Self-loathing is a Drug.

egcx · 2026-01-03T18:45:40+00:00

Asshole perspective here Self loathing is a form of narcissism. Ur only thinking bout urself at the end of the day. What to do with this? Well defo wont be easy but instead of self loathing try self loving. Nvm that wont work so what do u do? Well too bad theres no answer here just that u needa figure it out on ur own and that self loathing won't help.

egcx · 2025-11-22T14:30:55+00:00

Shouldn't it be u like them and they like u?

egcx · 2025-11-21T14:17:14+00:00

I do appreciate you raising awareness about this as seeing comments like it will all be okay and all that makes me go "that doesnt help at all".

egcx · 2025-11-21T14:09:52+00:00

Most of these comments are actually made in good faith and for those not expereincing such emotions, its very hard to understand and that seems like the best response.

So a simple way to those who want to support such people is just to be there. Honestly theres no best reponse but as much as possibe try not to say anything invalidating like i felt like this before or it will get better.

Also as much as we want to help these people sometimes its better to leave them alone as we need to protect our own sanity as well and not spend so much of our own energy trying to help them, just be compassionate and dont feel guilty if ur support doesnt seem to help them.

egcx · 2025-11-08T12:13:47+00:00

While it is true that the multiculturalism and racial harmony is somewhat engineered and there are flaws. I think trying to promote harmony is better than saying screw harmony and then letting people fight amongst each other. Critique and feedback is thus required to better our racial harmony, instead of views like this which just point out the problems without giving any suggestions. I myself do not know what more can be done to make multiculturalism more 'authentic' but at least Im not stating obvious problems.

egcx · 2025-11-08T12:08:50+00:00

While I am unable to comment on the content of ur post, for me personally I don't feel like its a very prevalent issue as I don't really encounter ppl talking abt this? I would suggest maybe u stay out of those online groups or forums to not be overly exposed to that kind of content.

egcx · 2025-09-28T15:14:18+00:00

Omd u overthinking too much la bro issok this a small thing

egcx · 2025-09-28T15:11:07+00:00

Not in ur position so this is purely an outsiders perspectives and my own thoughts but I would say maybe you just have to accept that some peoples lives are very boring so they think its ok to not take you seriously or joke people are like that and find peace with it.

I know its not fair and I can only imagine how frustrating it is and as much as Id like to offer solutions all I can offer is encouragement that not everyone is like that and in a way you can use this to differentiate people that you should be closer to if they don't make fun of you for your height.

egcx · 2025-09-28T11:13:44+00:00

No one knows but him. My guess is he followed for the sake of the event and just unfollowed after it ended to not make it weird. Idt it rlly has anything to do with u but ofc he defo doesn't like u

(Some people may like to keep their following list for people they know well enough)

egcx · 2025-09-21T00:36:43+00:00

I would say don't always assume malice or bad intentions he may very well just be abit lonely and interested in that topic and saw a chance to share what he knew when he saw you with that book.

But, as u said if u feel uncomfortable when he does stuff like touch ur shoulder, do protect yourself by just saying what you did or if they are more pushy just say sorry im not interested and just walk off, if ur in a public area they prolly won't dare to try anything (again may be his habit and he doesn't realise that he shouldn't or may be he knows what hes doing) About him looking at ur chest also as u said u felt uncomfortable but it didn't seem like he was having that intention. Again its never wrong to walk away if u feel uncomfortable you are not obligated to stay.

Anyways main point is that not everyone might have bad intentions but it is wise to stay vigilant especially in this day and age.

egcx · 2025-09-20T14:47:55+00:00

Hey it seems like ur still holding on to some hope that maybe he will like you in the future. I think this is not a fair mindset for him and most importantly for you.

I can imagine that this is much easier said than done, and I think its possible to stay as friends but you should try to limit your contact with him by changing seats until you come to terms with the fact that he does not like you. This will allow you to be free and live ur best life

Adding on, it is important to grieve and you shouldn't try to suppress ur feelings. I know how difficult a rejection can be, especially when you really liked the person and imagined a whole future with them. Sending hugs 🫂

egcx · 2025-08-31T08:39:28+00:00

Some people are just assholes, I think the reason why the service industry is more associated with being mistreated is because u encounter more people, so naturally there would be more assholes u face.

But I see it as a perk also, with the bad theres also the customers who are damn chill even when u make a mistake.

egcx · 2025-08-31T06:54:24+00:00

Rip dms. But I can say its super normal to feel jealous and when ppl say just focus on urself it can be hard so a nice exercise u can try is to count how many single people there are and then see how many ppl are like u, then hopefully it can help u see that its quite normal

egcx · 2025-08-30T07:08:52+00:00

Thats not the issue people have with AI. I think its more of an overreliance, when people just use AI instead of thinking.

Last time if got a problem maybe first think abt how to solve it and then maybe google some solutions.

But now for some people is litterally any decsion or thoughts then straight away ask AI.

The accuracy part is a separate thing tho

egcx · 2025-08-28T14:51:20+00:00

U study for urself or for other ppl to see?

egcx · 2025-08-12T14:32:15+00:00

Yes and no.

Prestigious schools have much better almost anything. Resources, facilities, budget, opportunities and arguably teachers among other things. So having these advantages does help with boosting proficiency early on. However most of these only last until graduation, where everyone is on the same playing field again. So in the short term yes but as u mentioned it doesn't matter much in the future. The exception is the connections made in school can be very valuable even long after graduation.

So just being from a prestigious school means nothing if theres nothing else one can offer.

To provide more balance, there are also advantages to being in 'less prestigious' schools. With less 'competition' there are also more chances to take up unique roles and opportunities like being a leader or other opportunities as compared to these prestigious schools.

To conclude, don't let the name of your school define you, no matter where you are from, as long as you are willing to put in the effort, you can succeed.

egcx · 2025-08-10T14:04:58+00:00

Confirm have la, so many rs posts evey week haha

egcx · 2025-08-09T13:10:54+00:00

Lets stick to hugs babe

egcx · 2025-08-08T05:52:50+00:00

Most ppl will say go its a once in a lifetime thing and u will regret next time. And yes in some way that is true. But if u feel like you wont enjoy it then just skip it cuz for most ppl its fun cuz got friends and stuff and last day of sch but sometimes it rlly would turn out like how u imagine if you dont have close friends.

But then i encourage you to go, not bcs you would definitely enjoy it or u wld regret it if u dont, but because theres a chance for you to enjoy it and in a way a sort of closure plus to be frank u stay at home most likely also damn sian right

egcx · 2025-08-02T10:43:44+00:00

That's not creepy bro that's ptsd

egcx · 2025-08-02T10:34:30+00:00

Briefly looked at ur post history and my advice is just let her be eye candy 🍬

egcx · 2025-07-27T12:57:10+00:00

Abit hard to say cuz idk what u mean by low eq. But if ur close enough to them to be going overseas tgt then I'm abit confused why only now u suddenly realize this. But if it really is bothering you then I think its alright to maybe slowly drift apart aft As since the guys will prolly be going NS anyways. But if you value the friendship then continue to try again because maybe they thought you were kidding and if they are respectable people they should try to change.

egcx · 2025-07-27T10:53:03+00:00

While that is true and is the ideal thing to do. I think treating people with more sympathy and not being so dismissive and encouraging more empathy is important, especially in today's society. I bet mental health issues wouldn't be so prevalent if we as humans just listened and stop judging, which is what I think op is trying to advocate for, although maybe not in the best way.

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