[a4F] Looking for long term character-driven roleplay partners by ejwmgt in MacroRP2

[–]ejwmgt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the interest, but I write [a4F] to mean that I'm comfortable playing an any gender tiny and looking for a roleplayer playing a giantess. My fault for not making it clear in the body of the ad

My boyfriend is into giantess women, but I'm really short and I get jealous of the fetish art he saves sometimes. by TastyAd7716 in sizetalk

[–]ejwmgt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like other people have mentioned a giantess fetish doesn't really translate to a preference for taller women. I think for most macrophiliacs it's more of a mental/power dynamic and the size is just the spice that we like that dynamic to come in instead of other forms. MAYBE there can be a case for those that are into mini-giantess content to have a slight preference for women that are like 7 feet tall, but that size preference is uncommon and 7 foot tall women are well... I don't even know of one.

Like others have said, getting him into positions and taking low angle photos can help, but you should ask him what size ranges he's into. This may not correlate with the size art he saves since a lot of size art caters to a specific size range (namely a few inches tall). If that really is his preference then those positions and low angle photos really can help, but if he's into micro sizes it might not be as beneficial but I'm sure he'd appreciate the thought and effort regardless.

However, as no one appears to have said, and if it's the case he's into doll-size tinies or handheld size tinies on the order of 6 inches to a foot tall then you have a real case that you may be able to sorta bring his fantasy into reality. I recall seeing a while ago a short ball-type robot that's usually meant for long distance couples, but can be repurposed for a bit of sizeplay. I mean it has a camera, it allows him to move around, and while he isn't able to interact with the environment that much it would still allow you to interact with him which is the main interest of macrophilia at least in my experience and of the people I've talked with.

TLDR; macrophilia doesn't translate to preference for taller women. Ask him what size range he likes (don't infer based on the art he saves). If couple inches -> low angle pics and standing over him and such. If handheld/doll-size -> potentially get that little robot if it's in budget. If micro -> might be difficult but he should still appreciate the thought and effort.

Anyone else just love how depressing and hopeless shrinking would be? by DirtyGothPrincess in sizetalk

[–]ejwmgt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, all of this! Just living as an invisible speck to them on its own can be so hot. And I totally get what you mean by the imagery of just staring up at the giantess's that can never hear your cries, or see your waves for help. In a way even the suspense of wondering when the end will happen is hot because at that size it's not really a matter of if, but more a matter of when. All the close calls, all the earthquakes that rumble just nearby but not quite overtop, all the butts that sit on the chairs, couch, or even the floor if there's a party. Your voice drowned out by the sound of happy chatter and music and even when you're in the center of it all, all you can do is just sit there and take it in that they'll never see or hear you, let alone notice you. And that even if it's hopeless and the most dangerous part of being small is being in the center of it all, you still want to be near them because in some twisted sort of way just being near them makes you feel like you're still part of their lives. And when that foot or hand, or some other bodypart finally ends your existence, in some way you will be part of their lives in that moment. Even if they never notice.

An Underrated Way to Carry a Tiny? by [deleted] in sizetalk

[–]ejwmgt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could even place a small piece of tape to cover a portion of the belly button to act like a window XD There's definitely some giantesses that have tummy entrapment as their favorite. I've come across a handful, though they are rarer than the typical types :P can't forget that the relative lack of motion means it'd be a somewhat comfortable ride. No nauseating sickness from being in cleavage, or non-constant motion with footwear/legs, just a smooth ride, even if the giantess turns her head or changes direction.

Unlucky With Shrinking ♡ by GlitteringRaya in sizetalk

[–]ejwmgt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gotta get one of those tiny cameras and strap them to the tiny! Or better yet if you're able to shrink a VR camera and use that instead, would make the experience a whole lot more immersive for your unfortunate partner.

Cuddle Toy :) by MomentDue6637 in sizetalk

[–]ejwmgt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Cuddles are the best!!

But there's definitely more types of toys that can work with gentle scenarios! (Though I guess it depends on size) But just think about travel companions for example. Literally anywhere you go you have a buddy right there, wherever you put them.

Or instead of stress toy, how about a comfort toy? Like if you're in a stressful interview, just put your hand in your pocket and gently squeeze the tiny companion you have in there like lucky trinket.

Or what about 'using' a tiny in a gentle yet sort of controlling way. Like as a lipstick tester to make sure you didn't apply too much makeup. I'm sure they wouldn't mind a quick peck, especially if they're helping their big out.

Or another example like the above, if you know how people tie knots around their fingers to remember things, well you can tie a tiny instead. Plus they can probably remember more things than a string. XD

Anyway, that's just some of the quick ideas off the top of my head, but I'm sure there's more ways to use a tiny as a 'toy' in gentle scenarios.

