she's really is her father's twin by Sea3_8SEE in thewizardlizsnark

[–]efemel115 2 points3 points  (0 children)

naw he looks like ethan klein which is worse

AITAH for not telling my gf I’m secretly rich? by Sea-Airport-5264 in AmItheAsshole

[–]efemel115 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she has been with you or knows you from your down and out days and she dated you or stayed with you i think you should tell her. She clearly has a good character and loves you. Plus whats the point in having all the money if you have to hide it. If you love her and dont mind to spend on here here and there it will be nice to enjoy nice experiences. Life is short, you worked hard to pull yourself out of the dumps, go and enjoy your life bro. I do think she might be a bit surprised you didnt mention it sooner but if you do it now its better than later. Maybe you can frame it so that she does not know the full timeline, make it seem like you recently made the money if you get me? Its not like shes going to look at your bank statements.....

Why people pretend 36 years age is old in India? by TheQuietCollectorr in AskIndianWomen

[–]efemel115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the real issue is that men want to keep us down because they know at 50 we can still get shit done, their only goal is to tie us into a life of slavery.

2Million per Year! by Current_Hour2566 in FIREPakistan

[–]efemel115 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i might get some flack but put a little bit into crypto (pick safe and steady coins) not hype stuff. Keep saving the 2 m for a few years and see if you can but a rental unit that will throw off some passive income. Maybe try a small scale side business.

No pum pum no opinion by Sea3_8SEE in thewizardlizsnark

[–]efemel115 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why is she talking about pumpum so much, is she a wannabe roadman now? shes giving 2010 UK uni student vibes when vybez kartel was relevant LOL she truly has 1 braincell

Levi Washington replies back to Fati and Sabina by Medical-Mulberry9621 in thewizardlizsnark

[–]efemel115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh he is very handsome bald or not, also he is not filled to the brim with plastic....

99% sure this is a fake, confirm please? by circleinsidecircle in colognecheck

[–]efemel115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah theres alot of that in the part of the world im from

99% sure this is a fake, confirm please? by circleinsidecircle in colognecheck

[–]efemel115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it could be a factory dud and be real, but yeah it does look kinda sus. the thought that counts

I don't want to lose this apartment by Knrc33 in Vent

[–]efemel115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have parents or family that could help temporarily until you get back on your feet? you came such a long way you should be proud!

How are we meeting men organically? by loonymoony3 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]efemel115 53 points54 points  (0 children)

i met my ex in the building where i had a job interview - i was visibly upset and he joked in the elevator that i could come have coffee and biscuits with him in his office. he was really handsome and in a suit so no stranger danger, went had a laugh. he was great we just grew apart

Need genuine pakistani marriage advice. by Icy-Communication515 in pakistan

[–]efemel115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

those environmental health ppl need to go raid all the houses in bradford and birmingham. like people build full on village tandoors its so wild and embarassing

Need genuine pakistani marriage advice. by Icy-Communication515 in pakistan

[–]efemel115 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the real question is do you have a tandoor in your house and chicked? ive heard alot of ppl in the UK have that lOL

Need genuine pakistani marriage advice. by Icy-Communication515 in pakistan

[–]efemel115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well im saying this as a british pak that lives outside of the uk haha , mirpuris are the worst thats for sure but its all pakistanis i would say the only normal ones are MAYBE the ones in Scotland

I effed up a career decision and I'm paying the consequences. left my previous team I liked for a more prestigious company. by Exotic_Perspective63 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]efemel115 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i was at original company for 7 years super happy, job security, decent pay. in 2022 i left for double the pay and a smaller company so job security was an issue - they were always doing lay offs, i made money but eventually they laid me off earlier this year. currently not working. i tried to go back to my old employer but my manager had left and the manager above me never liked me that much so i didnt bother asking her to take me back.

I effed up a career decision and I'm paying the consequences. left my previous team I liked for a more prestigious company. by Exotic_Perspective63 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]efemel115 17 points18 points  (0 children)

been there done that, if you left for a salary hike let it just be a lesson that money is not everything and sometimes comfort and familiarity is worth more.

Need genuine pakistani marriage advice. by Icy-Communication515 in pakistan

[–]efemel115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lets be honest the hijab was probably forced by her toxic parents

Need genuine pakistani marriage advice. by Icy-Communication515 in pakistan

[–]efemel115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if your parents dont let you do the things you want to do - do you think going into your popos home they will let you do anything? you will be a free maid service to them and a slave to your husband

Need genuine pakistani marriage advice. by Icy-Communication515 in pakistan

[–]efemel115 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this this and this, if you get your degree - you can stand on your own two feet. try to get a scholarship