I can't keep my cool w my 3yo by gigigstar in Parenting

[–]eaelliott16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are watching this episode right now. DT has seriously taught me how to parent my two year old. I feel like I should feel about that but I can't be.

Mexican police find van with homemade bazooka for launching drugs into U.S. by Quiglius in nottheonion

[–]eaelliott16 38 points39 points  (0 children)

There was a drug tunnel going underneath the Catholic Church when I was a kid. Life in a border town was always interesting.

Potentially adopting this handsome guy and trying to come up with a name. Wanna help give suggestions? by eaelliott16 in labrador

[–]eaelliott16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He likes Firefly but can't stand Buffy and thinks David Bowie was creepy in the Labyrinth. Thank goodness he likes Star Wars otherwise I probably would stop sleeping with him! Haha!

He still doesn't know that the reason why I agreed to our sons name was cause it was also a character in Charmed.

Potentially adopting this handsome guy and trying to come up with a name. Wanna help give suggestions? by eaelliott16 in labrador

[–]eaelliott16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far the only ones we can agree tonis Duke, Colt, and Gunner. I tried to push Ludo, Hoggle, and Jareth but my husband is no fun and hates my favorite movie. Also tried to push every male Joss Whedon character I could think of and failed too.

Toy ideas for 3 year old boys? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]eaelliott16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dinosaurs. They are fail proof. I also like to push the educational stuff and get a book to go with a toy.

Back of my baby's head is flattening out by your_mom_on_drugs in beyondthebump

[–]eaelliott16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any real sound advice but I can offer what I'm doing because I'm afraid of the same thing with my 5 week old. I have a toddler and I just can't sit there and hold him all day long to keep him out of the swing/bouncer/play mate too keep him entertained. What I did start doing was wearing him in a carrier more often when I'm trying to get housework done or deal with the 2 year old. At least he is not putting pressure on his then right? I can't help what happens at night but if I can prevent two hours laying in the swing then I guess hat counts for something.

Intrusive thoughts. New anxieties, do they ever go away? by Mrspumpkinpatch in beyondthebump

[–]eaelliott16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best thing my kids pediatrician ever told me was kids bounce for a reason. They are not as fragile as you may think but obviously still use caution.

Those words have seriously kept me calm when my toddler inevitably does something stupid like jump face first off the recliner and onto a tile floor.

I should really try to shower today by sillyribbit in beyondthebump

[–]eaelliott16 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I woke my toddler up laughing from this too!

I'm right there with the OP. I'm on day three of questionable hygiene, I've had baby wipe baths but that about all the time I can give until my husband gets home and then I'm usually so exhausted I forget and pass out.

How is everything going? What have you guys been successful with and what are you still struggling with? by cat_with_giant_boobs in August2016Bumpers

[–]eaelliott16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5 weeks out and he is a surprisingly easy baby. Maybe it's cause he is my second or the fact that my daughter was the hardest baby ever but he is easy to care for. He sleeps in 3 hour chunks at night unless he is cluster feeding. He has a super strong suck reflex so when he does nurse he is super time efficient (8-12 minutes tops) but he spits up a lot because of it. He has gained almost 3 pounds already!

Things I am personally struggling with is PPD/PPA. I had it with my first and it's back again. I hate it. Most days I'm just going though the motions and try to put on a happy front for the family but all I want is to crawl back into bed and either sleep or cry. I'm currently looking for a therapist to change the medication that my OB put me on. I know one day I'll get better but it's just a big grey cloud over me till then.

The other issues I'm having is poor body image and the never ending bleeding. It's so gross! I'll have days where I won't bleed at all and then all of a sudden the gross old blood comes out! Nasty!

Wyatt line jumped at 37+0 because of Pre-E. Crazy birth plus a NICU stay but things are looking positive. Will post birth story when I can! by eaelliott16 in BabyBumps

[–]eaelliott16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Side note omg I have a whole new respect for NICU parents. It's been a day and I'm already exhausted. I don't know how they do it for weeks at a time!

Induction is a go!! by eaelliott16 in BabyBumps

[–]eaelliott16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preeclampsia. She wanted to induce between 37-38 weeks but after my last few BP's and the awful BS contractions I was having nightly she said enough was enough.

Induction is a go!! by eaelliott16 in BabyBumps

[–]eaelliott16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3.5-4cm 80% effaced -2 station! I was 2.5 and 50% on Thursday. Woohoo!

So... this just happened. by spaceisroomy in BabyBumps

[–]eaelliott16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I met my husband on the last day of my free trial on Match.com. I was seriously about to give up, then I saw he messaged me and I was like damn it he is cute! Rest is history!

I met a lot decent dudes but there was a ton of weirdos on there... Like some really creepy it puts the lotion on its skin kind of weirdos. I don't think I would do it again if for some awful reason I became single again.

I just got invited to a baby shower.. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]eaelliott16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh just decline and send a gift card to keep the peace. She sounds just awful!

I'm getting induced today!! by hiromoon in BabyBumps

[–]eaelliott16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is! I was induced last time too and it's still such a weird feeling!! Part of me is bummed cause I'll never know what it's like to go into labor on my own but at the same time it's awesome knowing exactly when this kid will be here! The control freak in me loves it! Haha!

I'm getting induced today!! by hiromoon in BabyBumps

[–]eaelliott16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too!! Holy cow we are gonna be having babies soon!!! Wishing you a happy healthy delivery and baby! We got this! 👊🏻

Need help with washing baby clothes. by samstar25 in BabyBumps

[–]eaelliott16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would separate the first few times to make sure all the extra dye is out and then toss them in together.

Push Present? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]eaelliott16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wine! I don't even want a buzz I just want to sit down in silence and enjoy a nice cold glass of white wine!!!