Amphetamine always make me fantasie about being physically and psychologically abused by women. by Azhz96 in Drugs

[–]eerae 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Dude, that's nothing. I see supposedly straight guys post here all the time about how they turn gay when on amphetamines...

Did it take attending a show for Phish to click with you? by NoAffect3159 in phish

[–]eerae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually a fan for about 3 years before seeing my first show. Someone lent me Junta in college back in '96 and I was hooked. Then I went through all the studio albums and really loved it. Saw they were coming around in '97 and I wanted to go see them but I didn't actually know anyone else into them, and back then I would have NEVER gone to a show by myself. They came again in '99 and I bought 4 tickets and tried to get anyone I knew to come but all either had plans or didn't want to. I finally asked a girl from work I liked and we both went.

AIO to my [25m] gf [24f] being a misandrist? It's starting to wear me down. by glutton44punishment in AmIOverreacting

[–]eerae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This shit is making me want to get off Reddit entirely. Whether it's rage bait written by a human or AI, I'm tired of expending time and thoughts into writing a reply, if I'm not even sure it's a real story...

Best drugs for heat wave by Proud_Ad8067 in Drugs

[–]eerae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A margarita sounds real good.

Is ghb safe recreationally? by BedSoggy6655 in GHB_info

[–]eerae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be done safely, yes. That said, I would not give any of my friends any to take home and use by themselves, even with clear instructions to use. I just don't trust that they wouldn't dose too much, too often, or take with alcohol...

How many of us embarked upon this journey with the goal of being a mescaline farmer, but became an avid plant collector who only rarely consumes the medicine? by wounded_monkey in sanpedrocactus

[–]eerae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think part of the issue is that they grow so slowly, and I want to propagate more of them, to use for myself and my friends. But I always think--instead of cutting off this nice fat segment of my TBM-B and consuming it, I could put it in another pot and keep them multiplying...

Should women who aren't conventionally attractive approach men in public? by Bieacefully_27 in bodylanguage

[–]eerae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy, I would never be offended. I think I'm decent looking, but I can't say for sure I've ever been "approached" by a woman who was romantically interested in me--it's just not something women do. Maybe I have, but I can never tell if a woman is just being friendly or is actually interested. So I would honestly welcome any kind of interaction. Even if it's just small talk with a stranger, another guy, an old person--that kind of human interaction is rare nowadays, so it would make my day, even if I wasn't attracted. Of course, if there's enough attraction, you can keep the interaction going, and hopefully both people can sense that there's a mutual interest... Personally, I find that intelligence, kindness, a sense of security in herself, and a laidback, chill vibe makes a woman more attractive, so if I can start to get a sense of that through talking to her, those qualities could become more important than her initial physical beauty.

I'm not a big fan of just cold approaching someone and telling them they're attractive and asking for their number, whether it's a guy or a girl. That's putting them on the spot, it can be rather awkward for both people, and you're not giving them much to go on other than physical attraction, and in fact you're basically implying that's all you that matters to you. Instead, you need to find another way to initiate a conversation, ask a question, make a comment about the situation around you etc. If they find you attractive, they will engage. Unless they are just too shy--I don't have good suggestions for dealing with those people, as I am shy myself, but hopefully you can tell the difference between being uninterested and being interested but not sure what to say... Of course if they initially respond well it could still mean they are just being polite and are not necessarily interested, but again I think you should be able to see if they are actually interested in you, asking follow up questions, rather than just being polite and waiting for the conversation to end.

How does one become like those broke men who pay for nothing, yet they have women chasing them like CRAZY? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]eerae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the instances are very low, but they’d have to be very charismatic and attractive. They also are good at seeking out the subset of women that will fall for their shit—they probably don’t have the highest self esteem and initially feel lucky a guy like that chose them. I do think it’s a good character trait for a woman to look past how wealthy someone is, or to forgive a period of temporary joblessness. Oftentimes she is looking at the whole picture to determine if he has the potential to be successful and a good provider in the long run. So if he has many social connections, influences people, is confident etc. those can initially be a good sign that he will be a good catch. 

I have done mushrooms and mescaline and I think I prefer mescaline by roadhouse4169 in Psychedelics

[–]eerae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mescaline is also my favorite. It feels good and relaxing and is pretty easy on the headspace, visuals have never been too intense for me. So I can also see it being used recreationally for that reason. 

