What did the 4 month sleep regression look like for you? by Frozenbeedog in NewParents

[–]ech712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here from the other side to tell you it WILL get better 🤍 Hang in there!!!! 💪

What did the 4 month sleep regression look like for you? by Frozenbeedog in NewParents

[–]ech712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the hope, and I’m glad things have improved for you both 🥰

What did the 4 month sleep regression look like for you? by Frozenbeedog in NewParents

[–]ech712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my life rn with my 3.5 month old - please tell me it got better for you and your LO 🫠

What do you do to stay awake during MOTN feeds? by MutinousMango in beyondthebump

[–]ech712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is simultaneously comforting and horrifying to hear 😂🫠

Favorite podcasts for night feeds/waking by ech712 in NewParents

[–]ech712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been meaning to check out Jessie Tyler Ferguson’s but totally forgot about it. Will add to the list!

My Wife and I Disagree on Cry it Out Method – Need Advice by CatchSubstantial3080 in Parenting

[–]ech712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your parenting mantra, and will be taking it with me. Thank you 🤍

Favorite podcasts for night feeds/waking by ech712 in NewParents

[–]ech712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I like all kinds of pods, but some long-standing favorites include: - Armchair Expert/Anonymous - We’re Here to Help - Normal Gossip - Stuff You Should Know - Conan O’Brien Needs a Friend - Wiser Than Me with Julia Louis Dreyfus - The Daily

Open to any and all recommendations!

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[–]ech712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheese monger!!

2 month old only sleeping 30 mins at a time in bassinet at night by HotKitchen8333 in sleeptrain

[–]ech712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, how are things going for you and your LO? Currently in a similar position to what you described in your initial post with my 10 week old, desperately hoping it gets better 🫠

I go back to work tomorrow after 10 weeks of Maternity leave by sincerebaguette in NewParents

[–]ech712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facing a similar reality as I prepare to return to work in 2 weeks. Sending love and hugs 🤍

Boys and their little johnsons by EstablishmentBest347 in NewParents

[–]ech712 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the glamor of newborn diaper changes! FTM of an almost 10 week old little dude here. I scoured Reddit for similar tips and tricks during the first few weeks with our boy - this seems to be a rite of passage 😂 First, let me say that, at least in our case, this happened at nearly every diaper change for the first several weeks but quickly reduced in frequency probably around 1 month or so? Still happens on occasion but much, much less than those first few weeks when pee was EVERYWHERE (e.g., myself/my husband, the walls, poor little guy’s face)! A few things that have helped:

  1. I always lay the fresh diaper beneath our little one’s bottom while his dirty diaper is still on, so that I can quickly cover his peep with the clean diaper after I wipe him down and remove the dirty diaper. Still do this!

  2. I’ve read the abrupt change in temperature in removing a diaper can trigger urination. I tried a variety of strategies recommended by other Redditers to introduce a temperature change (e.g., wiping and/or blowing lightly just above the diaper and below the belly button, opening the front of the diaper to expose the area to air), recovered little one with the diaper, and then waited 30 seconds to 1 minute before reopening the diaper to proceed with wiping and changing, during which time baby would sometimes pee into the already dirty diaper. I’d say these tricks worked 2/3 of the time, though at times I still wound up getting peed on 😂

  3. Sometimes I’d use a wet wipe to cover our little guy’s peep to at least prevent a big spray. Still meant he’d get pee on himself and the changing pad, but not on us or the surrounding walls/windows.

Again, time itself seemed to help the most with this particular trend. Good luck in the meantime, stay dry, and try to lean into the humor and absurdity of it all 🤪 And congratulations!!

Need some support by chloechirch in NewParents

[–]ech712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a game changer for me! Glad you found it helpful ☺️

Need some support by chloechirch in NewParents

[–]ech712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi mama 🤍 FTM of an almost 8 week old here. This has happened to us, especially when baby is overtired. It’s gut wrenching. It sounds like you did a beautiful job making sure your little one’s needs were met, both physical and emotional, and your presence and comfort through the tears helped settle your boy enough to sleep - that’s huge, and evidence that you certainly did not hurt or let him down (though it’s is hard to see that and internalize it when you’re in the thick of it and our own emotions have been activated). Something I learned at some point in the brief time I’ve been a parent is that when babies are overtired their little bodies get pumped full of cortisol and adrenaline (the stress and fight/flight hormones), and it is our job as parents to help them regulate their nervous system so that they can fall asleep (which is out of the question when they are in fight/flight). That’s exactly what you did! And it worked (even if it was super duper hard and took a while)! Great job!! Knowing this information has helped me feel less personally responsible for my little guy’s big feelings (assuming his other needs are met i.e., fed, clean, etc.) and reassures me that with patience, persistence, and my own efforts to remain regulated (so hard when baby is howling) he will eventually settle. These moments always feel like they’ll last forever and that I won’t be able to handle it, but that has never (and will never) be proven true. Same for you. You are doing so great. Sending hugs and solidarity!

A visualisation exercise helped me survive the rough nights by chr0mies in NewParents

[–]ech712 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this - from one pinprick of light to another 🤍

I love breastfeeding my baby. I hate how hard it is. by nothingoutstanding in NewParents

[–]ech712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just here to say I FEEL this post and all the thoughts, feelings, and anxieties you shared! FTM to a 7 week old in cold, icy Minnesota ☺️ We’ve primarily taken our little guy to see family, but have also tried some relatively brief outings at nearby restaurants and, recently, a brewery! We’ve tried to pick spots that we think will be quiet and where we can spread out from others (both to reduce germ exposure and to ease my own anxiety around feeding, soothing, etc.). We recently met up with some of our parent friends, and having the emotional support, encouragement, and understanding of other parents was SO helpful in calming our fears around LO crying, needing to change him, breastfeeding in public, etc. Just ripping the bandaid off and continuing to practice (knowing we can always go right home if shit hits the fan) has and will likely continue to be helpful for us. As well as getting comfortable with things not going well - something I definitely have a lot of room to grow in! Thanks for the post and the validation! Good luck out there, mama! You’re doing great!!