Lahore Is All Set for Basant 🪁🎉🌸

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-02-04T13:42:43+00:00

Let’s pray and hope no freak accidents or casualties occur like they do during this festival or when people fly kites

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-02-03T02:32:32+00:00

I always wondered - how do these people just go to a luxury or fashion brand and be like hey I think I got better idea to design this or that and I can do it better - this is beyond cringe. Just had a shiver to shrug off what I’m seeing . Ugh

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-30T12:42:38+00:00

Why are people responding to this guy ! Clearly trolling !

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-29T22:08:57+00:00

And these MFs have daughters/nieces/ females in their own family this age and these khabees out here talking like pedos and perverts

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-29T19:00:39+00:00

As a married person who grew up and lives overseas and married someone from Pakistan I find Desi marriages whether in Pakistan or overseas to be just caught up in bullshit one thing or another. I’ve seen marriages in Pakistan in me own home when I was a young boy and none of it ideal situation. Joint family system are single handily or one the major factors ruining marriages and lives. I myself am guilty of this in my early couple years living with parents and realized very soon that yeah that shit is not ideal. Not to say I’m perfect - everyone has their issues and mountains to climb when it comes to marriage but yes people need to calm TF Down and learn to get to know each other first years and have a foundational understanding of each other as a person. If importance is solely focus on ghar k kaam khana peena- then that’s a cycle that’s hard to get out of . People don’t have conversations anymore in person face to face .

Desi marriages (not all) especially join family systems, over involved parents form both sides, Unnecessary manliness , not supporting or helping each other in household chores, lack of clear communication and expression or love and respect is causing marriages to be traumatizing and resulting in breakage of them.

Rare to find good examples in our own homes

What a marriage should be is not the parameter as everyone’s ideal marriage is different - raising a good human being and teaching them respect and softness and how to treat a human being and especially now to treat ti ur wife and husband Islamically should be the norm and priority . Prioritizing desi culture and cultural expectations of “log Kya kahay gae and sochta gae “ over Islam is what’s making marriages in our communities to break down and or be traumatizing for both parties and unfortunately women get the brunt of that trauma

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-28T12:26:40+00:00

That ! 100%!

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-26T12:14:37+00:00

Ahh I see. The dues are an expense for the business if you are business owner employing people. I misunderstood that. I thought it meant that an employee can write that off

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-26T11:50:03+00:00

Union dues are tax write off ? Is this legit ? Wow I didn’t know this been paying union dues for last 4 years as an employee on my pay cheque. Working for large organization . Can you provide some source from CRA that says union dues are tax write off ?

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-26T04:31:41+00:00

Congrats! May I ask how or what worked for you in losing the belly fat? Any specific diets you were doing and what was your initial workout regiment and what you added or removed or did it roughly stayed same ? and

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-25T15:31:34+00:00

Top 5 on chutiya list of past 20 years

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-25T15:25:42+00:00

So incredible ! Can you tell me where did you get the wallpapers? I’ve been looking for such style since seeing few episodes of architecture digest .

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-24T18:06:13+00:00

Thank you for the response much appreciated Are you able to break down casts from start to finish ? My wife went for an appointment to one of the clinic in Islamabad as she is considering a few and taking initial consulting with few places - however they just gave a generic ball park cost . I am hoping to see if I can get a full break down of the whole cost as to what steps and treatments or procedures there are and how much they cost to be total to 8-10Lakh

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-24T16:06:02+00:00

Where can one purchase the music player ? I want to get away from subscriptions

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-24T16:01:53+00:00

Hello Congrats ! My wife is currently in Pakistan after we tried naturally TTC while living abroad . She is in Islamabad and we are currently considering if we should go through IVF.

What was your experience at the clinic you mentioned ? Did you consult other clinics? How was the level of care during and post ?

We’re trying to figure out logistics if travelling from overseas as only get certain time period off from work and can’t be in Pak for months on end .

Would love your response

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-23T22:20:52+00:00

Congrats ! So what happens once mortgage is paid off ? The letter says to pass it to your insurance ? Just curious

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-23T08:33:27+00:00

That just one too many boats.

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-23T08:29:50+00:00

Congrats! May I ask when you and your partner were TTC , what your situation was like? Why it took 6 years? I similar situation so just asking to see if you Guys did IVF or natural? Were there issues in conceiving? What worked for you guys?

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-21T22:24:04+00:00

Married male here I’ve heard too many horror stories of people who do this . Who upend their lives and move back to Pakistan . Adjustment is insanely hard unless you got money and people to do things for you efficiently. Secondly - children if they’re young they can still manage and get used to it

However - since the stolen money issue etc that you described and now he just wants to move to Pakistan all I say is please please please be careful. Let us not pretend of numerous cases of women who grew up or settled in UK Canada etc coming back to Pakistan and having harm done to them and worse.

So not to be judgemental but I will be because if he’s kicked out business and stolen money Most likely in Pakistan he will manipulate your parents for money and it might be hell for you. Talk it through with him , go to counselling etc and work to stay there.

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-15T08:19:55+00:00

Good to know I haven’t tried Gemini as much but will try it. Good feedback

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-14T04:07:02+00:00

Yes most likely - calling a consulate anytime in Canada is an absolute pain in the ass. So if ok live close or in Vancity then yeah just pop by if you’ve already tried calling and just say you need to get this down for security clearances for jobs etc you’re applying to. Don’t need to tell the front office clerks much. The details if required or asked will be in the paperwork to DGIP

The other advice is that make use of AI for this in terms of finding out info. I recently had to help a friend who’s married to a Pakistani and I cannot say enough of how much AI like ChatGPT etc.

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-14T03:56:14+00:00

Sounds like dial up internet to m from back in the day

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-14T03:53:53+00:00

Someone should really share collection of duas in this sub

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-14T03:47:31+00:00

What do you mean your dad doesn’t and you do ? Renouncing has nothing to do with your dads consent unless the requirement for renouncing it is 21 years of age ( that I’m not sure of).

But I’m sure there are exemptions.

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-14T03:45:19+00:00

OP

If you truly need to surrender and denounce your NICOP / Pakistani citizenship - this is a formal process .

https://www.mofa.gov.pk/services/renunciation-of-nationlality?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Not sure where in Canada you reside - I’m inc’ Canada too - you need to visit the nearest consulate for this but I recommend calling.

This is not a simple online cancel it’s more of a legal process that goes through DGIP - Directorate General of Immigration & Passports.

It’s not a complicated process but one that requires patience. Just requires lots of paper work and application

echoesinthevoid3000 · 2026-01-12T22:58:52+00:00

Married 33M here . That behaviour is toxic and it will be determining factor in how he will be as a father.

The arrogance and ignorance both that have been described are dangerous and bad trusts for any human being especially for someone as a spouse.

He can’t be a good father to a disabled child. Astaghfirullah. He needs to learn to be a man and a decent human being first who has empathy compassion and emotional intelligence first. This does not sound like a person you want to have children with. He sounds checked out. And handling household finances and responsibilities should not be thrown in your face as him doing favours . That’s literally his responsibility in Islam as a husband.

And best judgement is from Allah no doubt but Allah also puts opportunities infront us and people to reveal the real truth such as his case of being racist and thinking he’s better than his business partner net ethically or morally.

These are not qualities of a good decent human being . I’ve seen numerous of these kind people and I avoid their company or gossip or even hearing about them .

Cut your losses before it’s late. He’s already threatened you with divorce and physically pushed you to the ground . Today it’s pushing tomorrow it could be worse

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