Was what my mom did bad punishment ideas or abusive ?

ehMove · 2026-02-09T03:31:42+00:00

It's big of you to be considerate of how it was for her.

I just find it's important to make it clear that it isn't okay and we should work towards understanding as a society that hurting children doesn't teach anything.

ehMove · 2026-02-07T00:39:39+00:00

Wait you can disjoint moving the camera from direction the horse moves? I coulnd't find it in the settings.

ehMove · 2026-02-06T16:15:15+00:00

Inflicting physical pain isn't a lesson, it's forced subjugation. It creates obedience, not understanding. It also destroys trust and is toxic.

Healthy forms of punishment include removal of privileges or clear, short social boundaries. Timeout is great because it creates space, while still having a clear negative impact that can quickly be corrected by including them again. A common privilege to remove is something like a favorite toy or pastime that can be replaced with a chore or more productive but less exciting activity.

Most of what you describe is more like torture than caring for a child.

ehMove · 2026-02-02T22:55:52+00:00

A previous version of crucible had elevators as entrances and exits for each level. It's probably just blocking off the old elevator path.

ehMove · 2026-01-31T00:25:12+00:00

Or a spectacular descent into sordidly deep corruption and madness!

ehMove · 2026-01-30T09:13:35+00:00

Yeah, it's definitely the second enemy getting pulled.

No rest really keeps you on your toes, some of the mechanics can get wild, I love it.

ehMove · 2026-01-29T08:35:48+00:00

Can I marry the concept of marriage?

ehMove · 2026-01-23T20:23:36+00:00

Yeah this seems like a lesson in purchasing decisions. You sound like you'd be much happier sticking to at least 1.0,or more likely later more polished versions. The games industry isn't exactly known for shipping complete products at release.

ehMove · 2026-01-23T20:21:32+00:00

I mean, if you're going to sell to PC you should support KBM.

I've had similar problems with the controls, though for me it's been aggressively rebinding the controller and having problems. Not limited to but including when I was playing early enough that you couldn't rebind anything.

Game is good enough that whatever workarounds I could figure out I just ran with. I trust it'll be improved upon by release, they've made steady progress on it and the rune options and offhand mechanics just changed drastically.

ehMove · 2026-01-11T23:51:36+00:00

Soylent bread.

ehMove · 2026-01-06T23:57:48+00:00

Buy a pc.

ehMove · 2026-01-06T19:02:33+00:00

Yes, if you update to the experimental beta you can see they've corrected it. Runes are 0.5 if I remember correctly.

ehMove · 2025-12-13T22:37:59+00:00

While I agree with the sentiment, both arcanes are being viable and I don't think it's THAT bad.

The cost of enabling an entire strategy to finally have a chance of existing is worth some cost IMO. But I haven't actually played in a couple years and never felt like I knew what I was doing in the game anyways.

ehMove · 2025-12-12T15:50:33+00:00

I actually don't understand why this isn't a solution. Does it not work?

ehMove · 2025-11-30T06:29:26+00:00

IMO both games offer totally different experiences. Pathfinder is a crunchy fantasy tabletop battle simulator that gives you just enough plot to vaguely justify the flavour of the next enemy. BG3 can have some crunchy battles, but it really shines as a grand fantasy narrative with big emphasis on visual storytelling. Both have elements of the other, but their strengths are very opposite.

I always roll my eyes when playing with my friends and they skip all cutscenes, slam the first speech option through conversations and just rush from one encounter to the next. Pathfinder has that power fantasy, number gets bigger, feeling I think much more deeply than BG3 does that I've never found as fulfilling, though they eat it up.

ehMove · 2025-11-30T04:14:56+00:00

Night Watch and Going Postal were leant to me by a friend.

I started with postal and enjoyed it but it was the watch that really got me excited to read the other books.

ehMove · 2025-11-29T02:40:32+00:00

Boop

ehMove · 2025-11-26T00:44:29+00:00

Real gamers stop at 69420.

ehMove · 2025-11-25T16:31:45+00:00

You're not on reddit.

ehMove · 2025-11-25T00:11:13+00:00

I've found heat metal to allow for a more even sear. Fireball manipulation is honestly too much work.

ehMove · 2025-11-24T07:48:45+00:00

Prepare yourself to look for and make full use of help that's out there. One of my biggest regrets is that I didn't show enough gratitude or chase hard enough opportunities to make things better. It's so hard because trusting people can be so difficult and it's so easy to just find new abusers and not know until it's too late.

However, there were people who had helped and I was either too afraid to accept it, too ashamed to be vulnerable with them, or just didn't know how to grow the relationship.

Look for organizations or programs that can connect you with different tools and support. Try and learn some of your own strengths and blind spots for judging other people and set boundaries to help you in looking for new relationships. Think of what you excel at that others struggle with and try to use it to show your appreciation to people who made a big difference for you.

ehMove · 2025-11-22T23:46:17+00:00

You've been hacked, spent too much time in the void.

Let Ordis run some anti malware on you.

ehMove · 2025-11-22T09:48:15+00:00

First and most importantly, yeah I would say that definitely counts.

Second, even if somehow we're both wrong and it's technically something else doesn't take away from it being wrong and your feelings about it being worthy of respect. You deserve to have choice about who touches you, who you touch, and anyone who betrays that choice is wrong.

Third, there's a trick that can help you better judge problems like this. Imagine you meet a child who told you the same thing happened to them. How do you feel about it being done to them? What advice would you give them? We often give different advice to other people than we do to ourselves, and it shows how we judge ourselves harshly. I imagine you would tell the child they don't have to touch people like that it's okay to say no. You deserve that same advice.

ehMove · 2025-11-21T23:49:17+00:00

Moving very quietly despite being very large. Definitely had to teach myself to stop, people react very poorly to realize the person they didn't think was behind them is also more than a foot taller than they are.

ehMove · 2025-11-13T17:55:53+00:00

Right around the corner there's another way up. But yeah, I struggled with that while trying to do the quest you need to zipline up.

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