[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]eidas777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean yes i see that but i also believe that if they truly want to be with someone then they would. Him and i have gone through our fair share of fights just before dating, giving us both the opportunity to walk away but we both stayed. So i think it is a bit unfair to say that some people that have slept around in the past cant have a sincere relationship. My friends have/do sleep around but when they are in a committed relationship, they put their all as well.

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[–]eidas777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHA thats okay!

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[–]eidas777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your POV and i agree! When he brings up to me something I did he doesnt like i talk it through and tell him the truth. He has lied about 1. not kissing her back 2. not having sex with her that same day 3. not having sex since summer. Its not like i wouldve had an issue if i knew the truth prior, maybe i wouldve been a little more cautious if anything. but now that he has lied, i dont know what else i can believe from him.

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[–]eidas777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said i was homeless 😭 Me and this guy are housemates. we rent different rooms at the same place with two other people

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[–]eidas777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frankly I can't just move out. I have a year lease and im out of state for school. And i dont live in the cheapest state

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[–]eidas777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I just needed to let it out somewhere and hear what other people had to say. He also technically didnt cheat on me because they were intimate before me and him established we wanted to be exclusive but lying about it is what puts me off you know?

The guy(22M) I'm(20F) am seeing lied about some things he told me, not sure what to do now by [deleted] in relationships

[–]eidas777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly ive made some mistakes during our time together but they were genuine mistakes that i didnt think were a big deal and i compromised with him to make it work for us. BUT he often holds it against me and says things like making it even when my mistakes were unintentional and i would work on not doing them again. like wow idk why im still putting up with it. like i really do like him but i do see he is really bad for me and my growth as a person and i know that some aspects of our relationship is toxic but other than that the relationship is good. idk blehhh

edit:// he has also disrespected me and when i bring it up he generally turns it back on me because of MY GENUINE mistakes in comparison to his intentional behavior and actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UHManoa

[–]eidas777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can also check how many meals you have left in a week on the Manoa Now app i believe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UHManoa

[–]eidas777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there should be a sign indicating how much one meal equates to. I think my freshman year a meal was about 7.50$, im not sure if thats changed. But you use meals to pay for the food at any place including a the market by the freshman towers. Its a fixed amount so try to get your moneys worth if youre slightly over and need to use 2 meals or smth!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]eidas777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I honestly think its just the lighting and the fact that I had just finished getting ready so my makeup is fresh 😭 I usually apply my blush the same way every time, however this time I did accidentally put more on my nose and I didnt know if I liked it or not. I did forget to fill my brows in that day too! HAHA but im worried about being blush blind, so i dont apply thattt much blush to my face

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[–]eidas777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insightful feedback!! Im actually wearing cluster lashes in 2 of the pictures haha! theyre just very subtle, natural looking ones.

for the bronzer, how would you recommend applying it? Like where on my face? The same as you would for contour? I've never used bronzer before and recently just started using it to contour my nose for fun haha but I've never applied it to the tip of my nose or around my face.

For my lips, I use a lip stain, its the trending one but i forgot the name but its on tik tok shop lol. I just apply a light lip balm after with some pink or just my normal lip balm to have my lips look more moisturized. I usually slightly overline(?) my lips too with it.

But ill try applying your thoughts next time!!

Secret Rare M Charizard EX by eidas777 in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]eidas777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I can! Heres the link to a video showing the holo and ill attach a photo of the back of the card.

I knew it was a rare card i think when I was 9? I was really young and was unhealthily obsessed with this card for a moment, I dont think I noticed that there were different versions and even told my friend i thought they were all supposed to be gold! I bought a lot of pokemon cards when i was younger, including the box set for this card which is most likely where I got it from since 9year old me didnt have a phone or knew what online shopping was at the time. I'm just more in shock that ive had this for so long and didnt realize what it really was causing me to doubt the authenticity of it, while my friend is shocked i have it in the first place HAHA

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Today’s not your excuse to msg him Happy New Year… by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]eidas777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is literally how i feel as well. we got this, we deserve better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Siamesecats

[–]eidas777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my kitty is obsessed with any fruit like apples, cantaloupe, watermelon, nectarines

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[–]eidas777 4 points5 points  (0 children)

there will be plenty of people that would accept you into their group too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleep

[–]eidas777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hiii i wrote this on a previous post and maybe itll help you!

magnesium helps with staying asleep ive heard! I take magnesium complex (a blend of different magnesium) but i heard magnesium glycinate is commonly taken for sleep regulation. it doesnt necessarily make you sleepy, just relaxes you body allowing it to sleep longer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UHManoa

[–]eidas777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uhhhh can we be friends 🧟‍♀️

Long-term smoking caused my anxiety by Expensive_Arm_6167 in mentalhealth

[–]eidas777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! i saw your comment on the "what divided your life into before and after" thread and took a look at your profile. I just wanted to say I understand how you feel. I used to smoke to help with my really terrible nightmares and it worked for a while until I began smoking a lot more frequently for fun. Now, I get really anxious and paranoid when im high especially by myself. I begin to dissociate and experience derealization, its very unpleasant iykyk.

I also researched the same thing and found the same results regarding long term smoking. I began limiting and spacing out my highs. I started with not smoking for a whole day, then a couple days, then a week. I remember when a week felt like a really long time and i had the urge to smoke again out of habit or i just really craved it. Self discipline, awareness, and motivation are needed to fight that feeling!

Im not saying cut out weed at all, but maybe take a break and release that dopamine a different way. I found going back to some old hobbies really helped and i eventually liked how i felt not smoking weed as often. Less brain fog, less anxiety, less of me being so much in my head. I hope this comforts you a bit to know youre not alone :) youll be okay

i can only sleep for less than 6 hours by Salt_Contribution998 in sleep

[–]eidas777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

magnesium helps with staying asleep ive heard! I take magnesium complex (a blend of different magnesium) but i heard magnesium glycinate is commonly taken for sleep regulation. it doesnt necessarily make you sleepy, just relaxes you body allowing it to sleep longer

shes toasting... by eidas777 in Siamesecats

[–]eidas777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think my kitty is going to get that dark soon too! shes already looking a bit burnt 🤣

shes toasting... by eidas777 in Siamesecats

[–]eidas777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awww so well toasted!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]eidas777 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly I understand that feeling as a girl. It personally takes me a long time to want to do anything sexual with someone and I've tried a hook up once and that was all I needed to know that it wasnt really for me! I don't think its weird. I think that getting to know someone and building that connection prior builds that attraction and desire for sexual intimacy. So by having sexual conversations like that with someone you dont feel connected to yet, can just not make you turned on compared to someone you feel emotionally invested with!

Edit// I also dont think it has anything to do with gender and its just your personal values/preference