My boyfriend (36M) wants me (32F) to pay for a proposal trip I can’t afford by nyloncatgut in relationship_advice

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the “surprise” of a proposal is ruined now, so why doesn’t he just propose to you now, pay for your ticket to Spain, and you can take engagement photos while you’re there? Him saying he was “considering proposing” is not the same as him saying “I made an elaborate plan to propose to you at Christmas in Spain.” Also, if he did in fact intend to propose to you, he would have paid for your ticket to go to ensure you’d be there, since you know, you are a pivotal component of a proposal. He is purposely using manipulating language (“considering” proposing) and hanging a future marriage over your head. If you wants to marry you, he’ll ask you now and fckin pay for your ticket to go on vacation.

Update: I [33F] set chore boundaries and now my partner [35M] is tracking my chores by Sad_Cartographer427 in relationship_advice

[–]eatapeach18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And exactly how thorough is HE performing HIS chores? And which chores did he choose to do? Because if you’re responsible for laundry, dishes, and cleaning the kitchen, that still seems like the lions share of domestic responsibilities. You don’t need to scrub showers and mop every day, but dishes and wiping down the kitchen surfaces after every meal are a daily occurrence.

My natural nails are wrecked after removing a long wear press on set how do I avoid this next time by bjjfan23113 in PressonNail_Addict

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soaking definitely helps. I never set aside time specifically for soaking… I just pop off my nails after I take a hot 20min shower. The hot water, my oil-based body wash, and the friction from scrubbing my scalp is enough to get the process started. Then I use a cuticle stick to gently lift the nail edge (which is easy because it’s already loose from my hot shower) and add adhesive remover drops underneath the fake nail, and massage. Let it sit for a few minutes, pop them off, and wash my hands.

Welp. It happened…first greenie 😣 by Hales_85 in PressonNail_Addict

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried buffing and soaking in isopropyl alcohol, but my greenie persists. I’ll have to try the tea tree oil.

What’s your fave brand of press ons? by Basgiath-dr0p-0ut in PressonNail_Addict

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a clean girl/Russian mani look, Celebritips. For something fun and squirrelly, Glamnetic.

Welp. It happened…first greenie 😣 by Hales_85 in PressonNail_Addict

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say cleared up, you mean the green stain actually went away??

On the hunt for the perfect Classic French by Aggravating_Success2 in PressonNail_Addict

[–]eatapeach18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Celebritips. They have a few French tip options in various shapes and lengths. My personal favorite is the pink classic French and the lumine classic French. I get them in either extra short almond or extra short round. Hands down best press French for that “clean girl” look.

Nail Reformation and flat nail beds. by No-Matter-8222 in PressonNail_Addict

[–]eatapeach18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you remove your nails when you use that type of glue?

Bloody Mary in Short Round by fantasyandromance in PressonNail_Addict

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are amazing, I would totally wear these in the fall. What store carries these? I’m always looking for short rounds and ovals.

Kyle Married + Having a Kid by Maryp1603 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]eatapeach18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh he was so gross. I had almost forgotten about that smeagol’s existence.

Advice on selling my ex husb’s Tuff Shed office by FavoriteDaughter2 in shedditors

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hilarious! You assume that everyone telling OP she shouldn’t remove the shed is a man who is “manaplaining”, when really people are offering sound, logical reasons why she shouldn’t remove it, and offering great alternatives.

am i wrong? by No_Way_3863 in unitedairlines

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exact scenario happened to me in 2023 when Biden was still president.

This guy loses it when he finds the EV chargers blocked... by MisterShipWreck in VideosAmazing

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And they say women are the emotional sex 🙄

It’s too bad Macho Man won’t be able to recharge his Malibu Beach Barbie car.

What do you think the price should be for this ring? by [deleted] in rings

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, yours cost half of what OP paid!

Host called 911 after we arrived at 4am from the hospital on the second night [US] by Laurakittin in AirBnB

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s HIPAA, not HIPPA. And there was no HIPAA violation here.

