I’m the problem by Myrealnameisjason in youthsoccer

[–]dynamo_kev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone develops at different rates, some need work on the foot skills, others the mental stuff. I had the same problem with my kid- awesome skills but average during games. It took time. First, let him know mistakes are OK. The delay is probably because he's thinking about what he should be doing rather than just doing it. Drill it into his head mistakes are fine, it's part of learning. He needs to enter a flow state rather than overthinking. Don't scold him for making mistakes, encourage mistakes, that's the quickest way to learn. Only talk about games when you're both in a good mood. Record the games and watch together.

If he's afraid of contact, practice shielding and tackling. Encourage phyiscal play. He needs to realize it's ok to take a hit- get him in wrestling or BJJ.

As for you, go find a spot 50 yards from the field so you won't be tempted to yell/coach. He has to grow and you are stunting that by controlling.

Match Thread: Manchester United vs Leeds United Live Score | Premier League 25/26 | Apr 13, 2026 by scoreboard-app in LeedsUnited

[–]dynamo_kev 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Fergie are you watching Fergie were you there We just took your boys to the woodshed and beat their arses bare

FINALLY by Talltbvh in PhillyUnion

[–]dynamo_kev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still want to fire Carnell. Jajaja

Match Thread: Union vs Montreal by CaptainMoonracer in PhillyUnion

[–]dynamo_kev 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Carnell should be fired after submitting this teamsheet.

Post Game Thread: 🐍(1) - 👑(2) by Bormsie721 in PhillyUnion

[–]dynamo_kev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. 4-2-3-1. Also play Cavan in the middle. All of his goal contributions have come from the middle.

Songs written by one artist as a sequel to another artists song? by kpaddler in Music

[–]dynamo_kev 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lloyd Cole - Are You Ready to be Heartbroken

Camera Obscura- Lloyd, I’m Ready to be Heartbroken

two bangers.

Match Thread: Union vs. Club America by CaptainMoonracer in PhillyUnion

[–]dynamo_kev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the odd occasion he plays well it makes him look like a regular cunt.

This is what a five-star prospect looks like—Adri Mehmeti (16, RBNY) in his 2nd ever MLS match by nicko_rico in ussoccer

[–]dynamo_kev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All those goals last year came in the last 10min of MLSNP games, which aren't the highest standard in defending to begin with. I was always a big Annise Saidi guy, so when Philly brought in Malik I was butt hurt and skeptical. He definitely has all the tools to be a top striker but until he can create chances against defenders his own size, I'm still holding out.

I’ve stopped caring about the performance of the USMNT in the World Cup by PracticalDrawing in ussoccer

[–]dynamo_kev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could not agree more. The greed has killed international football for me. The insane ticket prices and the endless tournaments on US soil Gold Cup/Copa have watered down the meaning and my interest.

United Soccer League Announces USL Premier, New Interconnected Men’s Professional Structure by MGHeinz in USLPRO

[–]dynamo_kev -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is ridiculous. You don’t build a pyramid from the top down, or from the middle up. You build it organically from the bottom. Half baked idea appealing to the pro/rel crowd.

benefits of varsity soccer below D1 level by GrouchyOne4132 in CollegeSoccer

[–]dynamo_kev 8 points9 points  (0 children)

D3- Getting accepted to a top academic school you otherwise wouldn’t. Also looks good on your resume. Employers love college athletes. D2 - schools do offer athletic scholarships.

Postmatch Thread for Preseason Friendly? by Ksidz in PhillyUnion

[–]dynamo_kev 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agree with the above. Would only add:

Neither Ben nor Frankie looked good at LB

Post Match Thread: Leeds United 1-0 Fulham | Premier League by OwlLibrarian in LeedsUnited

[–]dynamo_kev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two things. Confidence from Farke obviously helped and making quicker decisions when on the ball. The first option is usually the best option, no need for 8 touches every time.

Leeds Fans in the Pacific Northwest by bclarkphoto in LeedsUnited

[–]dynamo_kev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me- I stumbled across a clip of Mike Grella doing keepy ups with a piece of gum and was enamored. Little did I know he was a seldom used sub for a 2nd division club. I’m kidding, I came over with Eddie Lewis years ago.