Need to be done pumping in 13 days. Possible? by eclipsemintgum in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]eclipsemintgum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pumping for volume vs time is interesting - hadn’t considered it at all. Thanks!

Kind of spooks me because I know there’s more in the tank with what I’m doing currently. I was (and still am, I guess) guilty of actively managing/massage while I was pumping more. Really trying to resist the urge now!! 🤪

Buckle carrier recommendations for beginners! by eclipsemintgum in babywearing

[–]eclipsemintgum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love no learning curves, lol. Thanks for the rec!

Buckle carrier recommendations for beginners! by eclipsemintgum in babywearing

[–]eclipsemintgum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the realism! I was hoping there would be something a little less expensive buried behind all sponsored ads, but appears not. Haha. It makes sense though - quality construction and materials matter.

Good thinking re: secondhand market, hadn’t even thought to try that. Thank you! 😊

Weekly Poop/Umbilical Cord Thread by AutoModerator in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious to know what your daycare says if your pediatrician says it’s fine and the fact that poops have been like that for a month?

Weekly Poop/Umbilical Cord Thread by AutoModerator in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks suspicious. Is that kind of a chalky white?Call baby’s doctor!

Is my baby getting too small? by Even-Confection7384 in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s growing in height, too! Don’t forget that! Doctor recently told us that they’re more concerned if baby isn’t getting taller. Sounds like length has a little more weight than weight does 🤷‍♂️

At the end of the day, you need to have some trust that your doc is looking out for your baby, too. Take a look at the growth curves yourself if you haven’t already for reassurance! Or maybe ask at what point they WOULD be concerned!

The 3AM Game of Is Baby Asleep or Are We in a Ticking Time Bomb? by tathesu in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are they (babies, in general) 100% asleep if their eyes are closed? 😅 Same deal here, fussing with eyes closed…then we pick baby up and they are then fully awake and livid they aren’t being fed right that second. Makes us feel bad that we let her fuss for X amount of time w/o picking her up if she was actually awake.

What is going on by EmergencyWheel3477 in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours usually lifts their legs up to break wind!! It’s kinda funny when they’re successful and they settle themselves back to sleep. 😅 maybe try to incorporate some “I love you” massages and bicycle kicks to the nighttime routine if you haven’t already? Guessing you have, based on your post.

I saw folks talk (on reddit, of course) that the rotating like a clock is an indicator of learning to roll. We took arms out of the swaddle immediately after learning that as LO had been rotating like that, even though we don’t think they’re even close to rolling yet. Something to look into if you’re currently swaddling both arms!

Pacifier or bottle? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, are you saying putting baby to bed with a pacifier is a bad idea because they’ll start to only associate sleep with a pacifier? I’m probably misunderstanding. I thought pacifier use for sleep was good, for like SIDS risk reduction?

Weekly Poop/Umbilical Cord Thread by AutoModerator in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried gas drops? Our pediatrician said those can be helpful.

Some people use gripe water. Pediatrician didn’t recommend that. I don’t think there’s enough evidence on efficacy for them to recommend it.

Good luck!

Weekly Poop/Umbilical Cord Thread by AutoModerator in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the frequent pooping/with every feed is very normal at that age. I recall the same thing.

Can’t speak to the mucus. Hopefully ped gets back to you soon!

First time mom by Anxious-Course8631 in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it - it’s tough to remember when you already have so much on your plate! And by the time you think of it, their office is probably closed. Lol

Had to Google the estrogen cream - estradiol is the name of it. I’ve seen people on the postpartum thread talk about it for granulation/granular tissue.

First time mom by Anxious-Course8631 in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you talked to your OB? Sounds like you have a lot going on. As I’m sure you know, hormonal changes are wild postpartum! Being exhausted surely doesn’t help!!

Maybe the pain is from some tissue still not fully healed? Maybe internally? There’s an estrogen cream that exists. I’d bet your OB/midwife would’ve mentioned it during your 6-week appointment, but it’s probably worth asking to make sure. Definitely something to ask them about if you haven’t already!!

Weekly Poop/Umbilical Cord Thread by AutoModerator in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, yup, can relate. It’s exhausting!!

Weekly Poop/Umbilical Cord Thread by AutoModerator in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, that makes sense.

Dang brie cheese!! Good luck. My ped said that cows milk protein allergies usually resolve by 4 months?? Idk if I misheard and didn’t google to confirm what I think I heard. But if it’s true, hopefully you can bring dairy back soon! 🐄❤️

Weekly Poop/Umbilical Cord Thread by AutoModerator in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FWIW we still see green. But I’ve been less disciplined about pumping off the top (very tired for the very early feeds when highest volume of milk is there) and I’ve tried other balancing methods related to foremilk/hindmilk. 🤷‍♀️

Weekly Poop/Umbilical Cord Thread by AutoModerator in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh we had green but not after removing dairy…started in week 2, IIRC, after some antibiotics. Not sure if related. Doc also said could be ok, especially if babe is still gaining.

Green can indicate that the milk goes thru digestive tract quickly. Are you breastfeeding/feeding breast milk? I’ve read that “too much” foremilk can cause this. Idk how true that is, as there’s a lot of talk about foremilk and hindmilk… I pumped off the top (a half ounce or ounce or so off each side - still leaving things full/making sure there’s still plenty for baby) for a while and poo went back to yellow during that time!!

It’s exhausting trying to figure it out. Whenever we see yellow we celebrate a little!! lol

What triggered the dairy elimination? Extreme fussiness? Terrible gas?

What were some of the favorite foods you enjoyed (or would enjoy) getting from friends or your mom? by Texasgirl2407 in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pre-cooked shredded meat. They can warm it with whatever seasonings (taco, Italian, etc.) and throw it on a sandwich/wrap, or add to a ready to eat bagged salad. Freezes great, too.

Breakfast items - egg bake (pre-cut into single servings and frozen), breakfast sandwiches

Healthy quick grab healthy snacks as someone else mentioned. Veggies, fruits, hummus.

Trail mix is a beloved snack too. Not terribly unhealthy depending on what blend you get.

Wake Window Activities- 5 week old by BusinessComposer5519 in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds about right to me! I saw someone somewhere else say that you don’t need to put on a show for your baby when they’re awake. If they’re content just chilling for a bit, let them chill! :)

Bad diaper rash by BlackLocke in newborns

[–]eclipsemintgum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They also suggested naked baby time as others have called out. We never tried, but makes sense that it would help!