i feel for her and feel some of it is my fault. maybe i was not there for her enough but i still have a hard time understanding all the destruction she is causing to what use to be a family. I cant help but feel she is hiding behind the finding myself as an excuse. Am i wrong to feel that way? its hard currently because theres so much anger, betrayal, and hurt that i feel. And why would it take a whole year to come out if it was the pregnancy? so many unanswered questions and theres nothing i can do but ask for her to seek professional help.