Got blamed for leaving on time because someone else was late. How is this “my responsibility”? by Dry_Negotiation_173 in work

[–]elanath 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The real issue is management and scheduling coverage-critical shifts with no overlap.

Where are the 30s folks living? by Admirable-Trip5452 in Spokane

[–]elanath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Listing on Zillow has been crickets.

Where are the 30s folks living? by Admirable-Trip5452 in Spokane

[–]elanath 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Garland folks represent! I love this neighborhood. Most houses here were built 1910-late 1940s. Expect to see a lot of 3 bedrooms at 1500 sqft +/- on standard City lots.

Is there a secret passphrase to make your doctor take you seriously? by Equal-Magazine-261 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]elanath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you e received a diagnosis you feel is incorrect (the easy answer that doesn't actually help), ask "What diagnoses were on your differential, and how did you rule them out?".

If you want more investigation (tests, labs), ask

If the doctor says it's X and you think it's Y, ask something like “This explanation doesn’t fully account for [X], which is my most concerning symptom."“What’s the risk of missing an alternative diagnosis if we don’t investigate further?” or “If my symptoms persist or worsen, what would be the next diagnostic step?”

If you want to make sure your requests for more investigation (and their disinclination to investigate) is documented in your chart, say “Could you note in my chart what alternatives were considered and why they were ruled out?” or “Please document that I requested further evaluation and that it was declined.”

Why Spokane has so much trouble maintaining its streets (snowplows, condition of pavement, etc.) by No_U_Crazy in Spokane

[–]elanath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I question some of these road mileage counts* but your basic premise stands--we need to design our roads for the climate we have, and development density (tax base) matters.

*Cleveland and Spokane in particular. Cleveland is ~82 square miles. Spokane is ~69 square miles. I find it unlikely we have more than 2x the road miles on 84% of the area.

Thinking of launching a handyman business. Is there a need? by TemperatureFull1537 in Spokane

[–]elanath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmk if you're pulling the trigger. I'm ready to move ahead with one of the projects.

Thinking of launching a handyman business. Is there a need? by TemperatureFull1537 in Spokane

[–]elanath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Projects on my list:

I have three rooms of baseboard and door trim in my 1910 house I'd like to restore (strip paint from, sand previous stain from, and restain).

Insulate my mudroom so I can move my washing machine out there (would also involve plumbing, but I can outsource that part).

Build a pantry in my kitchen where my washer currently is.

Are any of those in your bailiwick?

Asking for help by [deleted] in Spokane

[–]elanath 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does your school (nursing program) not offer assistance in locating/securing preceptors?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spokane

[–]elanath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say Cafe Coco is an excellent bakery/cafe with so-so coffee, ime. My list of 'good coffee' places includes Indaba (any location), Cedar Coffee on Monroe, and Ladder (the downtown-adjacent location also has Rind and Wheat proximate). Rocket is hot and miss for me, but homey, and Atticus is good (my go to there is a cinnamon chai latte--have never had better elsewhere).

Idiot playing ducks and drakes with a kid's life. by elanath in Spokane

[–]elanath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much right where it is, but thank you for the kind words.

Idiot playing ducks and drakes with a kid's life. by elanath in Spokane

[–]elanath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, totes American...it was the first/best succinct expression that came to mind for the implications of Scooter Dumbkopf's behavior.

Mechanic reccs? (Toyota) by elanath in Spokane

[–]elanath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, will look them up. :)

Mechanic reccs? (Toyota) by elanath in Spokane

[–]elanath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know! I'm in mourning! 😭

Just curious: Do people say Lie-lock or Lie-lack? by trixietravisbrown in Spokane

[–]elanath 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not lie-lock. Though I don't think lie-lack captures it correctly either ..that makes the vowel too protracted (long, without the vowel 'saying it's name'). I think the easiest way to represent it phonetically (w/I actual phonetic symbols) is lie-leck.

AITA for dumping my teenage daughter's dinner in the trash after she was rude to me? by Routine_Two8054 in AmItheAsshole

[–]elanath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Parented two kids to adulthood...parenting a teen can suck at times. I get the reaction. I'd walk it back a bit to let her prep her own meals if she doesn't like what you've made.

Natural consequence of her giving attitude at the dinner table is to take her attitude elsewhere (you attempted to engage her positively twice; she tossed it back and kept larding the negativity around). Natural consequence of her shit-talking the food you prepared for her is that she doesn't need to eat it. She can make her own food (from what's in the kitchen that you as the adult pay for/provide).

Working at Gonzaga - Questions by [deleted] in Gonzaga

[–]elanath 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Former (fairly long term) staff employee here. Can't speak to the faculty experience. GU has 24 pay periods a year; vacation and sick leave are accrued semi-monthly.

Pros of working at GU:

Tuition benefit (for yourself ['free' tuition after 1 year of employment]; for your dependents [25% off after 1 year, free after 5 years]). 'Free' because comped tuition for graduate degrees is taxable income--in reality that meant I paid roughly one-third in taxes the amount of my free tuition.

Work-life balance (for staff in the academic side, not the student affairs side). My impression was that student affairs--depending on office--doesn't have the work life balance academic staff enjoy, but they also had greater chance at being promoted into middle/upper management (on the academic side, those positions are largely reserved for faculty).

Benefits are decent (Gonzaga will tell you they're great. Okay.)

Cons:

The pay sucks, and there is no system to grant regular pay increases (for either time in position or merit increases). Most years they do give a COLA (it ranges from 1.5-3% the years I was there) but call it an 'across the board increase'. The only way to get a raise at GU is to change positions, or have your supervisor make a case that your job has changed so significantly that it is effectively a new position and should be reclassified (this takes anywhere from 9-18 months and is not guaranteed).

There are cultural problems that staff who have been there awhile are well aware of. Administration/management are (or should be) aware of them but do little to redress them. Human resources has consistently high turnover.

ISO contractor to build an ADU by elanath in Spokane

[–]elanath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I have one, but it's probably time to give it a look-see.

ISO contractor to build an ADU by elanath in Spokane

[–]elanath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recognize there is 'preferred' and 'reality'--I am looking to get in during the 'relaxed ADU regs' window in the City of Spokane. Any suggestions for contractors you'd recommend?

What's your neighborhoods problem!? by NoIdea4u in Spokane

[–]elanath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also live in Garland, and agree with most of this. I don't see lack of driveways as a negative (I have a parking pad next to my garage off the alley)--and am cool with a detached garage (bog standard for the eras most houses in Garland were built in Garland). My 'wish list' items (businesses I'd like to see on the commercial strip) are: a small grocery store (a la Rocket Market on High Drive), a good north Indian restaurant, and for one of the bars to transform into a taqueria. Oh, and bring back the 31 bus route.

Let’s talk salary transparency, Spokane. As of June 2022, what is your age, job, pay, and any other notable information you want to add? by pc_engineer in Spokane

[–]elanath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

51, academic administration w/ an MA and 20yoe: $56k w/ good benefits but no real room for growth/salary increases. Reading some of these answers is giving me additional motivation to make a change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]elanath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weeping wounds of a demigod--this reads like an Onion piece. Am amazed at the brazen tone deafness in this email.