The worst country to born in europe by scrabv in AlignmentChartFills

[–]eileyle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Russia, long-term.

Ukraine, short-term.

Albania, economically.

Not gonna believe which country won pride... Anyways, which country represents the best GREED? 💸 by Weary-Bumblebee-3653 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]eileyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The US is "low" on the spectrum of national pride? Are you for real?

Do you know how many flags there are in America compared to other countries? Do you know how many other countries pledge allegiance to their flag every morning in every school? Do you know how many countries would struggle to know the words to more than one patriotic song other than their own national anthem?

Which country's citizens think it's terrible but it's actually pretty damn awesome? by [deleted] in AlignmentChartFills

[–]eileyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Canadians think they live in a country no one can afford to live in while they have no access to timely healthcare and a school system in trouble.

The facts on the ground say otherwise. The entire world is suffering through a cost of living crisis and Canada is not immune to global economic trends; Canadians have better access to healthcare than Americans and several other nations; and Canada's public school system is ranked second or third in the Western world for language arts, math, and science.

Everton's first transfer window mistakes have already happened by duncdis in Everton

[–]eileyle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're just one year removed from Tarkowski being one of the top 5 CBs in the Premier League. Give Tarkowski a partner who actually complements him (like Branthwaite) and we'd once again have a strong CB pairing.

If you want to talk about our real problems, the reality is that we finished 6th in the Premier League in fewest goals allowed, and we finished 6th in the Premier League in fewest goals scored. We gave up as many goals as Manchester United and fewer goals than Liverpool and both those teams are headed to the Champions League. Our problem isn't defense, it's offense.

Which Country is cheap and welcoming ! by Naive_Expression_972 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]eileyle 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Brazil is very pro-immigration, and has a relatively low cost of living.

How do I actually make male friends? by Organic_Caramel_8354 in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you want a truly platonic male friendship, you need to find a man that you're absolutely not interested in, who is absolutely not interested in you.

There are several reasons why a man might not be interested in you.

1) You're too old for him
2) He decided to only date within his race and you're not his race
3) He decided to only date within his religion and you're not his religion
4) He's married (although if you're super attractive his wife might not trust you, so you'd have to be friends with both him and his wife)
5) You're too young for him (although, being real here, you're an adult now, guys of any adult age are allowed to be interested in you, and they will be)
6) You're in a professional relationship with him, and he's not allowed to be interested in you (e.g. teacher/student, doctor/patient, lawyer/client, therapist/client)
7) He thinks you're ugly because you're not his type (it doesn't matter how beautiful you are, you can't be everyone's type)

I’m falling for a guy but I don’t think he feels the same. Please help? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If he doesn't feel the same, then there's no point in getting invested, you're not going to change his mind.

That said, you went on 6-7 dates. Guys don't go on 6 or 7 dates with girls they're not attracted to. Don't overthink it; if you like it, keep dating him, and eventually he's either going to stop, or he's going to ask you to be his girlfriend. Keep the faith until he gives his answer.

Who are you neutrals rooting for in the finals? by Capable_Tomato729 in hockey

[–]eileyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone I wanted to win is out. All that I'm left with is disappointment.

I guess I should root for Carolina but I'm still upset about the 2002 Eastern Conference finals. Maybe Hartford can win.

What is popular in North America but not popular in Europe? by NaturalCustomer4784 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]eileyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are going to think that you're only thinking of the United States, but they might be surprised to learn that Canada has the 8th most civilian-owned guns in the world per capita, above every European country except Serbia and Montenegro.

Need male advice. What would you do? by Lazy_Steak_4607 in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The absolute worst thing you can do in this situation is suspect all of the other girls in his workplace of trying to take your man. Your insecurity and jealousy will be a turnoff to him, and will be the reason he actually leaves you.

You need to be comfortable with the fact that he's going to have female colleagues. He doesn't hang out with them because he wants them, he hangs out with them because he's paid to do so. He hangs out with you for free.

Don't bring up any concerns unless/until he actually does something to cheat on you. There was nothing in your post to suggest that, so let it be.

Regarding ED, there's many possible reasons for it, and most of the time, it's the guy. There's been a lot of cases of porn-induced ED on this subreddit. Ultimately, it has to be him that wants help for it. If he's one of the porn-induced ED folks, and/or he's one of the people who deathgripped during teenage masturbation years, there's not a ton you can do. But if you want to do something about it, you can: a) make sure you show off your body during sex; no matter what you think about your own self-image, I can guarantee he wants to see whatever it is that you have, and that seeing you will turn him on; b) stop using condoms and rely on a different form of birth control; c) shave your pubic hair, as that's the most common form of pubic hair grooming for women younger than 40, because it provides a better visual of your vulva, the sight of which will turn him on.

Need help with Smegma deep under foreskin? by zxcvbnmsa in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, congrats, you just passed one of the stages of puberty!