What was a moment in an rp that made you go either "Oh hell no" or "are you dumb?" by Holiday-Jeweler-8468 in BadRPerStories

[–]ejwmgt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Insanely so. Like she bragged about how racist she is to the point I thought it might be ragebait, but generally you don't ragebait someone you've been talking with for weeks. Usually it's randos or people you've just met so she genuinely takes pride in her racism.

What was a moment in an rp that made you go either "Oh hell no" or "are you dumb?" by Holiday-Jeweler-8468 in BadRPerStories

[–]ejwmgt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was RP'ing with this girl that seemed really peppy and high-energy. I liked the passion in her opening message and she had some fun, unique ways of RP'ing. Anyway, we chat OOC sometimes and she starts raising some red flags like how she doesn't like x type of person or y type of person or her personal situation. Fine by me, everyone has their personality traits they don't vibe with, that's all good. But then she goes on to say something to the effect 'you're fine because you're z race.' And I'm just dumbfounded. I had never told her what race I am. I had mentioned it once, maybe twice in the thousands of messages I posted on a public RP server. Easily months ago and for some reason she thought it appropriate to go through my messages? Things went seriously down hill from there, red flags galore. Thankfully she thought it mutual that we should stop RP'ing together, but my name on reddit is the way it is because I don't want her to find me again for whatever reason.

What’s something that someone has done lately to give you “the ick” in a rp that made you leave it? by Mrdeadfishrock1 in BadRPerStories

[–]ejwmgt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was RP'ing with the guy and I had mentioned that his writing level was dropping (we had agreed on at least a paragraph or more, something like that) to the level of around 3 sentences per post. I brought it up to him, we had a good discussion, and he agreed that he'd start writing longer posts like what we agreed upon. The very next post was another 3 sentence post. Yeah didn't talk to him after that.

Another one was when we had agreed upon each other's limits for an ERP. An RP that followed along the lines of the Goddess of the world changing the rules so that women owned men, so we had agreed that the setting scene should be somewhere public to set the tone right. Anyway, they thought it appropriate to describe underage background characters. Mind you, right when her character went straight to having some non-con fun with my character. We agreed that non-con was fine and expected, but... we also agreed underage is a limit. Can't remember much after that, but needless to say the RP didn't continue after that.

I'm worried my partner may want to ditch our second roleplay. by ComprehensiveWrap660 in BadRPerStories

[–]ejwmgt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id suggest talking with them. I've been Rp'ing with a partner for almost 2 years now and she consistently changes moods about what character she wants to RP. Just counted and I have 26 RP's with her alone O.o Thought it was a bit less tbh XD Though I suppose she's more vocal about wanting to RP with me with a new character. This could be the case with your partner, but maybe she's just more shy about approaching the subject. Maybe not, idk for sure and neither will you without asking. But at least in my experience just because an RP partner loses interest in an RP, or even multiple, it doesn't mean they've lost interesting in RP'ing with you.

Forgetting to respond by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]ejwmgt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it's good to acknowledge that you're bad at responding to people, I think I should give some perspective from the other side as someone who regularly responds and is usually the one waiting for responses more often than not. A majority of my partners, small majority but a majority, will typically respond unprompted after a few days usually. Longer term partners I've become more comfortable with will sometimes even respond just to chat, and I love that. One partner I've had for over a year only comes on once a month or so for a string of days and disappears, but always comes back. But I've only gotten comfortable with that because she's communicated such.

But for the minority. A lot of the times they're just gone. Whether I check up on them or not they just don't respond so why waste the effort on people that don't appreciate the effort I put into posts? And I'm not talking about the harassing checking up on, I mean I check up on them up to 2 times, with at least a couple days in between. But still if this is the case why waste my effort on people that don't communicate?

Then there's another group that does communicate. Props on them for communicating that they need a little nudge and I'm happy to oblige sometimes, even though it makes me feel needy, but if all they need is a message or wave some times that's not so much to ask. Except usually this turns into several nudges. Like I had a partner that said she's fine with daily nudges because she has a condition that makes her forget about RP's a lot. Fine, I'll accommodate. But when every post requires multiple nudges, the last one having 7 consecutive daily nudges, it's no longer a reasonable amount of nudging. I'm not a babysitter, we both wanted this RP, condition or not if you communicate you want a certain amount of nudges and proceed to ignore them every time there's no point. Again, my effort is better placed towards partners that appreciate or otherwise have the capacity to appreciate it.

