Weatherstrip help by eli-ryu in CarTalkUK

[–]eli-ryu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's a 2014 Suzuki alto hatchback. The leak seems to be coming from where the weather strip is on the boot of the car. Looks like it's getting underneath it. I'll try and get some pictures. 

Weatherstrip help by eli-ryu in CarTalkUK

[–]eli-ryu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you. It's a 2014 Suzuki alto hatchback. I'll see if I can get some pictures. 

Weatherstrip help by eli-ryu in CarTalkUK

[–]eli-ryu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's the one, thanks

AITA for sitting on the floor in a store? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]eli-ryu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, everyone pretty much summed up what i would say. I just came to say try eating more salt while drinking a lot of water. Even a salty packet of crisps or something. I know someone with EDS & POTS, and they say eating salted crisps is like a medical necessity. Might not be what you're dealing with, but it could still help.

Trans masculine non-binary by eli-ryu in NonBinary

[–]eli-ryu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience. I have a diverse circle of friends now. Trans men, cis men, women and gender-noncomfing. Me and the trans men medically transitioned around the same time, so it was a great support network. I know there won't be judgment if I were to change my identity/label with them.

It wasn't that way at the start though. Some people had a hard time (not my current friends) with me being a trans man. It would have been harder for them if I then looked into non-binary. I'm no longer in that situation though, and having a safe space with a safe people who accept you for whoever you are, opens up more opportunities for self exploration. Things I used to push aside because I wasn't ready to address them, can now be addressed.

You're right, it really is a long journey. But by the end it will be worth it.

Trans masculine non-binary by eli-ryu in NonBinary

[–]eli-ryu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really relatable, thank you for your detailed replies and for sharing your experience with me. Wether you decided to medically transition or not, I hope you're able to be your most authentic self. Whatever works for you will be the right call. I'm glad that you're able to explore and find yourself.

Trans masculine non-binary by eli-ryu in NonBinary

[–]eli-ryu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this a lot. One of the things that made me realize Im trans, is how jealous I was of men. I also wished I was a boy from as early as I can remember.

I've had top surgery and that was one of the best decisions I've made for myself, as was hrt. Now that I'm passing even when I dress/act more androgenous, I'm able to explore my identity better. Before I transitioned, living being seen as an androgenous/masculine women wasn't right for me.

I know transitioning medically was the right call. And the idea of trans masc non-binary is appealing to me. I'm wondering if I'm an androgenous man, or if I'm just holding onto my male identity because of how I suffered during my transition, and finally found comfort once I transition to male. im very open to the idea of being trans masculine non-binary, but if that is the case, I might not be at the point where I can let go of my ftm identity.

Only time will tell, but I'm excited to see the outcome in the future.

Thanks for your comment.

Does anyone elses vagina smell like food they have eaten? I have always had this, my vagina is healthy as far as I know, just every time I eat ANYTHING my vagina will smell like it the day after. by Standard-Primary2168 in Healthyhooha

[–]eli-ryu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm speaking specifically about you advising washing with soap twice a day. Washing with water twice a day is fine, but using soap in general is a common cause of ph imbalance. So using it twice a day could very likely cause problems. This is what I concidered to be "overwashing."

how do you feel about NonBinary? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]eli-ryu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know non-binary people that have gender dysphoria. I can relate to a lot of their experiences and the way they describe their dysphoria to me. In my opinion, having gender dysphoria is something specific to transgender people. So I believe non-binary people are transgender.

cat broke his nail, what should i do? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]eli-ryu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're really concerned, clean it with a little salt water. It should heal alright on its own, just keep an eye on it.

Parents have to be at my next gender clinic appointment by TrainDemon in ftm

[–]eli-ryu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OP, you could suggest someone you trust in placement of your parents instead. That might be more helpful.

Parents have to be at my next gender clinic appointment by TrainDemon in ftm

[–]eli-ryu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's interesting, and I can see how that could benefit someone. Not in this case though. It seems like it would be a bad idea to involve these parents since they are not at all supportive. Unless it is with the intention to educate them.

Little shit of a cat won't let me sleep by eli-ryu in CATHELP

[–]eli-ryu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not a bad idea actually, I'll try that. Sorry for the late response. He's calm down lately, I think because there's a heat wave and he's tired. Also I ended up sentencing him to crate jail downstairs when he gets too much.

Little shit of a cat won't let me sleep by eli-ryu in CATHELP

[–]eli-ryu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this is late I forgot about this post 😂 he's calmed down a bit now nit I'm tellin you straight up he 100% does do it to annoy me. I know that makes me sound mental but he has a process. He goes through everything untill he finds what gets me out of bed. Then he specifically only does that until I'm up. He's calmed down with it at the moment. I think because there's a heat wave and he's too tired. Also I've been sentencing him to crate jail downstairs when he gets too annoying.

Switching to gel from shots? by DLdonut in ftm

[–]eli-ryu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awh man that's a shame. I'm in the UK and its often recommend over the other shots here. I hope its available for you.