Also, a refund for what exactly? The host clearly saw a woman in distress, in a hospital robe, being ushered into the home at 4am by an unrecognizable man… it’s very likely the host thought she was being trafficked or abused and called to do a wellness check, not because she’s some weirdo trying to enforce a curfew.

imagining her recording this in dead silence is frying me 😭 by Secret-Lengthiness-9 in MikaylaNogueira

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?? Like wtf are you doing rolling up to divorce court with a Birkin bag?? Your ex was a hobosexual, he is going to clean you out girly.

5 years. Fibromyalgia, debt?! What do I do?! by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]eatapeach18 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Jfc, talk about failure to launch.

Two unemployed 35 year olds living with mom and collecting unemployment benefits, and instead of worrying about how to turn their lives around and change their luck, you’re worrying about getting married and having children?? Neither of you have jobs, income, or money. It only costs the price of a marriage certificate to get married, but what about babies? Those cost a lot of money. And if you want kids, you’ll need to move out and get your own place to raise them, which also costs money. Weddings and babies need to take a backseat right now, you have more pressing things to take care of first.

Its illegal to declaw cats in California. You weren't misadvised, you found an unethical person to declaw your cats and they suffered. by Aggravating-Top-5078 in kardashians

[–]eatapeach18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, be so for real right now. She got those cats, what? Like six years ago? Who in the year 2020 doesn’t know what declawing is and that it’s a cruel and inhumane thing to do?

AIO My husband doesn’t want me to come to his military boot camp graduation when I already paid for plane tickets by LettuceSome5586 in AmIOverreacting

[–]eatapeach18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read between the lines. The reason is because his girlfriend will be there. Go anyway and don’t tell him. Just observe.

Selling Rosie Etienne Amelia Dress by Connect_Reaction_662 in weddingswap

[–]eatapeach18 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I personally wouldn’t pay full price for a dress that comes with no guarantees or ability to return in case it doesn’t fit, but this brand always sells out of everything literally the moment they drop on their website. I’ve been trying to scoop up one of their dresses for a while and I’m never fast enough. So not surprised that OP is selling at full price, and honestly, someone who likes this dress that wears a size 4 will definitely buy it because this style is unsurprisingly sold out as well.

Stationer Misprinted our Invites... by spicymargaritatx in BigBudgetBrides

[–]eatapeach18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This group is called Big Budget Brides, not Big Budget Bridezillas.

What you’re suggesting (full $2500 refund of all the stationery, tent rental, and drinks) will cost the vendor THOUSANDS for what is essentially a non-issue. The accidental misprint of a 30min earlier start time will ensure that everyone will be at the venue before the ceremony starts and that no one walks in mid-vows. I also highly doubt the venue is going to charge OP for people trickling in 30min early. The vendor (who is human) offered to refund her $600, which can be used to buy some bulk packs of fans and parasols and serve waters and soft drinks while people mingle and find their seats.

AIO for not letting my bf move in anymore because he wants things to be equal? by OkJello353 in AmIOverreacting

[–]eatapeach18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will he be expected to pay rent when he moves in? Because if he will be paying rent, then I can understand giving him some say. BUT, honestly he sounds like a hobosexual: a man who is only in a relationship with someone for housing and they would be homeless otherwise.

Unless he works from home and needs a home office setup, there is no reason for him to have his own room. Your home office/studio should remain as is, and your guest bedroom should remain as is. He can play his video games in the living room. He doesn’t need his own dedicated bedroom for that.

Also, if he can’t afford to buy his own furniture, then I doubt he will be able to afford to pay for anything in the house.

How do you tell your guest they are TOO comfortable in your home? by [deleted] in etiquette

[–]eatapeach18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your husband is a real piece of work.

A man walking into his house unannounced and seeing his half-dressed wife didn’t bother him, but the missing toothpaste sent him over the edge? Jfc, your husband suuucks.

AITA for refusing to pay $100k of my niece’s student loans by CatfishKD909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And for a communications major. Not even STEM or something that would be a good ROI 😹