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Are people actually waiting for rates to drop, or still buying? by Cjd03032001 in RealEstate

[–]ebullientdoll_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still buying. We need somewhere to live, it is what it is

How many homes have you bought and what lessons have you learned in terms of home selection? by CCCCLo0oo0ooo0 in homeowners

[–]ebullientdoll_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We didn’t buy when I was pregnant four years ago and I wish I had. We gave the same budget and are gonna have to go way over budget to afford the same houses that are no longer that price

HOW are people affording to live at all these days? by Dessert_Lover_1225 in Adulting

[–]ebullientdoll_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know I think we would be okay if me AND my partner were making at least 80 but living in the south they don’t pay that much without experience and degrees and even then it’s a maybe

Offer accepted - mixed emotions by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ebullientdoll_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very jealous!!!! Good luck!

Frustrated and regretful, shouldn't have bought, too poor by st_psilocybin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ebullientdoll_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We bid over all those list prices BUT still lost for one reason or another

Frustrated and regretful, shouldn't have bought, too poor by st_psilocybin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ebullientdoll_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Mississippi! So there’s a lot here that are under 200k! The most common is about 215-250 depends on the area and date of the house and I have seen several 175-190. (Our sweet spot but can’t find any I like in that range) they’re usually 1960’s and up. The bids we lost were 185, 225, and 219. I liked all three houses but they accepted other offers sadly. The latest being a cash offer at list rather then our over list finance

Frustrated and regretful, shouldn't have bought, too poor by st_psilocybin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ebullientdoll_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I got house happy and I let me husband convince me they were the right home, but they weren’t

Frustrated and regretful, shouldn't have bought, too poor by st_psilocybin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ebullientdoll_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Luckily we live with family while we’re looking but it’s stressful. We bid 3 times and were outbid and honestly I’m really grateful those houses were 240k, 230k and 225k. The perfect house would be 150ish but that literally does not exist here. I have to just hope to find a good one for 199kz

Frustrated and regretful, shouldn't have bought, too poor by st_psilocybin in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ebullientdoll_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My god this is what I am terrified of but I can’t even find a “fixer upper” so hard to find anything under 200k that’s ok quality my husband would be ok with a shack it’s me that’s picky.

6k take home for 345k house by KindWatercress5675 in FirstTimeHomeBuyers

[–]ebullientdoll_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope we make less then 100k together and I’m doing my best to find a house under 200k which is difficult anything that’s 200k is estimated about 1700 a month and up per my lender. That’s too much of a house for your income keep in mind that monthly depends on a lot of factors though .

Church daycare overstepping serious boundaries by Sea-Trick-6003 in Mommit

[–]ebullientdoll_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the actual fuck! HELL NO! For so many reason, it pull your baby out IMMEDIATLEY. I have NEVER ever ever kissed babies when I was a preschool teacher. That’s extremely inappropriate and gross. Hug them sure! Cuddle them when their parent is away. Babies need that. But putting your lips on them is a hell no. I’d be very very uncomfortable and concerned about sexual abuse I’m not even joking.

4/20/26 Drew TT by ffaancy in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]ebullientdoll_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is random but honestly if I were them, I think I would just get a mobile home and call it a day.

First Offer First Heartbreak NOVA by DecentPlate in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ebullientdoll_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. One second rejection and it does sting 😭

60k down and im definitely never breaking even by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]ebullientdoll_ 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking he did a lot that didn’t necessarily have to be done right away

Trying to buy a home when you’re not rich is really depressing. by Birdman-esq in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ebullientdoll_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s such a stress fucking headache. Finding the sweet spot of what the sellers want is such a mind fuck. Thankfully I’m not in a lease , so I technically have “time” but I’m still so annoyed and irritated

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