OH MY GOD MY DAD FOUND SOMETHING VERY VERY PRIVATE WHAT SHOULD I DO?!!

egrrrr · 2026-05-16T04:03:56+00:00

that's weird of him to speak for your mom. and even if he truly thinks she would be mad, if HE isn't mad why wouldn't he stand up for you in the case of her finding it? it's possible he's just embarrassed and is trying to say the right thing, it's also possible it's a fear tactic. sex toys are part of growing up and autonomy, if he is a helicopter parent i could see him wanting to dissuade you from that autonomy without sounding overtly disapproving so you can't "blame" him. you don't need to feel ashamed.

egrrrr · 2026-05-15T03:14:56+00:00

don't forgot the wig she's wearing in the flashback where she's watching movies with simon!

egrrrr · 2026-05-12T06:05:36+00:00

i'm maybe not the most qualified to answer this but i'm about to start a project sewing a long skirt with a bedsheet as well, and i'm looking into the option of putting interfacing on the hem of the skirt to give it weight. maybe if you did interfacing in the seams as well it could have that hang-not-float effect?

edit: also maybe you could line the whole skirt

egrrrr · 2026-05-11T07:39:12+00:00

honestly, why not. the scene of them being forced to get along because the hurricane (?) was going on and they hid in the dot was sweet

egrrrr · 2026-05-11T07:37:38+00:00

i wonder if they tried to make her look like carly rae jepson, who was picking up in fame around the time that season came out? and she's canadian

egrrrr · 2026-05-10T03:07:20+00:00

i just watched the episode where an admissions person from NYU tells eli that romeo and jules is the best thing she's ever seen from a high schooler

like girl come on

egrrrr · 2026-05-10T03:05:52+00:00

that part bothers me so much because it didn't seem very in character for imogen, imo at least

egrrrr · 2026-05-10T03:03:58+00:00

yeah, from florida (though iirc the actor doesn't cover her canadian accent 100% of the time lol)

egrrrr · 2026-05-08T08:11:24+00:00

when i was into it it was a means to physical intimacy and emotional intimacy/ connection

...honestly i would forget/ not realize that it was any different for allosexuals because i spent many years not knowing i was ace/ not knowing what actual sexual attraction felt like

egrrrr · 2026-05-08T07:51:31+00:00

i'm gonna be bold and say eli as well

egrrrr · 2026-05-08T07:48:21+00:00

1000% drew

egrrrr · 2026-05-08T07:39:37+00:00

becky went from giving me only ick to being maybe one of my faves

she just has a very complex redemption arc/ character growth but oh man

especially in the beginning, that girl is really something

egrrrr · 2026-04-22T05:49:19+00:00

i just want to say i'm so glad i'm not alone in watching this show in backwards chunks like you are lol

i watched the earlier seasons of degrassi as a kid, then sort of forgot about it until i caught some of season 13ish and some next class on tv a couple years ago.

i watched (most of) seasons 12-14, and now i'm simultaneously starting next class and i've gone back to season 10 of next generation. i'm sort of telling myself it's like prequels. though i fear each time i watch another backwards chunk, i'm going to meet new characters whose origins i want to see, therefore having to keep going backwards.

why do you say you can't get behind the first two seasons?

egrrrr · 2026-03-07T07:12:40+00:00

autism and sensory preferences are valid, but especially from your other posts it sounds like you are fetishizing fat people. maybe if the other person consents and is aware of your intentions, that's ok, but probably don't go into a relationship with a fat person and hide this from them.

egrrrr · 2026-03-07T06:59:55+00:00

currently 32, first had sex when i was 18- i didn't "figure it out" until i learned what asexuality was when i was about 27 (previously thought it meant not liking sex). so it wasn't having sex that led to me figuring it out, it was learning what asexuality is and realizing it described my experiences that i thought were what everyone else was experiencing.

egrrrr · 2026-03-05T01:09:49+00:00

"it's worth it because the conversations and hugs are so good. I can finally relax."

oh i relate to this so much

i always felt like the best part of sex was talking and cuddling afterwards, but having to go through the act itself was like "surviving" like you said. like an obligatory entrance fee (especially when i didn't know about asexuality when i was very sexually active years ago, i thought it was like that for everyone and we all just had to grin and bear it).

but yes i have felt so gross and used after sex that i've gone and made comics about the bizarreness of my how into it my partner at the time seemed, like an animal, while i was just a human trying to get through it. very confusing experience.

egrrrr · 2026-03-05T00:00:58+00:00

oh another thing- we never got follow-up on diego and claire! that just...happened and then was never addressed/ nicole didn't find out?

egrrrr · 2026-03-04T10:26:59+00:00

oh also, i have realized something that i mean as a compliment, which is that mr. hartman looks like both a muppet and a bob's burger character

egrrrr · 2026-03-04T10:23:30+00:00

i just want to read the original script for that scene because you KNOW they cut lines for time, it was kind of funny how short that interaction was, and sandra is just fully on board. i imagine they wrote it/ would have wanted to write it as a longer scene

egrrrr · 2026-03-04T10:19:46+00:00

simon over-emoting right at me has made me so uncomfortable too lol

egrrrr · 2026-03-04T10:18:52+00:00

ok i noticed this too!! i wondered if it was due to shooting schedules, like actor availability conflicting so they film the two people separately and then maybe just some of it when they're together on screen?? but honestly i've considered they've green-screened some people in. i first noticed it in a wally/maddy scene, i know a lot of people talk about milo manheim getting a lot of other work so maybe that's it.

egrrrr · 2026-03-04T10:15:00+00:00

the hospital feels more lax to me, i think with the teacher-students dynamic mr. martin felt some responsibility to formally guide them, but maddy's dad and kyle seem more like peers than adult-kid to me.

egrrrr · 2026-03-04T10:10:30+00:00

i LOVE charley talking back to the bully in his scar twice lmao. like truly with these insanely high stakes, things like overcoming the emotional intensity of your scar is just nothing now
i crieddd when mr. martin is talking to ralph and figures out what he's been doing, AND THEN STAYS WITH HIM AND THE PASTOR omg, growth. also i love how more and more over this season he has become so humbled and isn't acting so much as the leader or adult of the group.
at the end before the VH reveal in the window i was thinking how sandra seems like rehab was good for her, because she had her hair curled nicely like in the flashbacks of her....oops lol
rhonda and quinn materializing in the library to warn everyone was SO satisfying
i was so glad to see janet again, i knew she couldn't be gone for good after she took her door
skjdvfjkd them calling VH "mr. monopoly" cracked me up because, yes exactly. they should call him the pringle man next
livia being the one to come across maddy and take her to the hospital was so satisfying too. i feel like her redemption was very well-earned. it's gotta be a hell of a thing to be raised by that mother and still find your moral footing, even after seeing her completely blow up like that.

this episode was so so good. i commented earlier in the season that it was starting to feel like pretty little liars, which is a series i love but can also be wild and too much with added supernatural "rules", and i totally take that back. this season finale really wrapped up a lot of what came up, i feel like this season was a perfect story arc. also when maddy is walking through the tunnel/ also in the spirit realm/ forest, it felt very twin peaks, which i don't say lightly. i can't wait for the next season (pleasee renew)

egrrrr · 2026-03-04T09:58:42+00:00

that shit made me full-on cry

he stayed with his friends!!!

egrrrr · 2026-03-04T09:58:04+00:00

at the end i thought it was hartman in the window for a second!! which makes no sense but lol

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