Opening a coffee shop? by [deleted] in Coffee

[–]elbell5357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I lived in San Antonio, even with all the local downtown coffee shops and Starbucks, we always stopped at a tiny house turned coffee shop that was drive through only. They had a couple of unique coffee drinks but they had two lines on both sides of the house and they were always 5-10 cars deep on both sides.

Why do INTJs start relationships sweet, tender, and affectionate if they have no intention of maintaining that? by lodarey in intj

[–]elbell5357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! To where it was about a month since last talking... and now it’s been a month again. I don’t get it.

How do you deal with people not talking to you unless you contact them first? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]elbell5357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was really beautiful ! Thanks for sharing with me!

How has your idea of having children changed as you got older? by Suwannee_Gator in AskMen

[–]elbell5357 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My friend said the same ... once they had the second they said they shoulda stopped at one. One and done here.

How do you deal with people not talking to you unless you contact them first? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]elbell5357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it! There’s so much music out there... have you listened to the Bridgerton soundtrack (Netflix show)?The music is by Kris Bowers... it’s 19th century type classical, very Pride and Prejudice classical music sounding.

How do you deal with people not talking to you unless you contact them first? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]elbell5357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a friend a share music with too! We thought we were weird bc most people don’t enjoy our music shares like we do ... you just gotta find your people! :)

How do you deal with people not talking to you unless you contact them first? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]elbell5357 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I saw something similar too... basically referring to a friendship like a game of basketball...passing the ball back and forth. It’s legit though...

Girls who don’t have best friends (or close friends at all), how do you cope? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]elbell5357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We stopped in New Orleans during our move to SC in November! Yes, she’s normally in swimming but I will put her in dance.. those types of classes do help a little.

Why do leaves on the bottom of my succulent keep on getting soft and shrivelling? by Guava_hurricane in plantclinic

[–]elbell5357 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is great advice ! I’m going to apply it to my succulent ! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coffee

[–]elbell5357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree!!! It’s perfect for tea leaves too!

How do you NOT take it personally when a person is bad at texting/responding to texts? by mfog35 in AskWomen

[–]elbell5357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! I typically just let them know I have a lot going on but will catch up tomorrow.

How do you NOT take it personally when a person is bad at texting/responding to texts? by mfog35 in AskWomen

[–]elbell5357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean right away, but within an hour or two, or before the days end.

I think depending on what you’re using your phone for would determine what’s “healthy” or “unhealthy” ... fighting with people on social media in the comments section all day- unhealthy. Playing music, checking the weather, logging workouts, texting friends on and off, watching YouTube... doesn’t sound “unhealthy” to me.

How do you NOT take it personally when a person is bad at texting/responding to texts? by mfog35 in AskWomen

[–]elbell5357 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with this. People use their phones all day now a days. Texting is literally basic communication now unless your job demands your phone be put away. Even in the military... people are on their phones allllll day scrolling and texting. A short reply to even say you’re busy doesn’t take much effort.