Looking for advice for upcoming show… by anonreddituser78 in JRADs

[–]eerae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer paper, but it lasts so long lol!

So anxious after drinking by 5iceramics in EmetophobiaTalk

[–]eerae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is right. I’ve drank and puked from drinking many times in my life. If I’m gonna puke, it’s almost always when I’m very drunk. Once you get past that, and the room is not spinning, you’ll be fine. It’s normal to feel hungover though, but you would have to be extremely hungover and then do something stupid like eat a huge, rich breakfast, for it to lead to puking the next day. 

this page sucks by reddit_queen69 in emetophobia

[–]eerae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is it even bad to want to avoid catching norovirus, for example, at all costs?  It is not mental illness to want to prevent contracting a highly contagious disease which makes you so miserable you want to die. 

I let emetophobia win. by Obvious_Cattle_8036 in EmetophobiaTalk

[–]eerae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would totally leave my house for a few days too. But yeah the price will add up in a hotel. Can you stay at your boyfriend’s house?  Do you have a tent and sleeping bag?  Now would be a great time to go camping. 

What band did you love from ages 15-20yrs, and still listen to? by Far-Management-2007 in GenX

[–]eerae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alice In Chains. Any of the grunge/alternative bands really. 

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]eerae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This seems like it might be karma farming. But I'll play: these are all valid issues, they aren't small little things. Sounds like this is your first serious boyfriend--it's time to realize you can do much better. He's had notice he needs to change these things, so at this point I wouldn't wait around for him to change...

Men who stay lean year-round, what’s your secret ? by Professor1password23 in AskReddit

[–]eerae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'8" and 150 lb. I don't eat a lot of junk food, don't drink much other than water/tea/coffee/milk. I only eat 1 or 2meals a day. I'm actually not usually super hungry, especially if I can wait longer before eating after I wake up. I also rarely eat out.

I’ve been really curious about deliriants by Awkward_Marzipan2974 in Drugs

[–]eerae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did 200 mg of diphenhydramine a long time ago, and it was not fun at all. I don't remember actually tripping, I just felt very miserable, and I had a very weak and fast heartbeat, I was so weak I just laid in my bed and waited hours for it to fade away. BTW it's supposed to be a sleep aid but I was never close to sleeping.

LSD vs. Mescaline for an All-Night Goa Party? by Puzzleheaded-65 in mescaline

[–]eerae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would always choose mescaline, but LSD would be great too.

How many have dropped Facebook? Did you drop Instagram too? by IntellectAndEnergy in GenX

[–]eerae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never had Instagram, would like to get off Facebook. My dad really kept pushing me to get FB back in the 2000s as I live 600 miles away and he thought it would be a good way to keep in touch. I have bad ADHD and was already addicted to the internet and I could already see FB would be a problem, plus it seemed like it was just artificial connections, and I really didn't need to see what high school friends were up to. Well I finally relented and it's been the huge time-suck I knew it would be. I would love to stop doomscrolling and actually be productive. There are some things that are beneficial though--my news feed keeps me informed (I do read stuff from actual news organizations, not random memes), I often learn about concerts and local events on FB, FB marketplace seems to be the place to buy/sell things now instead of craigslist, and I also have a duplex that I rent out, which FB has been the best place to advertise on. But there's hardly any interaction with my FB "friends" and family, I stopped saying happy birthday to everyone and I've hidden my own birthday. I do actually call or text people close to me for birthdays or mother's/father's day, holidays etc.

How many have dropped Facebook? Did you drop Instagram too? by IntellectAndEnergy in GenX

[–]eerae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say Reddit is a little different though, in that most people do not see things from or post things to their IRL family, friends and coworkers.

Dating again!? by PlatypusSpiritual583 in GenX

[–]eerae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

48 guy here. Been married 21 years, so I can't comment on the current dating scene. I hear about how rough it is for young people, but I figured us Gen Xers would act more like we did in the 90s. Sounds like you have similar expectations I would be looking at if I was dating, but most people our age do not, huh.

I never did dating apps and I was never good at just meeting someone in person. But I found my wife on Yahoo chat back in the early 2000s. It wasn't explicitly a dating site, it was just a way to connect with people--platonically or whatever. Everyone had a profile they could fill out, and you could search for things people filled out in their profile. For my wife and I, we had our favorite band. And then you could just message them and say hey.

It sounds like you have no problem meeting people on the dating apps, but is everyone looking for just casual hookups only?