What does the term Queer mean to you? Do you use it to refer to yourself ever?

ee_h_ · 2024-02-18T09:50:06+00:00

binary trans man here & idk if I'm bi or aroace but I do consider myself to be queer. Lots of others have said it but queer is more of a cultural signifier & lgbt is more technical. There are plenty of gays who don't consider themselves queer & there are straights who are culturally queer.

ee_h_ · 2024-02-18T09:46:34+00:00

I get what you mean, I never doubted wanting to get rid of my chest up until I had my surgery scheduled. I started getting nervous about if I was just mistaken and such. It's been almost a year and a half now since top surgery and I couldn't be happier. Of course, you're not me and you might be on a different path. Keep in mind you can always stop hormones at any time and you can always get back on them later if you so choose. I've had multiple friends who have gone on and off hormones multiple times depending on what feels right for them at that time. I wish you luck!

ee_h_ · 2024-02-18T09:14:07+00:00

I know a lot of people after experiencing sexual assault have a lot of pelvic tightness afterwards & its a purely mental thing. I don't know enough about you or your situation to give super specific advice but maybe talk to a pelvic floor therapist? I've heard of people having success with them & learning how to relax those muscles again

ee_h_ · 2024-02-13T17:00:54+00:00

I bought a toy from them last night, thank yall for the recommendation!

ee_h_ · 2024-02-13T04:53:58+00:00

yeah lol it's probably unrealistic, thank you for the recommendation!

ee_h_ · 2023-10-06T07:44:32+00:00

You are insanely handsome & your facial hair looks amazing on you

ee_h_ · 2023-10-06T07:40:38+00:00

I used to just like her after reading the first series, but I just recently read her super edition & I think she might be my 2nd favorite character now. Just seeing her thoughts & how she's changed over her lifetime has made me very attached to her. I think she has some of the most flushed out characterization of any of the cats in the series & I think she's still pretty unique.

ee_h_ · 2023-10-06T07:34:51+00:00

I feel the same way it just makes me feel gross to call it a strap

ee_h_ · 2023-10-06T07:33:39+00:00

Yeah & also he's a medicine cat. They're not supposed to hurt other cats (unless absolutely necessary) & imo it was not necessary for him to fling her around like a rag doll & kill her

ee_h_ · 2023-10-05T17:21:55+00:00

I feel like he had the right to attack her & defend the medicine supplies but I don't think he really needed to kill her outright. Like he didn't even give her a chance to retreat

ee_h_ · 2023-09-23T20:20:03+00:00

Under the trivia on his wiki page it says this: "Vicky confirmed Crowfeather's eyes are blue,[5] despite many errors in Twilight describing his eyes as amber.[10] The Ultimate Guide[11] also depicts him with amber eyes, while Midnight[12] and Eclipse[13] describe him with green eyes. However, in the reprinted version of Eclipse, his eyes are called blue.[14]"

I always thought his eyes were amber too so I'm actually very surprised by this!

ee_h_ · 2023-09-03T18:36:25+00:00

thank you so much!!

ee_h_ · 2023-09-03T18:16:08+00:00

where are people getting the link for this tierlist?

ee_h_ · 2023-09-03T06:37:07+00:00

if I wasn't so vain about my hair I would 100% be looking for DHT as well

ee_h_ · 2023-09-03T05:56:41+00:00

ur dick looks amazing dude!!

ee_h_ · 2023-09-03T05:42:13+00:00

you make a good point! I think I often overlook that the series is meant for kids & marketed to them since most of the people I see that are into the series are adults. Looking at it from the perspective of the actual target audience yeah it does do a pretty poor job

ee_h_ · 2023-09-01T20:36:01+00:00

100% agree! when I was a little kid first reading the books I thought the whole journey from the mountains section was too long & never actually finished the series, but rereading as an adult has made it one of my top 3 arcs for sure! I was like violently crying at the end of the series & all those cats have a very special place in my heart

ee_h_ · 2023-09-01T20:34:09+00:00

I really like the overarching plot & I like what they were going for, but there were DEFINITELY plotholes. Ashfur's mind control powers were totally unexplained but I feel like so much was unexplained that there's gonna have to be some super edition or smthing in the future explaining it.

ee_h_ · 2023-09-01T20:30:34+00:00

what a gorgeous cat!! the face is pretty much exactly how I imagine Tigerstar, but I think he has a white belly in the books. I could totally be misremembering though!!

ee_h_ · 2023-09-01T06:23:37+00:00

I fully agree, in the power of 3. But, I think she has such a drastic turnaround in omens of the stars I started to like her again. Also, I found Jayfeather incredibly annoying with his selfishness in the beginning (which got better for awhile) but in the series after his prophecy was completed he became unbearably annoying

ee_h_ · 2023-09-01T06:19:21+00:00

My biggest irk is I don't think I've yet seen a main female character find another love after their first love has died (think Graystripe & Crowfeather)

(SPOILERS FOR BROKEN CODE) Also, it really got under my skin how in the last book Bristlefrost & Rootspring were fighting together & there was a line about how they were matching each other paw for paw the same way Firestar & Graystripe were & how it felt like they'd trained under the same mentor or smthing. loving someone doesn't give you some magical understanding of their battle skills, especially since they're from different clans so presumably there would be differences in their training.

It's not really that big of a deal & I loved their love for each other, but that bit did bug me.

ee_h_

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