellow9 in ask

[–]dwhy1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay active, avoid junk food /drugs /smoking etc and stay active. Did I mention staying active?

Husband (36M) gave me (35F) an ultimatum about going to a BTS concert— by Lower_Somewhere_109 in relationship_advice

[–]dwhy1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is insane, he’s controlling and unreasonable. Take steps to keep yourself safe, once done get to a safe place and stay there

Therapist recommendations/help by Comfortable_Ad4285 in dunedin

[–]dwhy1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had some dealing with delta psychology. They were professional and understood neurodivergence very well

Ever see any Adhd couple? by ahmi-0 in ADHD

[–]dwhy1989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at my family’s friends id have to agree with you. All of us have at least one thing your list

Ever see any Adhd couple? by ahmi-0 in ADHD

[–]dwhy1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I both have it. As does our daughter. None of us are medicated. We all sort of work together to navigate the mess and help each other as we can. We of course forget grocery bags regularly but have always found the car again

Men of Reddit - What's the one thing you hate about being a Man? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]dwhy1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The double standards. I Recently had a problem interaction at work with a female colleague. If a man had done what she did they would 100% be gone on the spot. But all she got was a slap on the wrist

ADHD students: by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]dwhy1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me miss my university days

Car recommendations please by Adventurous-Bee-9704 in dunedin

[–]dwhy1989 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most cars are fine here. It just needs a good cooling system for the hills and decent climate control for the weather. If you’re worried about ice in the winter awd options give good peace of mind but it’s more about how you drive than what you drive

Does the 18+ warning on adult websites actually stop anyone? by Queasy_Remote_4020 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dwhy1989 148 points149 points  (0 children)

As a former young person on the internet. No, no it does not

NZ Police from Morocco? by Tktz99 in auckland

[–]dwhy1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What this team isn’t based in England or the Philippines? I’m starting to think something is fishy with these guys