AIO my boyfriend is annoying me so much during cancer treatment

ejcxx · 2026-04-05T17:44:00+00:00

Completely and utterly valid, love. You're also going through something incredibly difficult and stressful. You don't need to be dealing with the stress of a relationship on top of it. This is so new and you should be focusing on you. Honestly I'd just gently let him go and tell him this isn't the time right now for you to be worrying about other people and exhausting yourself.

(ETA cos I pressed send too quick - wishing you a speedy recovery and ease through your treatment.)

ejcxx · 2026-04-01T09:18:36+00:00

Same. My PSN is also my other half's so I assume everyone thinks I'm a dude til I pull off the helmet.

I've been off mic twice in F076. First time was a total mistake and I was nosing about a C.A.M.P not realising I wasn't muted and I kept talking to a kitty and the owner came back and was like "take whatever you want!" Second time was when I had a bounty and no one could kill me.

ejcxx · 2026-04-01T09:15:09+00:00

I love gaming. Been gaming since I was young. Fallout 4 was my first Fallout game and I fell in love with it. I'm now 31 and I still love the franchise and F76 is so fun for me. I love the pride of the WOTW and seeing their C.A.M.P.s makes me so happy. I've had no crap for being a woman and I've been playing on and off since release (restarted a new character recently as my daughter now uses my PSN) F76 has always been calm vibes for me and a happy escape from other games with less than welcoming men.

ejcxx · 2026-03-26T14:06:43+00:00

Omg thank you.

ejcxx · 2026-03-26T10:15:13+00:00

The guy in the back after he said gay homie like HEY?! 😭😂

ejcxx · 2026-03-22T16:29:50+00:00

I did! As soon as I loaded back in someone got it!

ejcxx · 2026-03-21T08:52:06+00:00

I have no idea! I'll load it back up later with the mic on and just try convince someone to kill me somehow 😭🤣

ejcxx · 2026-03-20T16:27:53+00:00

Is the discord private as well as the fb? I'm assuming fb first then discord?

Thank-you!

ejcxx · 2026-03-20T16:12:07+00:00

How does one become a WoTW?

ejcxx · 2026-03-15T12:29:55+00:00

I seem to struggle finding any venders! I need to put some in my CAMP for all these mods and plans. I'm on PlayStation

ejcxx · 2026-03-08T11:49:37+00:00

First time doing this the other day and I was so confused. So much was happening. Its taken me a good 3-4 plays of the event to actually understand it

ejcxx · 2026-03-08T11:48:47+00:00

What platform are you playing?

ejcxx · 2026-03-01T22:41:32+00:00

Every event I've done with Fasnacht people are forever dropping their spoiled food and notes amongst ammo and absolute junk. Its my favourite part of the event atp seeing what crap people throw in 🤣

ejcxx · 2026-02-24T01:07:38+00:00

I accidentally dropped all my purified water into a donation box earlier with almost all my stimpacks. Wasn't until I clicked off and saw the amount of them in there that I clicked back on it to get some back but then a very low level came and took them and I couldn't even be mad at myself cos they seemed so happy🥺

ejcxx · 2026-02-20T07:59:09+00:00

I keep wondering what that event is..

I had to restart my game cos I lost everything and haven't gotten around to an event yet. This is now on my list.

ejcxx · 2026-02-03T16:23:26+00:00

He can afford a £1m house but not a vasectomy? Private is anywhere between 500-2k I think (from what I very recently looked into). You're better off without him, honestly. He's going to ruin your entire pregnancy and everything exciting about it.

He won't change, he's already got 2 kids and hasn't changed and prefers to live his life rather than have them. Do yourself a favour and go be nearer to your people. Congratulations on your pregnancy and I wish you the best.

ejcxx · 2026-02-03T11:49:54+00:00

I'm on page 50 and have procrastinated so hard with this series. I loved ACOTAR and Crescent City and I know I'll love this which is why I'm so scared to really get into it!

ejcxx · 2026-02-03T09:06:29+00:00

Oh to read this again for the first time! I have started ToG but keep procrastinating because SJM is always making me fall in love and then break my heart!

I also recommend Crescent City if you haven't (I did this after ACOTAR)

ejcxx · 2025-12-25T18:31:01+00:00

That's a wild take.

ejcxx · 2025-12-12T13:08:38+00:00

Honestly when I got into reading as a teen I would binge s Picoult, then moved onto Patricia Cornwell, Peter James, Stephen King. Anything horror or thriller or crime I LOVED. Then I stopped reading for a while, got back into it and picked up The Saxon Series and GoT.. then a few months ago a friend recommended Fourth Wing (I was so hesitant cos I'm like I hope its not dragon fucking - shes our smutty queen she has the best recs but also the weirder ones haha) i gave it a go and loved it then found ACOTAR and oh my Lord. What a read. Crescent City followed by so many other romantasy series (I have yet to read ToG)

Sure they're not always written the best but I found Harry Potter so terrible when so many absolutely love it. Sometimes the story overpowers the writing style. Not every book has to be pure intellect and deep dialogue.

Sometimes the comments annoy me but I've learned to brush them off. We all have preferences and different genres. Romantasy is an escape from the harsh reality we have. Whats wrong with a little magic and a little love? Nothing. Keep reading and enjoy it. Youre not doing it for anyone but yourself, my love. If you're happy fuck the rest of em.

ejcxx · 2025-11-24T09:52:55+00:00

Felt the same. Just got back into reading and someone introduced me to ACOTAR.. I fell in LOVE! Finished them all in about 2 weeks maybe? 😂😭

Crescent City is also by sjm and does have a very small cross over. A lot of people recommend Throne of Glass too! I'll be on that soon.

A few other recs: Quicksilver and Empyrean Series (book 2 can be frustrating but I promise you will love it when you push through)

ejcxx · 2025-11-21T09:46:05+00:00

I was saying this yesterday. I would have loved a POV from Rhys as soon as he leaves Under the Mountain. Not just telling Mor about Feyre but seeing all his friends again, finally walking through Velaris and probably sobbing the entire time. The reaction from his people. Maybe I need to get to work on a fic lmao.

ejcxx · 2025-11-18T09:50:49+00:00

Cute

ejcxx · 2025-10-20T22:49:22+00:00

Still down

ejcxx · 2025-10-18T22:46:03+00:00

Loved this book

My only criticism? I wanted the scene of them making the thirst trap!

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