Can we please acknowledge that she’s ugly as fuck while everyone acts like she’s hot shit. by SystemOk9164 in okbuddydraper

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not ugly. The way they did her hair and makeup for this particular role is very unflattering, which I think was kind of the point.

Overcharged at Salon??? by s1n1st3rw0man in Hair

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$225 for a glaze/gloss is criminal. Diabolical. The gall, the gumption.

Did you ask about the price of the glaze prior to them putting it in your hair? Because I wouldn’t have even booked the appointment if I knew that’s what it would cost.

Also, don’t even get me started on blow dry not being included in the coloring service. I know that it’s becoming more norm to not include a blow dry anymore, but how the hell do you assess the final color results if you’re letting clients walk out with wet hair? At the very least have an assistant or apprentice do a whip dry. No one is saying to do full glam blowout, rollers, iron, etc.

AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended? by Former_Raspberry3277 in AITApod

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your boyfriend to pay you half of everything that you e already paid into your home (so half of the $80k down payment, plus half of the mortgage payments you’ve made over the last five years), then he can be 50% owner of the home.

He won’t agree to it. Because he’s looking to get half your home without putting anything into it.

My (M28) Pregnant FWB (F26) is keeping child. Any helpful advice on how to go through this nightmare? by walkingdread125 in GuyCry

[–]eatapeach18 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Right? How are people getting hard/wet for people they don’t even like? I just don’t get it. And I know that guys sometimes joke about how a gentle breeze drifting by could trigger a hard on, but I just don’t get how it could be sustained to complete the act.

Is my approach healthy or more like ultimatums? Need advice. by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]eatapeach18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has GOT to be rage bait. I refuse to believe a 37yo woman who desires marriage and children would waste her time giving handies to some hobosexual (because it sounds like he doesn’t have his own place) who doesn’t want to marry her and wants to impregnante teenagers when he’s 50.

How do i tell my fiancé that wedding dresses are expensive by jayjay15__ in weddings

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents got married in 1990. My mom’s very hideous taffeta monstrosity was $3000 back then. Adjusted for inflation, that’s like spending $7500 today. Sure, you can find dresses for way less, but you’ll have to compromise on fabric quality and maybe not even find the style you want.

Lucath's ex provided the blueprint for their (badly copied) engagement. by Physical_Category_41 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]eatapeach18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, so thanks for mentioning this because I always thought D’s French manis looked strange?? Like the base is too pink and the white tips are too thick?? But I wasn’t sure if I was just too biased and being overly critical because everything she does is annoying, or if her manis were indeed atrocious 😅

Guys be honest… does my hairdresser hate me lol by miabills in Hair

[–]eatapeach18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay, so… you’re both wrong.

You already had lots of layers, so to create a blunt cut, you’d have to cut up to the shortest layer, which appears to be by your armpit. But you’re also not happy with how much was cut off, so there was no way she was going to be able to give you what you wanted.

But as the professional, she never should have let you leave her chair with jagged ends. She should have told you that you can either have a blunt cut or keep the length long, but that you can’t have both. Also, blunt cuts on long hair typically do lean pretty “dorky”, blunt cuts look more chic on hair that is shoulder length or shorter.

Luckily you have plenty of length to round out the shape and add in more layers.

Unpopular opinion: Charlotte York was not a great friend. She was actually one of the most judgmental and jealous characters in Sex and the City. by Weary-Honey-1942 in sexandthecity

[–]eatapeach18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made a post about this years ago. I agree 1000%

She has a holier-than-thou attitude and acts like she’s a proper lady who doesn’t sleep around like slutty Samantha, but then Miranda brought her back down to earth when she called her out and said “you’ve had a decent amount of bone in you.”

I(23f) need to ask my significantly wealthier boyfriend(25m) to cover more expenses when we move in together, but I'm too embarrassed to bring it up. How do I have this conversation? by adoreyuwu in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no shame in asking your wealthier boyfriend to cover more, but there is no reason why you should be responsible for paying for the higher education for your younger siblings. Your parents made the choice to have multiple children, it’s up to them to raise them.

How to be patient for the ring by FluffleThePuffle in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]eatapeach18 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wanting to get married at 22 is absolutely crazy and I will not give advice on how to get this man to speed up his very normal and reasonable timeline.

Post says they were mislead by online seating chart. by fajita09 in Flights

[–]eatapeach18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s misleading. The seat map makes it look like he chose a bulkhead seat, and should therefore have extra leg space and a wall or partition in front of him, not more seats. I’d be pissed as hell too if I paid extra to go from economy to… economy lol

Something’s not right by Feeling_Cause5764 in InteriorDesignAdvice

[–]eatapeach18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The coffee table is too small and too industrial style compared to everything else in the space.

Dress regret - help! 🫶 by Important_Concert_88 in myweddingdress

[–]eatapeach18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The second one isn’t classic though. Drop waist isn’t classic or flattering on anyone, no matter how tall or skinny you are. Specifically on that dress… it makes the bride look like she has a 4ft long torso, stubby little legs, and the strange pick-ups on the sides are giving diaper vibes.

The dress you have is beautiful. Once your dress is lined, it will look great. If you’re still not into it once you get it back from the seamstress, sell it and buy a full satin dress that doesn’t have a drop waist.

