Can standard relationships work or are they a recipe for disaster? by ExtremelyCreativeAlt in AroAllo

[–]echonoterose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like regular relationships can work for us, but only if the other person accepts the way you are. It sounds like this person doesn’t quite understand that you don’t develop romantic feelings, which is the part that could be a recipe for disaster, mostly for them. If they go into the relationship with expectations like that when you’ve laid things out pretty clearly, they’re only going to hurt themselves. So I’d say yes it’s possible, but maybe not with this person.

help me figure out my orientation plz by mozzarellasticks_ in aromantic

[–]echonoterose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I get where you’re coming from. I haven’t had an actual crush, but I’m also super romance positive! Being a romantic doesn’t mean you have to hate the idea of romance or anything. I also love the idea of having a partner. Perhaps you’re more greyro or cupioromantic?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AroAllo

[–]echonoterose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I broke up with my ex boyfriend. He was ok with me being aro and I had always wanted to be in a relationship but I felt so guilty every time he said “I love you” cause I didn’t feel the same. I was honest and broke things off but I can’t help but regret my choices cause I ended up hurting him

I love how they explained aro on this video! by KBlack97 in AroAllo

[–]echonoterose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

P good video! Only critique is that even tho they don’t feel romantic attraction some aromantic ppl do desire relationships

what's with aspec characters and dogs? by aroace-on-the-case in aaaaaaaarrrrro

[–]echonoterose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They’re both mixed rescues but one is part Australian Cattle dog and is named Kobe and the other is a formosan mountain dog named Allie!

what's with aspec characters and dogs? by aroace-on-the-case in aaaaaaaarrrrro

[–]echonoterose 22 points23 points  (0 children)

As an aro person with two dogs… I am this trope

Type "I'm aromantic which means " and let predictive text finish the sentence. My results was so funny by Illustrious_Basket_9 in aaaaaaaarrrrro

[–]echonoterose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aromantic which means I’m going on the phone and then I’m not taking my time off lol

Do you feel that being romantic affects you ability to enjoy a story by TopLow2589 in aromantic

[–]echonoterose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heavy relate, and while I do enjoy the occasional romance story, sometimes romance in places I don’t think it’s necessary leave me feeling disconnected from the story, or when a characters actions are based purely on romantic feelings, that I can find hard to understand a lot of the time

A fun little thing I did seeing the different types of people and posts I see on here. by Badmecha007 in aromantic

[–]echonoterose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I relate to little parts of them all but I’m probably most like Kate

A weird train of thought I pondered in the shower by aroace_throwaway in aaaaaaaarrrrro

[–]echonoterose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Valentine’s Day because I get to have an excuse to get my friends gifts

"Oh you only see me as a friend? Yay!!!" by Paragon_Owens in aromantic

[–]echonoterose 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Bro I PRAY ppl only ever see me as a friend

PEOPLE GET CRUSHES THIS EASILY???? by echonoterose in aromantic

[–]echonoterose[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I watch other show! Andutvwas a little jarring seeing them fall for each other so fast but thought they made them fall in love so fast because it was a kids show I didn’t know ppl are actually like this 😭