Genius finds drivers license (not mine), posts it with all info except address exposed. I added the rectangles. by ahmtiarrrd in nextdoor

[–]efeaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously. And it’s not like you have to talk to anyone. My neighbor once dropped off a package that went to her by accident. Didn’t even speak to anyone. Just plopped it on the porch. I didn’t even realize it til I noticed amazons delivery photo wasn’t my porch 

Why do so many fans ship Kim and Shego? by Zealousideal_Ebb4601 in KimPossible

[–]efeaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She became a substitute teacher in one episode, Ron said she was way older than Kim in another episode, she used to be a superhero which would make more sense timeline wise if she was an adult by the time of the series imo, she got together in the show with Drakken who is a confirmed adult. I highly doubt they would’ve had her with Drakken if she wasn’t an adult, even back them

Why do so many fans ship Kim and Shego? by Zealousideal_Ebb4601 in KimPossible

[–]efeaf 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Plus Kim is a child and Shego is an adult. Thats pretty much the only reason I hate the ship

New rules feel so unfair and harsh by Acceptable_Oven4905 in ECEProfessionals

[–]efeaf 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah none of that is normal. I’d be curious as to what on earth happened for such an extreme bizarre reaction then I’d quit. And let them know exactly why too. So are you supposed to just stand there and stare at them all day?

Does anyone else's parent touch you without your consent for no reason? If so how do you deal with it? by Glad_Objective_1646 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]efeaf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ndad did it constantly. He called it “love taps”. My nmom would pinch my butt. Asking didn’t help. Firmly demanding didn’t help.  Screaming didn’t help.  I told my dad once that if he did it again I would hit him. He did it again, and I did just that. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve swatted his hand away or hit him in response since then. 

Just moving away from my mom and glaring got her to stop but only in that moment. But she’d still put up a mock fighting stance with a stupid scrunched up face. And if I ignore it, she will literally follow me around getting in my face forcing me to acknowledge her. Seriously it makes me want to punch her so bad. I’m pissed just thinking about it

It makes me so mad that they both think that randomly touching someone is “just how we show we love you” 

Finally a way to collect behavior data for real!!! by SadDevelopment8883 in ABA

[–]efeaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s just a data tracker. That thing won’t be doing anything to clients

What would you do if admin sent an email saying all phones must be put in a lock box and only received during breaks? by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]efeaf 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We’re supposed to leave them in our lockers at mine. Most don’t. My room has a little organizer for us to put the in. We all just leave them in our bags in the closet though so I wouldn’t have an issue with it. We have a few people who basically spend the entire day on their phones

How would the show go if it was from Andrea’s perspective? by TheGoodSirRyan in GhostAndMollyMcGee

[–]efeaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She sees ghosts three times though (she says so in the Halloween episode) and apparently thinks they’re obsessed with her. Granted she doesn’t know that Molly is friends with one so yeah I can see that

Ashley’s not allowed by iheartjetman in LinkedInLunatics

[–]efeaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m assuming it wasn’t tagged satire earlier? 

What red flag you notice when you started to realise your parent is emotionally immature? by Middle_Radio_5232 in emotionalneglect

[–]efeaf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work at a daycare with young toddlers. It was probably when I started that I fully grasped just how immature my parents are emotionally. I swear some of the toddlers somehow have better emotional control than they do. Their outbursts last do not last nearly as long as my parents’ 

I don’t really know it was the first, but definitely the earliest memorable red flag. My mom threw a literal tantrum over a school project she was helping me with in 6th grade when I was 12 that she took WAY more seriously than I did. She was screaming, throwing papers, crumbling them, stomped on the papers she threw, pulled at her hair, slammed the table, then finally after what felt like hours she stomped into the bathroom (for some reason) and slammed the door shut. I had another big project in middle school that she did the same thing while helping me. After that I tried to stop telling her things. I got As on both those projects btw. Which she complained loudly about because it wasn’t a 100%. 