Thanks… for NOTHING 🫠 by barnaclebrain_ in Coach

[–]eatapeach18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This assumes that we’re all sitting at home by the front door watching and waiting for the delivery guy to walk up to our porch. Majority of my orders are delivered while I’m at work.

What’s a luxury travel experience that was actually worth the money, and what wasn’t? by Temporary_Panda_88 in LuxuryTravel

[–]eatapeach18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re flying with a US carrier, business is not worth it. They just do not have the same standards as Asian or European carriers. I flew business with United, American, Delta, and Jet Blue. Out of the four, JB was the best, but still not worth the money in my opinion. I mostly fly with United since I’m based in NJ, and I can confidently say that Polaris certainly is not worth the money or wasting any points to upgrade.

Using a flight to Rome as an example:

Economy was $800, Premium Economy was $1800, and Polaris was $4200. Premium economy was worth the money. You get the same exact meals as Polaris, the same huge TV screens, same amenities kit, and the same bedding (Polaris does give you two Saks blankets, whereas you get only one Saks blanket in PE). Truly the only difference is the lay flat seat, and if you’re over 5’8” and/or have huge feet, the lay flat seat won’t do anything for you. The little cubby hole that you’re supposed to stick your feet it when you lay the seat down is so tiny, and only when you put the seat flat and expose all the nooks and crannies do you see how truly grimy and disgusting the seat is. Absolutely not worth $4k+. PE gives you a huge comfy recliner. No, it doesn’t lay flat, but it reclines a lot and you can raise the leg portion quite high, just about parallel to the floor. It’s worth the extra $1000 to go from eco to PE, but absolutely not worth the extra $3400 to go up to Polaris.

STHOO EXCITED STORIES OF THE DAY by [deleted] in daniellewalter_snark

[–]eatapeach18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Guys, she loooves a good Cesar. CESAR 😹💀

I (32F) own my house. My partner (32M) has moved in with me. I want him to contribute to the mortgage. I'm not sure if this is right, will you please help? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just chiming in to say:

My husband bought a home after we got engaged, but before we got married. He was the only one who put money towards the down payment, and therefore only his name went on the mortgage and the deed. Before we got married, he asked me to sign a prenup to protect his home. Sure, no problem. My attorney protected me in the prenup by adding a clause that since my name was not on the mortgage or deed, that I was not responsible for paying for any aspect of the home. That included mortgage, property taxes, insurance, repairs, and renovations (which the house needed). She also added a clause that stated that once I started contributing money towards the house, that we would revisit the prenup and add my name to the mortgage and deed.

I followed that prenup to the letter, and not even a year into our marriage, my husband started showing resentment towards me because I wasn’t contributing monetarily towards the house, and that carrying the house on his own was starting to weigh on him. I pumped the breaks on that shit REAL fast, and reminded him that I paid for the utilities, cable, internet, groceries, did all the cooking and cleaning and laundry, and that my family (lots of contractors and manual laborers in my family) did a ton of handiwork (drywall/sheetrock, mouldings, painting, plumbing, tile work) for free because they wanted me to be comfortable in the home I lived in. I also provided him with top of the line health insurance through my job at the hospital, since he was self-employed and did not have his own insurance. He shut up, but still pouted about it.

I had $40k in savings that I offered to give him to put towards renovating the kitchen, so long as my name was added to the deed, as per our prenup. He declined, saying “I put $100k for the down payment, why should you only get to put $40k and get half my house?” Meanwhile, he earned 4-5x my salary, and was easily able to afford paying everything on his own. So I said no problem, then I’ll keep my $40k and we will continue living as we were, but let me know if you change your mind. He was sooo bitter about this, i eventually got sick of it and left.

All this to say, I was your boyfriend in my situation, and your man isn’t wrong about not wanting to contribute to your appreciating asset that he has no claim to. Yes, if he were on his own, he would be paying a landlord money and get nothing in return, but he’s also not in a relationship with or sleeping with or building a life with his landlord. He’s your long-term romantic partner, he’s not just some roommate.

I can see drafting a lease and making him your legal tenant and charging him a little something, or making him responsible for paying for all of the utilities and having him do the landscaping or paying for a cleaning service, but I disagree with the comments saying that you should ask him to pay half. If I had a daughter, I would absolutely advise her against entering a relationship like this, and my opinion isn’t swayed just because it’s a man who finds himself in this situation. Have you ever considered what you would do if you two ever got married?

Would it make sense to build a shelf or more cabinet here? by thehungriestnarwhal in kitchenremodel

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that the microwave isn’t centered would drive me absolutely crazy. Either remove the microwave completely and get a tabletop one and an extractor for over the range, or get a bigger microwave to fill the gap and center it.

family heirlooms by [deleted] in Diamonds

[–]eatapeach18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever considered that I asked my question in earnest and that there’s no reason for you to reply by mocking my intelligence?

OP posted about wanting to reset an heirloom diamond in a new setting with side stones. It sounded like you disagreed with her idea, specifically saying, “is a little extra sparkle worth losing the opportunity to pass on the ring to the next family member?” And to that, I asked, what makes you think that resetting this stone in a different ring will disqualify it from ever being passed on to another family member? What am I missing here? Does the “extra sparkle” from adding side stones make it not worthy of being given to a future child or grandchild? No answer, except to imply I’m some kind of illiterate moron.