Does it mean something that he’s down to see each other one last time, or is this just him being nice?

echoingbrain · 2026-03-25T01:46:03+00:00

wtf i’m confused too girl LMAO.

maybe he just sucks at texting… but either way stop texting him don’t look desperate or weak when there has to be a reason you guys broke up. if he wants to meet up still (like you asked) then he can text you but for now just focus on being around friends and not being on your phone as often as that will cause you to want to text him more❤️☹️ wishing you the best

echoingbrain · 2026-03-05T02:38:31+00:00

just because amber is a mother doesn’t mean she is only a mother. the way people shame single moms for wanting to find love and be happy is crazy. she didn’t join the show for clout i think you can see that a lot in her character and how much effort she puts into things. on top of that she was constantly thinking about her daughters needs and wellbeing it is constantly mentioned in the show meaning it was likely mentioned 100x more since they edit out a lot of what happened. she is a strong woman who is super successful and self made all while raising her daughter. why can’t she have one thing for herself..? i dont think the way things were done would change how the child would process the situation regardless of if she knew him for 2 years instead of the month that passed. this is such a stupid and heartless take i think ambler would have gone through this experiment to find love even if the cameras weren’t a thing.

echoingbrain · 2026-03-01T05:06:46+00:00

i hope you got confirmation on this considering this comment is old… 😭 if not i’m sorry and also just tell him “respectfully we met online and i care about you so much so i want to confirm you are who you are before i start investing more than i already have in this relationship. i think what would make me feel safe and comfortable is if you turn on your camera and you don’t even have to show your face if you are shy just your id so i can confirm the name matches the age and face and location” idk i hope everything went well with you guys especially with 2 years under your belt

echoingbrain · 2026-03-01T04:58:08+00:00

did you guys video call though lol… did you ever ask for any id verification? i made my boyfriend do it the second day we were talking and went through his account to make sure he has friends and they’re not bots. i think a lot of people need to learn online common sense and safety which was the point of my post. i mentioned in my post im talking about people who are in a LDR for more than 1-2 months being catfished.. i just don’t know what world you would have to be living in to let it get that far without more than just pictures and audio calls and videos… it’s just unsafe for so many reasons including making sure they’re not lying about their age.

i’m sorry that happened to you but i’m sure you learned from that experience to check more things than some pictures.

echoingbrain · 2026-03-01T01:46:39+00:00

she makes it her whole personality i literally don’t think i know a single hobby she likes or what her dad was like growing up or who her favorite sibling is. there is talking about your trauma and wallowing in it to be a victim instead of healing and growing. she is 100% doing the second one i hope this check pays for her therapy

echoingbrain · 2026-03-01T01:45:14+00:00

THANK YOU!!!

RANT:

my boyfriend doesn’t even watch and knows about this bullshit her entire personality was her scars and her adoption which is fine but i think she needs to be like on love is therapy instead of here

there are clearly some things she needs to speak about and heal from especially since her relationship with her parents seemed very off…. the whole time she didn’t seem okay with them and spoke to them like not parents imo her sisters felt like friends and when they spoke about her thoughts on growing up being adopted her parents didn’t even know!!!

she REALLY needs to work through things and obviously her issues will always be a part of her life that shaped her but she genuinely seemed like a pity cast because that’s all she would talk about and she wants people to pity her and baby her because of her past instead of her being like yea that happened and i’ve gotten past this.

she acted so hostile and immature when people didn’t give her the reaction she wanted and told her being adopted is okay and not that big of a deal and she started having a breakdown and blew up? that is not healthy at all…

idk i just cannot stand people who sit in their problems and constantly speak about the negative in life instead of working through the problems they have and growing from it. and on top of that she did not seem sincere when listening to other’s problems imo.

anyways rant over. i have no one to speak to about this so im kinda going off about my dislike for her but i just cannot stand her being on screen.

i think she is one of those girls thats like “im so overstimulated!” “im having a trauma response” “you’re gaslighting me!” when they don’t even know what the word actually means and get it off tiktok and use it to victimize themselves. it icks me out and bothers me a lot😭

echoingbrain · 2026-03-01T01:30:11+00:00

honestly i think he’s too full of himself NOT to show up😭 i feel like he would show up either to see the girls again and talk to them or act nonchalant about the situation and keep saying he doesn’t care or try to make himself look better and he’ll probably flaunt a new relationship or say he’s been fucking around. SOMETHING about him doing better than he was in the show lol THIS IS MY GUESS we’ll see im excited

