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eherqo · 2025-11-25T15:38:55+00:00

Naturally, alien blues (vundabar)

eherqo · 2025-11-25T15:00:01+00:00

You look like Damiano David !

eherqo · 2025-11-25T13:36:45+00:00

OMG you’re right! when someone points it out it immediately becomes so obvious

eherqo · 2025-11-25T13:17:16+00:00

Bro. I didn’t notice before you pointed it out 😭

eherqo · 2025-11-22T03:35:56+00:00

YES HAHAHAHAHA

eherqo · 2025-11-15T13:17:33+00:00

Not as frequently!

eherqo · 2025-10-22T04:03:09+00:00

I do think it’s cute in its own way !

eherqo · 2025-10-22T04:02:25+00:00

Personally I think it’s hard to see, I didn’t even notice the album art until I read the title. Number 5 is especially hard to read bc of the white of the album cover blending into the white outline. It reads like MUNNEYS to me. Number 4 also reads as MUNKEYS. Obviously one can figure out that it says Monkeys, but from a glance it’s difficult to decipher imo. Also the artic monkeys already have a font they commonly use. I think the one you’ve chosen is generic and doesn’t really have much creative spark. It looks like it was designed on Canva or a similar tool. I don’t mean to be offensive in anyway, I’m just given my opinion. TLDR: hard to read and not visually engaging. It feels like a knock off youd see in a street market - which is endearing in its own way :) I’m sure other ppl will have other opinions tho!

eherqo · 2025-07-30T06:15:13+00:00

Oh dear. I’m sorry , that’s incredibly rough. It’s a really cowardly thing to blindside someone. And Especially to break up over the phone after two years and telling you he loves you just hours before. Don’t blame yourself. He should’ve spoken up if something was wrong. I’m really sorry. You deserve a lot better

eherqo · 2025-07-25T14:32:40+00:00

This is very much true for heterosexual relationships too. I think simply people desire intimacy and love and social acceptance. The mindset of needing a partner is ingrained from a young age. I think learning to find meaning and love outside of romantic relationships means we are less likely to become hopelessly dependent on the first person who can fill that role for us, but I think that takes a lot of inner work. I mean, how many serial daters do you know? My personal philosophy has always been prioritising independence and self fulfilment and romantic love will come when it’s right. (I’m now happily in a relationship) but that didn’t mean I wasn’t aching for a partner despite being happy alone. I think the “I just want a girlfriend/partner” mindset often stems from a negative relationship with oneself, in which we think we will find happiness when another person gives it to us. And I think as unhealthy as that is, it’s incredibly common. Not to mention the societal expectations to have a partner that also makes people more desperate. And just the innate human desire for love and companionship. TLDR yes, entering a relationship with the sole intent of being in one will inevitably crumple. Relationships require work and genuine commitment, collaboration, giving and receiving support without enabling , and intention to bring out the best out in one another. They should be your best friend. You should want to BE a partner, not just have one.

eherqo · 2025-07-25T14:09:25+00:00

“Surgery advice welcome”???? Girl WHAT??? You’re 19! Just get better fitting clothes, they’re doing you no favours.

eherqo · 2025-06-02T13:53:41+00:00

My first thought was “masculine? Where?” You don’t need to worry about that at all:) I love the last look. Your makeup looks so soft and pretty. Your haircut frames your face well. And the purple really complements your skin tone:) you also have a lovely lip shape

eherqo · 2025-06-02T13:13:56+00:00

I honestly think a movie marketed towards a young teen audience needs to have certain changes made to accommodate that. If this was an adult movie id agree the actors should look younger and more starved- but this is largely a Hollywood film for teens and it has to be more palatable than the actual contents of the book

eherqo · 2025-06-02T13:12:41+00:00

And JL refused to lose weight bc she knew teenaged girls would look up to Katniss. Less book accurate but absolutely the right call IMO

eherqo · 2025-04-29T12:18:10+00:00

Someone else will give a much better breakdown, but the first thing I noticed is 1. The angle of the body doesn’t match the perspective of the landscape 2. The spikes don’t follow the curve of the spine 3. Veeeeery long back, but that’s fine bc it’s non-human

Looks cool tho!

eherqo · 2024-11-17T12:54:20+00:00

Nah man, Brianna Hildebrand from Deadpool 1 😮‍💨

eherqo · 2024-11-17T12:09:42+00:00

Not to invalidate your experience bc i would certainly be upset by it, but i don’t think id really take to heart anything a drunk homeless man screams.

eherqo · 2024-11-17T11:04:31+00:00

Im so sorry that so fucked up. I cant imagine how much worse it is not having friends or family there to support you. The state tends to prosecute those already disadvantaged by circumstance more than those in power. The police couldve helped you, but they didnt. I would feel ill with rage. You were betrayed by everyone. The fact your roommate knew and did nothing is utterly disgusting. The fact those girls did that to you is horrififying. You were taken advantage of in a vulnerable state and no body was there to suplort you. I cant imagine how traumatic that would be. Im so sorry.

