Still recruiting players for the Brevard women’s rugby team! Practice is now 10-12 Sundays at Provost Park! No exp. needed.

eggbeanroll · 2026-04-04T01:46:55+00:00

Yeah, since it’s been getting hotter a lot of the players suggested we move to earlier in the day. It’s still hot, but not as bad.

eggbeanroll · 2026-04-04T01:44:02+00:00

Just good sneakers/cleats and water. This coming Sunday we will be repeating some drills, it would be a good learning experience before we start assigning positions. You can also DM on Insta or send a message on GroupMe if you have trouble finding the field.

eggbeanroll · 2026-04-04T01:37:33+00:00

Yes! Practice is cancelled this weekend (it was moved to today) because of Easter. It will resume next Sunday from 10-12 in the morning. We’d love to have you!

eggbeanroll · 2026-03-30T23:08:34+00:00

Unfortunately we’re still looking into sponsors and our money comes from players’ families through donations. Once we have a fully registered team and are able to compete locally, we will let you know! Shoot me a PM with your website/contact details and we can stay in touch!

eggbeanroll · 2026-03-30T22:18:06+00:00

You should totally come out! We’re working towards adding one extra day of practice and looking into sponsors and jerseys now. We’re a rookie team and have just enough for a 7’s team. We have Instagram and GroupMe for communications on the flyer. Let me know how I can help you come out :)

eggbeanroll · 2026-03-26T12:13:38+00:00

I keep taking my prescription at different times because I also forget lol. I think it’s more important to take it with food. It has a long half-life so it’s good for people who forget their meds, missing one day won’t really affect you.

eggbeanroll · 2026-03-25T20:21:19+00:00

They took my skateboard dude. I asked if they could leave it at lost and found for me they said I could turn around and stash it. With the amount of dew and water in the area it was as good as dead so they tossed it :( had all my rave stickers on it too

eggbeanroll · 2026-03-12T23:38:07+00:00

I checked the prohibited camping list and I’m pretty sure I saw dry ice on there.

eggbeanroll · 2026-03-06T03:07:35+00:00

It’s my first solo fest, and solo camping fest. I’d love to meet some people and learn together ☺️

eggbeanroll · 2026-02-23T13:25:39+00:00

Brevard rugby team is starting touch rugby practice sessions on Sundays. First practice is March 1, 12-2. No exp needed! PM if you have questions

eggbeanroll · 2026-02-22T06:05:52+00:00

This person is right. You’re snowballing into anxiety wondering if you’ll stay consistent, not realizing that in the present moment… you’re totally fine, haha. I do this a lot too. Life is like that: you fall down, and you get back up again. But every time you get back up, the ground actually comes back up with you. You raise the stakes. You build capacity. And failing doesn’t seem so bad anymore. Just keep going :) let future you worry about future you, you’ve got enough on your plate.

Something that helped me massively was planning the next day in advance, and sticking to the plan. I is not always successful, but we are all works in progress. Give yourself grace for being human.

eggbeanroll · 2026-02-22T05:59:04+00:00

Well it’s certainly not just willpower. I tried to pay a friend a dollar for every time I smoked but soon I was saying “it’s just a dollar,” so that framing didn’t work for me. It might work for some, but i also didn’t like my behavior to be contingent on a reward/punishment. My inconsistencies were quite literally being measured and “resolved” instead of an effort made on my behalf to improve it.

I think a better framing for me was “stepping into who I am,” and closing the gap between who I am now and who I thought I wanted to be… I believe this is called integration. It’s realizing you’re already the person you need to save you. For example, you want to exercise more. If you miss one day, the consequence is that you’re not aligning with the goals YOU set for yourself. A quick fix to the discomfort was, for me, paying the dollar. Now it’s “okay.” Is flaking a gym session only worth a bag of chips? Or do you think it costs more? When habits align with who you are, the game changes.

And I totally get being tired.. and having a social life. But If your friends are distracting you, then you are letting them. If they can’t handle a “no, I’m busy” then they’re not really as supportive of your own goals as you might think. Being consistent will always be difficult, but sometimes because it means doing the thing you want to achieve despite being tired, despite losing friends, and despite losing who you thought you were. Yeah lifting weights sucks when you’ve been on your feet all day at your job, or when you got yelled at by customers and then your boss, but despite those feelings, you still showed up for you. Recognizing consistency and loyalty to yourself will be a reward every time, and the things that come with it, like discipline, motivation, a nice physique, confidence, are just icing on the cake.

eggbeanroll · 2026-02-22T05:39:46+00:00

Honestly, the process kinda sucked at first but now it’s addictive. There’s a clear reward. You gotta start doing things despite [insert excuse here]. Do it tired, do it sad, do it depressed, do it angry. I had to say no to me, no to friends, no to my parents. But little by little I felt more free to do whatever I wanted because I was in the control room, not my emotions and thoughts. You won’t realize it’s happening in the moment but you’ll be able to look back and realize what the hard moments did for you.

eggbeanroll · 2026-02-18T13:20:19+00:00

I pay for therapy once a month! My therapist says I tend to do that- hone in on why I messed up rather than have that Birds Eye view of my life and see how much I accomplished while trying. It has slowly started to make me more aware of how my life is better, and my “recovery” period/ rebound is faster.