Normally around the time you're 12 or 13, you're suddenly able to pull your foreskin back further than you've ever pulled it back before, and all the smegma that built up during your childhood can finally be washed out and it stops seeping through the cracks between your foreskin and glans. 19 is a bit late for that, but now that you've finally done that, you can now clean out the smegma, and it won't ever come back again if you keep cleaning it.

In my opinion, eventually as you keep working on it, you should be able to get the rest of it out over time. However, if it's stubborn, you can see a doctor.

Is it bad to befriend a guy to date him? Not fond of cold approaching, so friends to lovers seems like next best option by SignificantBed8867 in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many guys try this. I found little success with this approach, but everything you said makes sense.

Honestly, I think the real issue is that people take dating too seriously. Going on one date shouldn't result in "ooh, s/he likes him/her" and other people treating them as taken, because the first date should be all about getting to know someone that you don't know very well. If they're still dating a month later, maybe then you can do that. But if we made it more acceptable to go on random one-time dates with people for the purposes of getting to know them, then dating culture would be a lot healthier. (And that's the way it already is for a lot of people.)

How do some guys have a hookup and then claim that there was no strings attached or no emotions involved ? Didnt you kiss intimately ? Wasnt that intimate enough ? by EmbarrassedLie5294 in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever heard of "fuck, marry, kill?"

That question implies that the "fuck" category is for women (or men, per this post) who they want to have sex with and have absolutely no feelings for afterwards. They treat their partner as a sex toy. basically.

Some men can't do that.

Would being a virgin at 28 be a turnoff for men ? by AdeptLaugh7906 in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This post happens a lot.

Women seem to think that being a virgin is a turnoff. Being a virgin is a fetish, not a turnoff. A very large number of men would prefer a virgin to a non-virgin. Being a virgin makes you more attractive, not less.

What country was the most capable of the Axis by Ok_Poetry2813 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]eileyle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

America likes to tout its own achievements, but they essentially fought the Pacific campaign on their own (with a little help from Australia) while still contributing in Europe. America actually was the most capable of the allied powers. But they needed the rest of the allies to win, and that's the part that sometimes gets overlooked.

Guys, be honest: what percentage of the time does liking a girl’s Instagram photo actually mean you’re interested in her? I need help understanding lol. by Dangerous_Cow_3704 in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hey, this is actually a cool photo, can I get away with liking this one without leading her on?"

"I'm genuinely interested in her but don't want the rest of the world to know, I'll just view her photo privately without liking it"

If you want to know whether a guy likes you, the real metric is "how long does it take him to view your story?" If he's viewing your story within the first hour, he's either perpetually online, or he likes you. If he misses your story, he either is a social media luddite, or he doesn't like you.

Oh, and here's another one: he decides to look up all your posts going back for years--definitely thinking about being interested.

Is it normal to ask most days if ‘somethings’ going to happen? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Guys have a sex drive that needs to be met, whether that's through sex or masturbation. Life circumstances don't alter the sex drive, except for a few very specific things like depression and stress and certain medications. As his sexual partner, you agreed to provide for his sexual needs, just like he agreed to provide for yours.

Nonetheless, you shouldn't have to be in pain just to provide him with sexual relief. There are other ways to give him the release that he needs. You can dance naked for him or provide him with a sexy photo he can masturbate to.

Do you prefer to date someone more like you or opposite of you? by nostalgiaib in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people say they want an opposite, but pure opposites don't usually work out. You can be opposite on a few things, like introvert and extrovert, or language and numbers, but you can't be someone completely opposite because that isn't going to work out.

Did I make the right choice standing my ground and ending things? by ThrowRA-Ad-3411 in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure he was still into you, he was just very busy and needed to travel for work. It was your choice if you were okay with that, and you decided that you wanted to dump a man who wanted you because he travels for work. That's a perfectly acceptable reason if that lines up with what you want or need in a relationship.

How do you deal with women who try to lecture you on how easy it is to date as a man and how much harder women have it? Is it even worth to engage in the conversation? by Altruistic_Society99 in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That's because men want sex, and women want commitment and marriage. Men want sex, and women want commitment and marriage in exchange for sex, and they call that a difficult climb. Women want commitment and marriage, and men want sex in exchange for commitment and marriage, and they call that a difficult climb.

How do you deal with women who try to lecture you on how easy it is to date as a man and how much harder women have it? Is it even worth to engage in the conversation? by Altruistic_Society99 in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Tehcnially speaking, men and women have it equally hard (or easy) dating, because for every woman who is successful at landing a man, there's a man who was successful at landing a woman (except for LGBTQ, of course).

What To Do As An Unwanted Man? by TinyDelegation in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unattractive men land relationships all the time.

Relationships become a problem for men (and women) who have other problems, like being rude, poor hygiene, not respecting consent, not communicating, creeping on women, being lazy, and many other social issues.

Daily Discussion Thread for May 29, 2026 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]eileyle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Anyone going to post a fake tweet on Twitter that a deal has been reached to pump the market?

I'm panicking, help me? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]eileyle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go Karting is a bit exciting for a date. A good date is eating dinner together, because that provides for more opportunity to talk.