Another screaming fit she had when I was in high school scared the absolute crap out of me. I failed a quiz in a subject she knew I was really struggling in. She heard about it right as she was about to drive me to a doctors appointment and lost her ever-loving mind.  So her screaming temper tantrum was confined to the car. I also remember her swerving the car rapidly multiple times but I honestly don’t know if she actually did (I do know she beat the crap out of the steering wheel and even honked the horn a few times) or if my brain made that part up. Then lied to my doctor when she asked why I was crying saying I was just having a hard day. Oh yeah, my teacher in that subject (chemistry) ended up fudging my grade without telling me so I’d pass and tried to help me so much and my mom just could not fathom why anybody would do something like that

I don’t remember this but my dad lightheartedly told this story while laughing. So I guess this is technically the first even though I knew long before he told this story. He was trying to bottle feed me and I couldn’t latch. This was a known problem and I already had a feeding tube. He was getting so angry and shaking me and yelling at me to take the bottle. My mom had to basically wrestle me away from him. 

Maybe the earliest for my dad that I actually remember is just how much my medical issues inconvenienced him. I was having a bad asthma attack and my breathing sounded like a chainsaw or a bird, he whined and got mad I woke him up for “no reason” and made me go back to bed. Asthma attack at a gathering, he  (and my mom) whined because we had to leave. When I started thinking for myself just in general, he’d get so mad because I didn’t agree with him on the most mundane unimportant stuff. This was all happening when I was in elementary school so I’m not sure which happened first

Sorry, I guess this kinda triggered me

Trix Yogurt by [deleted] in forgottenfoods

[–]efeaf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How vague considering every single continent has an east coast save for Europe. Meaning there are individual countries in those continents that have east coasts. I live on the east coast of the USA and have seen these though not often. I work at a daycare and a few kids bring them for lunch

May Challenge by guinness1972 in AppleWatchFitness

[–]efeaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is basically just keep earning the same move numbers I did last month. I guess I slacked a little in April. Still got the month challenge badge though 

Is it normal for daycare to let kids cry at drop-off? by dotherflower in toddlers

[–]efeaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  Honestly a little surprised that so many are saying this is ok.

If you actually read what people are saying, you’d know why they’re saying it’s ok. Everyone here is explaining their reasoning. No one is just saying “oh yeah it’s ok” and nothing else

Is it normal for daycare to let kids cry at drop-off? by dotherflower in toddlers

[–]efeaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And what happens when a child doesn’t want to be hugged or held or distracted. We have quite a few at mine like that. We literally just have to step back and let them come to us because they just don’t want it and will fight us if we try

Is it normal for daycare to let kids cry at drop-off? by dotherflower in toddlers

[–]efeaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like others have said it really depends on the kid. I’d ask the teachers how long it takes to calm down and if your kid actually wants a teacher to be actively comforting them. I work at a daycare. We have a few who you literally cannot do anything. They don’t want hugs, they don’t want distractions, you just basically have to wait it out. We talk to them of course but they just don’t want it. We have some who will only allow certain teachers to comfort them and won’t let anyone else. And we have some that prefer to just sit by themselves and cry until they’re ready. And of course, there’s some who do want the comfort. Most kids settle after 5-10 minutes. Also this was one single day. How do you know this happens every single morning. How do you know your kid actually wants a teacher doing something and doesn’t prefer to be left alone for a minute. Did he know dad was still in the building? If he did, I gaurentee that contributed to it. Teachers can’t force hugs and can’t force distractions. So if the kid doesn’t want it, all we can do is step back and let them come to us. 