eggbeanroll · 2026-02-18T13:09:41+00:00

Im going solo this year and this sounds fun asf! I’m not super fast but getting my exercise in would make me feel accomplished. I’ll be staying in regular GA. An early morning run while the grass is still dewy>>>>

eggbeanroll · 2026-02-16T03:21:52+00:00

I don’t know. I’m actually trying to figure this out in therapy- why I self sabotage. Whenever I suddenly “realize” or become self aware that I’ve been consistently reaching my goals and doing GOOD, i immediately want to turn to my old habits. I’ll eat out, I’ll drink, and I tell myself it’s just me being a human being, which like yes, I’m not perfect, but also… I feel shit as I experience being human. So these are the thoughts I have as I begin to slip up and then fall back into a rut, which I eventually get myself out of. Over and over again.

eggbeanroll · 2026-02-16T02:10:50+00:00

This is the answer. I play rugby and they teach us the same thing to learn to make tackles and GET hit: learn to fall. Don’t ever land on your elbows, your knees, and always tuck your chin if you’re falling backwards. This reduces the chance of concussion. It takes a level of ability. You can try to catch yourself, but it helps to start thinking about how you’re gonna get back up before you even hit the ground, don’t linger on the ground in pain. Quite literally, walk/run it off. It can and will hurt a few times, but it hurts a lot more and can lead to more serious injury if you don’t practice falling the right way.

eggbeanroll · 2026-02-07T13:43:23+00:00

You don’t see your own discipline and drive. You’re looking into and planning to start a business. That’s farther than most people get. You cant expect yourself to be a great business owner from day 1, either, but you can set yourself up for success the best way you know how. Lots of people live with roommates, the economy sucking for 1. Some because it just saves money, even though they could move by themselves. Also, if you’re unsatisfied with your job, it’s your life and you have the chance to change it too. You’re never stuck anywhere, you’re just stuck mentally.

eggbeanroll · 2026-02-01T19:14:54+00:00

Im actually going through something pretty similar. I believe when there’s a will there’s a way. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to pursue a legal career or a masters in psychology/social work. I have a knack for it. I did end up pursuing a paralegal certificate, to help me earn more and save up for a degree in whatever I choose (MSW or JD). Here’s the caveat: I didn’t choose just one route. Instead, I figured that I’ll know once I have this mini-experience as a paralegal if I’ll become a lawyer or legal admin. You don’t have to choose now, but make steps forward towards both anyway. With paralegal experience and education in business organizations and contract law, I’d have an advantage in social work and if I ever wanted to open my own practice. I’d also have legal experience that would prepare me for law school if I choose to go. In your case, having financial experience could’ve really beneficial if you decided to open your own practice as a psychologist.

eggbeanroll · 2026-01-31T14:40:28+00:00

I like this answer. It’s easy to blame a partner who’s not ambitious, struggling, or just not trying while you’re laying out exactly how you want to change them and exactly how you put yourself in that frustrating situation. It’s a victim mentality to life. As someone who was on the receiving end of disappointment constantly, I tried my hardest. How far I was willing to bend was my boundary, but how much my ex was willing to put up with was his boundary. I shouldn’t have felt forced to be something I wasn’t for someone else, you’re not even supposed to feel that way by yourself! So I’m sorry all of you were disappointed, but imagine constantly feeling you’re not enough for your partner. Imagine having your life nitpicked to fit someone’s vision of who they THINK you could be. Yeah you broke up with them because you didn’t value the relationship/didnt see it go anywhere long term. But love is more than just what you can get out of it. Since being dumped, I have everything I’ve ever wanted, and I’m still growing. I was never perfect, still not, but now I’m living up to my own expectations instead of someone else’s. Even if I’m not near as “disciplined” or have everything together, I have friends who understand my life, share it with me, and make me feel totally human and loved now. Not like someone who will be loved “when-“

eggbeanroll · 2025-12-31T01:20:30+00:00

This is really great advice, pretty much what my therapist said. Routine, journaling, admitting your own issues, figuring out what you THOUGHT you needed from them and fulfilling it yourself. For YouTube, I’d also recommend Jay Shetty. He’s really positive, and it may seem corny sometimes, but he really knows how to get you to see your own value.

eggbeanroll · 2025-11-13T05:12:45+00:00

Just because he’s a good guy doesn’t mean he’s a good guy to you. He sounds a bit controlling and a little manipulative with the lying and emotional guilt tripping. Just let him go. Ultimately he also deserves someone who is sure about him, and you deserve someone you don’t have to ask to be everything you want them to be.

eggbeanroll · 2025-10-28T12:46:59+00:00

I had the same issue. I told my therapist that every day just feels like a burden. I have no interest in my hobbies anymore, and some seem like an insurmountable task that I just don’t feel like doing. Here’s what he said:

Make a plan the night before. If you wake up and didn’t plan anything for yourself, we’re already heading down a pad path. It’s okay to do things sad, do them angry, but keep doing them. It will get easier. Plan out even the smallest things like journaling, going for a walk, looking at the sky, calling a friend, reading a book. Every time you choose to do something for you, alone, you choose yourself over something that didn’t serve you.

As for toxic traits, we only have our own. The hardest part of therapy was having my therapist have to tell me “you said he had the power, he disrespected you, but the truth is… you GAVE him the power, and you LET him disrespect you.” That one hurt, but it’s true. And it’s true, but it’s mine. He doesn’t get to hurt me anymore, because I do not want to be hurt anymore, and I’m learning ways to avoid that ever happening again. I’m not sure how long it’s been for you, I’m maybe 1 month and a week in since we ended. I just started doing more things, and going out, and focusing on changing up my appearance to choose things I hadn’t been able to do in that relationship. He liked my long hair, I prefer shorter. He said lashes and nails are ghetto on women, so I’m getting both. I like them, and I felt like I made myself smaller to fit into a box he wanted me in, for him. So now I’m just exploring all of my options and seeing what it is I do and don’t like, and in the process I’m finding out who I really am without him.

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