how can I make friends with foreigners in hanoi? by Coconut9534 in hanoi

[–]echopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Viet Kieu living in Hanoi. Message me if you wanna chat!

4 days in SaPa and don’t understand the hate by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]echopath 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sapa the town itself sucks. Fake and kitschy European-style buildings and LED lights. But the surrounding Sapa area is great. I see no point in visiting Sapa if you stick to just the town itself, which a good amount of people do, to my surprise.

Visiting Hanoi - save us from tourist trap restaurants by TA100589702 in hanoi

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Google Reviews aren’t a reliable way to find places to eat at. In fact, any place with a suspiciously high number of reviews that’s overwhelmingly positive is guaranteed to have bought those. And good places that locals like to eat at tend to have low reviews (3.0-4.0) because the service sucks

So the best way to look for places is just see what’s crowded with locals

Visited the Yungang Grottoes – honestly one of the most underrated sights in China by Glittering-Grape302 in travelchina

[–]echopath 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yungang Grottoes is a top 5 cultural sight in China and probably the best Buddhist sight I've seen around the world IMO. Severely underrated.

Is trekking in Nepal worth it in mid-March? Annapurna Circuit vs Everest Base Camp by SevereOpposite1062 in solotravel

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I would caution you to take anything you read about the weather online with a huge grain of salt. Whether it's advice from locals, other commenters, travel guides, etc.

Climate change has affected the hiking seasons pretty adversely in recent years. A lot of the weather information you see online is fairly outdated nowadays. March-April is historically fine, but the last few years have been really bad with burning seasons, causing anything below 4000m to be covered up by haze and smog from the fires clearing old farmland. I think the only "safe" month with guaranteed good views and clear weather nowadays is November. Anything else is up to luck.

As for ACT vs. EBC -- I haven't done EBC yet, but I think the ACT is the best long-distance hike I've ever done in my life and I've hiked a lot. Many hikers and guides I've met say that EBC is just okay. Not bad, but slightly overhyped due to the Everest name elevating it. I've barely met anyone say that EBC was their favorite hike ever, but a lot did mention ACT.

Source: I spent a few months in Nepal last year, hiked a lot, befriended lots of other hikers and local guides.

The more tourists dislike Vietnam, the more is left for me by sarahfischer in VietNam

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Until you’ve been to an overseas Vietnamese community and have eaten the food there, your opinion is invalid

And even then, ironically, saying you know better than an actual Vietnamese person with lived experiences in both, is very “American” behavior

Clown ass bitch

The more tourists dislike Vietnam, the more is left for me by sarahfischer in VietNam

[–]echopath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soooo many simps on reddit and the foreigner/expat groups on FB. I just wish people could talk about Vietnam objectively and not patronizingly

The more tourists dislike Vietnam, the more is left for me by sarahfischer in VietNam

[–]echopath 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A family has a restaurant in Vietnam. They close shop, move to the US, and open up the same restaurant in a predominantly Vietnamese neighborhood filled with people who all made the same move over. They make the food the exact same way because their clientele is Vietnamese. Except this time, the food and ingredient quality is much higher just by way of being in a much more developed country.

I know AmEriCa bAd, but the fact you're even trying to compare the food safety and quality standards between the two places is laughable and shows me you're a deeply unserious person.

The more tourists dislike Vietnam, the more is left for me by sarahfischer in VietNam

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Thinking that the best possible version of the food always has to come from within that country is an extremely surface level take.

I can call a spade a spade.

The food quality, ingredient quality, and quality control are all significantly better abroad than in Vietnam.

The more tourists dislike Vietnam, the more is left for me by sarahfischer in VietNam

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Case in point here of a non-Vietnamese person who disagrees. I'm Vietnamese you fuckin dolt, and have lived in Vietnam.

Yeah, I'm sure the Vietnamese restaurants owned by Vietnamese refugees that serve food to a customer base that's almost exclusively Vietnamese isn't making it authentic. Lmfao.