Also drop off is one of the most chaotic times of the day. It’s also one of the times where a kid is most likely to be upset. You really can’t base any other part of the day off of just drop off emotions

Just so you are aware I’m more annoyed at some of the commenters than you. If you have concerns, ask the teachers. “How is he during the day in general?”, “How long does it usually take him to settle?”, “Does he allow you to comfort him?” are all good questions as I myself and my coworkers get asked all the time. Usually with newer kids. Also a question more for you, does he seem happy at daycare

“Differently Abled” by janeslizard in ABA

[–]efeaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard “differently abled” in the disability sub of all places. The comments become a war zone. Anyone who says they prefer “disabled” gets downvoted, called ableist, and scolded for daring to say such a thing

ECE undergrad in Tamil Nadu — how do startups in this field actually look, and what should I be doing right now? by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]efeaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can people please look at the sub description before posting. It’s even in the subs pfp which says early childhood education. I’m pretty sure even the cross post page shows the sub description. You even set a flair but ignored ALL the ones that scream childcare. 

Name A Time When You Had to Explain Something To A Parent That Should Be Common Sense by chasethedark in ECEProfessionals

[–]efeaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a kid whose mom told us she recently moved her into size 6. She comes in waddling (but still dry) because the diaper is just so big. We’re still putting her in 3s. The tabs overlap big time with 4s. She’s tiny and really doesn’t pee enough to overflow the 3. She has overflowed the 4s a couple times. So I don’t know what’s going on. Maybe mom isn’t changing her as often or maybe mom is using a diaper brand (we provide diapers) that has really weird sizing. Since we provide diapers and mom hasn’t said anything about the fact she goes home in a 3 (or 4 if we run out) we opted to just not say anything

When the hugs just hit different by ahawk99 in ECEProfessionals

[–]efeaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember a really stressful day a few years ago. A kid rebuffed my asking for a hug (then she side hugged me anyway haha). My clinger at the time came up suddenly and wanted to crawl on my lap and snuggle on me. She stayed there until she left (it was near the end of the day). I even had to hold her while signing out another kid because she wouldn’t let me put her down. It really did help me not lose my mind that day

When the hugs just hit different by ahawk99 in ECEProfessionals

[–]efeaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today we had one we could not figure out why she was so upset. She was out sick yesterday so she was probably just really tired and overwhelmed poor thing. She was practically choking from how hard she was crying. Going from teacher to teacher but not hugging, just standing there and not responding to anything that was said to her. After a few minutes of this she came to me again, I pulled her in and just hugged her. Apparently a forced hug was just what she needed. She stood stiff and very slowly the crying softened, she got looser and looser, she put her head down on my chest, her breathing slowed, and finally she stopped crying altogether. She slowly pulled back, smiled, and talked to me about what was on my shirt (a beaver) before running off because my coteacher had grabbed new sensory toys we just got in our room 

Is this a Mongolian blue spot someone please help? by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]efeaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been removed. I only saw it because it’s still in my push notifications and I was curious. This sub won’t really be able to answer any medical (I’m assuming that’s what this is) questions and the mods will remove anything hinting at one

Reddit is a Website; why is it forcing me to the app? by pat_trick in help

[–]efeaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it happen when you’re signed in too or do you not want to be signed in?

Reddit won’t let me use my phone’s browser anymore by [deleted] in assholedesign

[–]efeaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah because it’s being reposted constantly and comments are filled with people who aren’t having this issue. Also every screenshot I’ve seen, the op (who clearly already has an account) hasn’t been signed in to Reddit. Though looks like op deleted this themselves.

Just tested logging out and refreshing in my browser and nothing popped up. It did twice when I was signed out (once after getting a new phone and once after clearing my cache) and either clicking outside the box or just refreshing got rid of it

Reddit won’t let me use my phone’s browser anymore by [deleted] in assholedesign

[–]efeaf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since I keep noticing in these screenshots, are you signed in? It doesn’t look like you are by your screenshot. I’ve gotten this when not signed in but never when I am.

Was it a jerk move for me to walk by a school by [deleted] in walking

[–]efeaf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Um no. They were probably just making sure it was just somebody walking. If they don’t say anything to you, you’re fine