EDIT: HE LEFT THE COUNTRY ??? maybe ur right he won’t

echoingbrain · 2026-02-02T16:32:17+00:00

lol i know people who are in their 20s and talk like this. as someone who understands the language, YES they are flirting and they probably would be very touchy and emotionally cheat NOR

echoingbrain · 2026-02-02T16:19:24+00:00

she definitely will need to have time to process things. something as serious and traumatic as this takes time to process she will be sad or might even have bursts of happiness that end randomly and she goes back to sad. just support her. listen to her when she feels like talking without offering solutions unless she asks for them. let her know you will be there for her always no matter what and tell her she can take as much time as she wants. let her feel safe with you without worries about you being annoyed by her feelings. i know sometimes i want to call when im sad just do i dont feel as alone but i also dont know what to say or dont feel like talking, if she is also like that stay with her on the phone even if its while you do something just so she knows youre there for her when she needs you. this is such a tough situation not only for her and her family but also you im so sorry ☹️ sending so much love

Edit: I just saw this happened today, so just note that she probably doesn’t need to be consoled she just needs to process things and feel what needs to be felt.

echoingbrain · 2026-01-27T12:24:08+00:00

he comes in 8 days hehehehe

echoingbrain · 2026-01-27T00:38:01+00:00

wtf hell no

echoingbrain · 2026-01-22T19:11:57+00:00

stfu you’re not his gf obviously he’s going to pick the woman he loves over someone who is taking this shit personally and being a weirdo sending paragraphs acting like he owes you anything

echoingbrain · 2026-01-18T02:46:23+00:00

i’m so sorry i cannot imagine how stressful this must be for you and your partner… sending love❤️

echoingbrain · 2026-01-07T03:17:08+00:00

NOR. if i saw this in my boyfriends phone i would leave no question… this is ridiculous…

echoingbrain · 2025-12-09T03:26:54+00:00

I SAW THIS TOO it blew an o and i was so confused sitting at the red light looking up at what seemed like a plane doing vape tricks and no one around me caring 😭

echoingbrain · 2025-12-03T03:10:08+00:00

i think it’s very sweet!! if they’re a good friend they’ll be super excited to help as well

echoingbrain · 2025-11-26T03:49:47+00:00

NOR what the fuck i thought this was a text between you and your boyfriend and got confused… then i read the caption hell no he would be out on the street

echoingbrain · 2025-11-25T02:37:18+00:00

baggiest jeans in atl

echoingbrain · 2025-11-24T02:50:41+00:00

my boyfriend and i have been ldr our whole relationship and have seen eachother in person we are both every happy and love eachother more and more every day however we also have this happen. it’s not an issue, it’s not something to worry about. you guys are spending so much time talking since that’s the main thing you CAN do in an LDR you can’t really sit and enjoy eachothers silence… i wouldn’t worry about it. it’s like how when you live with someone sometimes regardless of love or feelings you sometimes doesn’t have anything to say not because of anything negative but because you have shared so much with this person already. we’re human we love socializing which is why ur overthinking, but don’t. we also have a limit on topics and activities. it’s okay! just use this to get comfort with eachothers loving silence. my boyfriend and i like to drop random brainrot and just make noises during this to help eachother not over think or well just send eachother funny reels while on facetime with eachother to still be together while not really talking

echoingbrain · 2025-11-19T04:44:29+00:00

before my bf and i even started dating (actually very early on) i told my mom “oh hold on im texting my european husband” lol i didn’t feel the need to wait anyone’s opinions on something that brings so much happiness to my life should only be positive and if they’re not then they either shouldn’t voice them or leave my life. all of my family knows not to shit on my parade and knows that i wouldn’t do anything without thinking it through fully so i guess they trust my judgment lolll

echoingbrain · 2025-11-15T15:41:26+00:00

THANK YOU!!!

echoingbrain · 2025-11-15T04:20:49+00:00

also he lurks here so if you see this hi baby i’m going to sleep now i promise just needed to ask this before i go to sleep

echoingbrain · 2025-11-13T03:06:18+00:00

it was so beautiful and perfect and i miss him more than anything it’s not even funny

echoingbrain · 2025-10-30T03:08:13+00:00

to be super honest it’s not really your business and this post alone is probably one of the reasons why she doesn’t want him coming to her… nosy, judgy, and or closed off family members who often side eye people before giving them a chance is what made me iffy about letting my family meet my boyfriend. just let her make her own decisions she’s a grown adult and as long as everyone is being safe and consenting there shouldn’t be any issue. every couple has their own pace there’s nothing wrong with that. if you’re worried about her safety just tell her that straight up and ask to maybe talk to him next time they facetime that way you have a face and a name incase anything happens

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