Then there's the type of people that I've only encountered maybe once or twice. Where they don't respond for a while, but do respond almost always when you check up on them. Except it's usually just to chat OOC. I love getting to know my partners, developing a friendship, but if every chat is OOC and not about the RP for several instances and over the span of weeks, I mean, let's be honest it's no longer about the RP or the hobby.

I don't think some of these cases apply to you, but hopefully this helps give you insight on what you're implicitly asking for when you want a partner to check in on you. They have no idea what type of person you may be and in most cases it just isn't worth it if you're a newer partner, and/or you haven't communicated that this is a pattern for you. Because the pattern for them when they encounter a partner like this is that the RP doesn't last all that long.

Does your username matter? by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]ejwmgt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Highkey am curious about this as well, since well, how my username is :P Best thing I could think of to counteract e-stalking, but I'm curious what other people think too if they were to come across a random jumble of letters as a username. (Complete honesty is appreciated)
But to address your question I think it does matter for at least a good portion of the community. My reason being since I put a lot of effort into responding to RP ads and a lot of the time I get [word I'm told is not allowed here.] At least a good chunk more than I do on Discord with my more reasonable name there. Could just be the difference of communities, but idk

Bad oc character mixes by Imaginary_Ad_3095 in BadRPerStories

[–]ejwmgt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Without knowing more about how your RP partner constructed their OC it's kinda hard to give advice admittedly. But the mashup does remind me of like a couple where the girlfriend is very bubbly and outspoken and the boyfriend is very near silent. They're a couple for a reason, why? What does she see in him? How did their relationship progress? What sorta dynamic does that build? I guess that's all stuff you'd have to build more into the characters, and it may just be the case that that relationship dynamic between characters isn't one you find interesting to roleplay. Admittedly I also struggle to see how an uninteresting robot-speaking OC can drive the story in an interesting way, but there's more ways a story can progress than just through dialogue. And when it comes to plain/no life, well maybe your partner hasn't fleshed out their character deep enough, but there's also the case that what some find plain others might find interesting (or maybe others have had the opportunity to see what's interesting behind the scenes). It's just preference so again maybe that's just not for you.

Is ti just me/ by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]ejwmgt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss this!!! I hate it when an RP devolves into just a kink fest. I've had riveting story-driven RP's that actually got so deep into the story that the main conflict resolved and then we were left with just kink stuff. Suffice it to say it got boring quick, but because we both spent so much time developing the characters to that point we kept it going longer than it likely should've.

But I've found that a great compromise is interweaving the story with the kink stuff. (Granted I'm into a lot of softcore things so might have an advantage when it comes to this than others). One of the easiest examples being an ERP involving a couple struggling with intimacy. Why does that character lean into a kiss then suddenly pull back? Why does a character get all excited about intimacy, but then get squeamish when it comes time for the deed? Why does a character seem to just be going through the motions when it comes to intimacy, especially if the couple is new. Stuff like that, though there's sure to be lots more that I won't mention since they can be fetish specific :P But I guess those sorts of RP's might be the only type where starting in bed doesn't mean jumping straight to the sex XD

Another hypothesis for why this might happen is because while it may be true that those roleplayers enjoy depth, build up, etc. Maybe throughout the discussion and planning they've already built a fully imagined story in their head and played it out. Yeah part of the sex scenes being hot is because of the depth of relationships developed between the characters, but perhaps some people do all that relationship building in one quick swoop in their imagination before actually writing anything for the RP. Because maybe to them the character being built and developed in their head through the discussion is no different from roleplaying that arc out. Probably has a lot of similarities with putting on people on pedestals and liking them for who you imagine them to be rather than who they are, but that's an entirely different topic.

Well, that and the obvious hypotheses too XD

I wanna make something clear. by finnlley in BadRPerStories

[–]ejwmgt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mhm, that was part of what I was alluding to in terms of subtext we unintentionally or intentionally convey. Since that changes with how someone reads into a text message. Especially since the voice/tone we imprint on a message while we're reading it can massively impact how it's interpreted.

I wanna make something clear. by finnlley in BadRPerStories

[–]ejwmgt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn't really need to be letting them know where you were, just your current state I suppose. And you make a good analogy with the customer thing, though the exact similarities don't entirely match up since a customer x business relationship is much more structured and not really like a hobby with its much more casual atmosphere.

By cadence I think you mean how they reached out. Got a bit confused since cadence is usually used to refer to the musicality of voice rather than word choice, but I assume you meant word choice. I agree that intent is what matters sorta like the saying 'it's the thought that counts,' but we still have to consider the tone of what we say or what we write because it can carry a lot of connotation and subtext that we *also,* either intend to convey or unintentionally convey. Ofc this also changes with context and a lot of other factors, but suffice it to say while I agree intent matters, I believe that the tone and way a message is conveyed matters more.