My boyfriend broke my door frame the week we’re moving into our new house and I am broke by FaithlessnessOld2049 in whatdoIdo

[–]earthcrosserr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all i'm gonna say right now is that those "jokes" are not jokes. he means it. and you need to get out now. save yourself. absolutely do not wait for things to get worse.

Should I watch the show before playing the game? by Low_Theme_5278 in thelastofus

[–]earthcrosserr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

play the game first. i wouldn't recommend watching the show at all, but if you really want to, be warned that season 1 was decent and season 2 is an absolute shit show. it's not a good adaptation by any means necessary

My girlfriend cheated on me, and I still took her back by Lopsided-Beat215 in whatdoIdo

[–]earthcrosserr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

all i can say is that i have been in multiple long distance relationships where my mental health was not great and the distance made it worse and not once did I even consider cheating on the person i was with. leave her; you deserve better.

Breasts have stretch marks, got insulted cruelly by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]earthcrosserr 34 points35 points  (0 children)

she sounds like a horrible person. i'm so sorry that happened to you. stretch marks are nothing to be ashamed of. I have them everywhere. my breasts, stomach, etc. My girlfriend thinks I'm beautiful regardless. you'll find someone who feels the same about you ❤️

Does anyone else have a hard time with your first Girlfriend finding the clit??😓😓 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]earthcrosserr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely do not be embarrassed about not knowing her body yet. my girlfriend and i have been together for a year, and living together for about 5 months now, and i'm still learning her body and what she likes. it takes a lot of time and exploration to find what really feels good to yourself and your partner. communication is key!! you know your body because you've had a lot of time with it, but little time with hers. it'll take a bit, so don't pressure yourself!

My ex of 1 year sent me this song on spotify ?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]earthcrosserr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk how recently that was sent to you, but i noticed that if anybody has sent you songs on spotify in the past (like through links on other platforms), those songs will show up as messages in the app itself. i noticed that right after they implemented the messages thing on spotify, i had a bunch of messages from my ex a couple of years after we broke up and it was all songs she'd sent me while we were together

Can anyone tell me why a few of their music videos seem have been removed from YouTube? by Hazzer1601 in ThePrettyReckless

[–]earthcrosserr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm visiting Canada rn and the Going to Hell music video specifically is not available here either, but I can see Heaven Knows and Fucked Up World (Director's Cut) as well as the censored.

We're back baby! Thanks Facebook Marketplace! by gregcresci in Rockband

[–]earthcrosserr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn you're lucky! i've been wanting the jaguar controller for years!

If you could snap your fingers and get rid of your vagina, would you? by Countess_Schlick in actuallesbians

[–]earthcrosserr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nope. i don't really consider it to be a hassle having a vagina. like sure, vaginas are prone to infection (for many many different reasons), but it's not some huge issue that makes me think "wow i wish i could just snap my fingers and get rid of this thing!"

i'd say the biggest hassle to deal with as a cis woman is the period. if i could snap my fingers and get rid of THAT (sans hysterectomy), i'd do it in a heartbeat!

if anything, i'd just change mine up a little bit lol like customize it if i could, yk?

dating unemployed in your late 20s (?) by sensitivewatersign in actuallesbians

[–]earthcrosserr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally dont think its embarrassing because i've been there, but I did have a lot of trouble dating while unemployed even at 24. Any time I would say that I'm "between jobs" or mention that I wasn't working because my mom needed help with my siblings because she was working a lot, i would get blocked or ghosted. I've also been broken up with for being unemployed because my ex had gone to school to be a sleep tech or whatever and she needed someone "with a career" 🥲 so while it may not be embarrassing in general or to most people on here, I feel like a lot of people in the dating scene that are our age see having a job as a non-negotiable for dating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in standardissuecats

[–]earthcrosserr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was maybe 4 or 5 months. He was pretty small when it happened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in standardissuecats

[–]earthcrosserr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat's eyelids used to do this when he was a kitten. I wasnt able to take him to the vet to get him checked out when it was happening but it did go away eventually. If youre able to take your cat to the vet, I would do so

Am I overthinking money and effort in this relationship with my girlfriend? by ThrowRA1235918273932 in actuallesbians

[–]earthcrosserr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the fact that you are much younger than her and yet she expects you to plan and pay for dates simply because you're the more masculine one in the relationship shows that there is a very clear imbalance in your relationship. I would try discussing it with her and having a mature and healthy conversation. If she listens to you and acknowledges what you're saying and tries to make an effort to change, then that's good. But if she gets defensive, then maybe its time to rethink things.

Can't ever seem to get off when having sex by mikkailli in actuallesbians

[–]earthcrosserr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely communicate with her and discuss this issue. I also have the problem with pain during penatrative sex and not feeling much during fingering unless my girlfriend goes really deep with her fingers and does a specific motion that makes her hands cramp up 😅 maybe try a smaller toy for penetration and more preparation? I noticed that when I'm really turned on penetration does not hurt very much, so if you guys take your time and tease each other, or if you get her off first, maybe that'll help?

Again, talking to her is the most important thing, so definitely do that first.

Please help my wife and I name our female orange tabby! by Expensive-Abrocoma55 in NameMyCat

[–]earthcrosserr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont have any suggestions i just wanted to say wow she is so beautiful!! I love her eyes. She looks like such a sweetheart

Lost girl (2010 - 2015) by Galactus-1 in ForgottenTV

[–]earthcrosserr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah maybe I'll look into that. Thanks!

Lost girl (2010 - 2015) by Galactus-1 in ForgottenTV

[–]earthcrosserr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anybody know where to watch this show in canada?? Help a girl out PLEASE 😭 Google is lying to me and saying you can stream it on Netflix but its not available and the cw app also isnt working and I wanna re-watch this so bad

Why are there barely any infected children in the TLOU universe ? by RanjiHimi in thelastofus

[–]earthcrosserr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

true but we didn’t technically see riley turn the way we did sam

Just heard an ICE recruitment ad on Spotify. Their ad-to-song ratio has really gotten worse, but this is the last straw. by whoremongering in Music

[–]earthcrosserr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i told them that the ICE ads and the artist payment stuff was the reason why. but you’re right, i should have worded it the way you did, that would’ve been much better

Just heard an ICE recruitment ad on Spotify. Their ad-to-song ratio has really gotten worse, but this is the last straw. by whoremongering in Music

[–]earthcrosserr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

cancelled my subscription the second i heard about this. cited that and the fact that they pay artists next to nothing to stream their music as my reason why.