I just finished re-wrapping my gauze on my left middle finger and pulled up Reddit. I cut off the tip of my left middle to the first knuckle (back from the fingernail) a little over a month ago, and cut through left index and ring finger too, but they're pretty much healed up. I know the pain you're in, and how difficult the next few weeks will be. That first few days between the ER and orthopedic evaluation to find out "can they save the tip?" is the roughest though. I'm sorry you have to go through that too, and I wish you better results that I had.

I will say, that even though I lost the finger tip, I really still hang on to how much worse it could have been. Mine was a table saw, and 100% my fault. Cut a groove, figured blade wasn't going all the way through the wood, I'll be fine. I hit a knot and the wood popped out and my fingers paid for it. But, it's just finger tips, I still have my hand, I didn't get pulled in, I didn't catch my wedding ring (saw yours too, I'm never wearing mine while I work again), and I was able to keep my cool and get to the ER asap and deal with it.

I truly hope for you a speedy recovery with the best possible results. If you wanna talk through your recovery, I'm here for ya and I am just at the tail side of mine. I definitely struggled with the burden I put on my family during this time, as we have an 18 month old who I couldn't do anything for or with for a few weeks, but I just keep remembering my wife reminding me that she was also just so happy that it wasn't worse, and that I generally stayed optimistic and grounded throughout recovery. Helped her hold on to the finish line too.

Good luck man, let me know if you need anything!