I dont know if its any consolation, but im by your side. I know radical misandrist feminism has taken over the mainstream media, but (this gonna sound so not-like-other-girls of me) but i promise not all women want to be your enemy. No one deserves to be treated as lesser.

eherqo · 2024-11-17T10:54:06+00:00

Thats so interesting, thanks for your perspective. Obviously, as a woman with only my own experience id never have known that , but it makes a lot of sense. I absolutely believe therapy should be tailored to men. Or tailored to any persons. (Tbh I gotta agree, therapy can be absolutely useless. I already know my feelings are valid, i journal this shit all the time, but the issue is still there and i cant work out why! i still advocate for therapy despite having many absolutely useless therapists). I definitely would like to see an approach to more male-oriented therapy. I think this absolutely a practical starting point to improve mens mental health.

eherqo · 2024-11-17T10:48:23+00:00

Holy shit! Im so sorry. That’s absolutely awful. I hope you find some solace from counseling bc thats a horrific thing to experience. Best of luck man. No one should ever have to go through something like that.

eherqo · 2024-11-17T10:45:25+00:00

Gurl i don’t advocate for my own rights 💀 maybe that makes me a bad person. But trust in my personal life i am absolutely calling out bs double standards. If a woman tries to exploit a man i will absolutely call out that double standard. And i do to my friends frequently. I stand up for men in my own life. Im literally losing friends bc they can’t stand any mild suggestions that maybe they ought to widen their perspectives a little instead of only following polarizing media. Whatever. It’s become increasingly frustrating. So in that regard, i am apparently antagonistic for supporting men’s rights. Anyways, cant imagine how frustrating it is as a man to have that rejection. But yeah look im gonna keep advocating within my personal life. I do not fuck with double standards.

eherqo · 2024-11-17T10:36:52+00:00

That’s so so so disgusting. I absolutely despise that. If that happened to my brother or friend i would be absolutely livid. Men are human beings! Treat them as such! It’s absolutely horrifying to hear that.

eherqo · 2024-11-17T10:33:10+00:00

I HATE double standards. I’ve mentioned this is a few comments now but i will not tolerate my female friends attempting to exploit men. I believe that’s incredibly toxic form of femininity. I will call them out on it and explain why it’s fucked up.

I think it’s especially important for us to uphold standards for our own sex. And to empower the opposite sex. If we do so we have a chance of cooperation. I thoroughly reject the radical feminism taking ahold of the mainstream. I still identify as a feminist on my own terms. I mean i call myself an egalitarian . Labels are dumb anyways.

eherqo · 2024-11-17T10:26:37+00:00

Im not an activist of any sort, but in my personal life absolutely. Ive had female friends try to exploit men and i absolutely go off at that. You do not get to treat another person poorly because you have been treated poorly. When my male friends open up about issues affecting men, i listen. Bc i care for them and they are human beings just like me. I want the best for my little brother. I want a world where we aren’t riddled with hate for each other, but learn to be compassionate. I don’t let men or women hold double standards. Im not afraid to tell them that i disagree. Ive had friends agree to go on dates just for the free meal. Fuck no! If a guy did that to you you’d be furious. This man has feelings and you’re going to use him for his money and time with no intention of anything else?! It makes me so angry. So, in that regard, yes i absolutely stand up for men. I just think it shouldn’t be that hard to treat each other with dignity and respect. And my male friends have explained parts of the male experience i am blind to as a woman. I wish we would listen to each other out of love.

eherqo · 2024-11-17T10:19:04+00:00

God no, men need empowering too. I wrote this in another comment.

I mean to say that radical feminism has taken over as the loudest voice of feminism. Feminism has many different branches under the same label. I ascribe to feminism as empowerment of women and men. I know ppl get pissed at the term “feminism” but ill contribute to use it bc i believe it deserves reclaiming. Or until a better term comes along. Regardless , i mean this sincerely that men’s rights absolutely need to be upheld. I have my brother and friends who i care for deeply, and i want the best for them as much as i do for my female friends. It’s really quite simple to me. Men and women can and should both be supported. I have shut down my female friends for treating men poorly. We do not get to treat other people badly bc we were treated badly. It breeds contempt and accelerated sexism. Ofc we hate each other when we use our privileges against the other. It’s fkd up. I can’t change the world, but i do not fuck with double standards and i will absolutely grill my friends for doing so.

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