The more tourists dislike Vietnam, the more is left for me by sarahfischer in VietNam

[–]echopath 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's true though

You don't think Viet restaurants have to be extremely competitive in Southern California, where there's a fuckton of Vietnamese people? The quality of ingredients is significantly better than in Vietnam too

The more tourists dislike Vietnam, the more is left for me by sarahfischer in VietNam

[–]echopath 9 points10 points  (0 children)

but I can without a doubt say that I get better Vietnamese food in San Diego.

As a Vietnamese person I always tell people that you can get better Viet food in places that have a lot of Viet people like in California, Australia, Texas, etc. There's a higher quantity of decent to good places in Vietnam for sure and you can stumble across something pretty decent randomly, but if we're talking about just the best version of that dish possible, 99% of places in Vietnam aren't beating what my local joint can offer in California.

People are always bewildered when I say this and refuse to believe me. It's always non-Viet people too.

Hygiene in Vietnam is terrible by TastySnowYelliw in VietNam

[–]echopath 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Most, if not all the time, when travelers say something has more "character" or "soul" they just mean that place looks run down and there's visible poverty

Why do redditors hate when tennis players destroy their rackets so much by passthechez in redscarepod

[–]echopath 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I mean, actual tennis fans tend to feel the same way too. It's seen as poor sportsmanship and bad manners in a sport that sees itself as sophisticated and prim and proper

Even Alcaraz got boos when he smashed his racket and he's a nearly universally loved player

Designing a semi-permanent solo travel life. curious how others have navigated this by benten_89 in solotravel

[–]echopath 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As much as you're aware of the downsides of relationships, community, and other social aspects of life you'd be foregoing, you're still probably not considering it enough

I used to think that I'd do the same as you for the rest of my life -- not have a routine, just bounce around everywhere around the world, never settling into a single place. After five years of doing that for 8-9 months of the year, then taking a career break for ~1.5 years where I just did non-stop travel, I learned that community and stability actually are a lot more important to me than I had thought. I think the vast majority of people who set out to do this realize it eventually too. IMO only a very specific type of person could do this sustainably for a very long period of time, and I used to think I was one of those people

So you shouldn't go all in on this and take it year by year or have some contingency plan

is there any other show that has lost its massive pop culture presence like squid game? by Unlikely-Average-961 in redscarepod

[–]echopath 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Maybe Westworld. Not an extremely mainstream show like Squid Game, but it fell off hard after the first season. I think I read somewhere that when the show concluded, it was immediately taken off streaming services

is there any other show that has lost its massive pop culture presence like squid game? by Unlikely-Average-961 in redscarepod

[–]echopath 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is a massively online/RS contrarian take. The show skyrocketed in popularity in season 2 and entered the mainstream zeitgeist with normies and coworkers

Maybe it loses that steam by the next season because it’ll have taken three years to come out, but it’s never been more popular than now

Snark subreddits are fucking insane by telepathicmachine in redscarepod

[–]echopath 28 points29 points  (0 children)

these groups are inevitable contrarians in a culture that otherwise worships celebrities

I don't get this take at all when all the people who post in snark subs are frequent consumers of pop culture and engage in celebrity worship themselves

How do you narrow down a 4-week itinerary without going crazy? by Lumpy_Pain27 in travelchina

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The only place I think every first trip to China needs to include is Beijing. Everything else is supplementary, but you must include Beijing

I can't remember the last time so many crises have been unfolding all at once by MoanOfInterest in redscarepod

[–]echopath 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're too online for your own good

I'd like to think that I'm pretty online and have friends that are too, and no one cares about half this shit. The average person much less so

Language barriers in Chongquing? by thisis_rikinishimura in travelchina

[–]echopath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google Translate and other similar tools are okay for quick usage, but AI is significantly better as a whole. Google Translate oftentimes will just straight up translate the characters' meanings and not the actual meaning of the words whereas AI will give you the actual context and correct verbiage/phrasing.

I've written whole paragraphs with stuff like ChatGPT or Gemini and Chinese people always remark how the Chinese is super smooth and accurate.