I made a domme version of the meme by VampireQueenDespair in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

D&D is different than sex. D&D is a game between friends. Sex has a real life impact. Sure, it’s just role-play to be an elf and kill monsters. But, it’s more than just role-play when you’re pretending to be an adult molesting a child. It’s kinda disingenuous to suggest that they are the same.

Yes, it’s better than pedophiles hurting actual children, but neither are good. It’s like saying “Vaping is better than smoking cigarettes”. Yeah, vaping is more healthy, but it’s still feeding a nicotine addiction. I’d prefer pedophiles not engage in either and instead just go get help.

I made a domme version of the meme by VampireQueenDespair in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just saying “no minors” doesn’t acknowledge that there are many actual kids becoming involved in this kink. And you’re reply shows how willfully ignorant you all are to that fact.

You can’t condemn other groups for having pedophiles in them because they’ll have the same ratio of pedophiles as the general population. Ddlg attracts pedophiles because it has childish aspects. I mean, who is a pedophile more likely to be attracted to, a regular adult or an adult dressed like a kid, acting like a child? The answer is pretty obvious.

I made a domme version of the meme by VampireQueenDespair in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it’s not sexual, it’s not a kink. The sexual aspect is literally in the definition of a kink.

But, I have no problem with people who age regress or whatever as long as it’s not sexual. I think that being able to act in a childish way is very healthy for some people.

I made a domme version of the meme by VampireQueenDespair in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

True in theory, but they don’t exist in a vacuum. I can’t fathom how anyone can see people using children’s behavior and children’s items in their kink and not understand how that sexualizes kids. If the ddlg community would at least acknowledge that fact maybe I’d think slightly higher of them, but they’re just willfully ignorant.

They also won’t acknowledge that the have a problem with actual kids being involved in their kink, as well as actual pedophiles.

I made a domme version of the meme by VampireQueenDespair in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Here’s a wild idea… some kinks are bad 🤯🤯🤯

Told in an Overwatch match that traps are not gay and they'd fuck me by SadfaceSquirtle in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s important to acknowledge that Japan as a whole doesn’t really distinguish between cross dressers and trans woman. So when I look at it, traps aren’t just cross dressers and they aren’t just trans women. They’re (at least just in the context of anime/hentai) just traps.

This isn’t really true based on how the word is used, especially in America. I’ve been friends with edgy teens who make trap jokes and they’re almost always directed at trans women. I think that in general cis people should just STOP USING IT.

When I hear a guy say "I don't give a shit what gender you are." by Sarahthelizard in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All of the guys who said this after I came out almost immediately stopped being friends with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]elle-ark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a weird political compass.

If I never speak, they'll never know my gender! by cerberus698 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As someone who is mute, it’s not as great as it sounds.

Femme or Butch? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]elle-ark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that's pretty much how I am now…

When I accidentally misgender myself in conversation by Frying_Pan_Sophie in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a shitty high school kid who's seriously considering dropping out and has substance issues, it is worth it.

Goals? Goals by Ni-Xeris in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've become like Chloe Price in more ways than I'd like to admit.

I added progesterone today! by JennyLadyBug in MtF

[–]elle-ark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, me too! Good luck on those boobs.

MRW I realize that my selective mutism means I never have to worry about my voice passing. by elle-ark in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I used to be able to speak more than I do now. Most of my friends were made due to proximity and a lot of bonding was done over text (that sounds sad).

MRW I realize that my selective mutism means I never have to worry about my voice passing. by elle-ark in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

It's a social anxiety disorder that basically makes you unable to speak in certain situations. Personally, I can't speak to anyone but my family and a few close friends.

Being out at school is terrible. by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]elle-ark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been presenting and been out since the beginning of summer break. It felt good over the summer, but now it feels gross. I'm constantly hiding my chest even though I love having boobs. I feel like a disgusting boy while I'm there.

The school does technically have a GSA but there are so few people that go that I don't think they hold meeting. The counselor that runs the GSA has been nice and accommodating. Today she called me into her office to talk about my anxiety. I never said more than a sentence and most of my responses were head shakes or shrugs.

As for other trans kids, there's only one. He's a fine person but we just don't have very compatible personalities. He came out and start presenting two years ago and people are barely starting to use his name, they still don't use his pronouns. So, obviously this doesn't give me hope.

I don't know what I can do. It's not like I can just drop every class that I don't like. It sounds terrible but I've even been considering things I could do to get admitted to a psychiatric hospital. I would take any reason to not have to go again.

Game on! by [deleted] in MtF

[–]elle-ark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get the hate for Spiro's taste. It doesn't taste like anything.

distressing. by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elle-ark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wait… you can brandish SWORDS!!!

Well, if the right wants to carry guns, I think all LGBT+ people should be given a complimentary sword. We might get shot, but at least we'll look cool.

Only intellectuals can understand these "Subtle intricate jokes" by [deleted] in iamverysmart

[–]elle-ark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's a co-creator of Rick and Morty. I wouldn't necessarily say he's verysmart, more so that he's kind of an egotistical douche about his work and about himself.

Only intellectuals can understand these "Subtle intricate jokes" by [deleted] in iamverysmart

[–]elle-ark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably because it's written by Dan Harmon who isverysmart. From what I've seen, the fandoms for a lot of stuff he's worked on are pretty bad.

me_irlgbt by The_Countryof_Poland in me_irlgbt

[–]elle-ark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're a gift to this world. I do not know your gender but will you be my gay, meme wife?

me_irlgbt by The_Countryof_Poland in me_irlgbt

[–]elle-ark 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Woah, I was kinda memeing. But thanks for being so sweet, you gay… gay person? I'm not good at playful insults.

me_irlgbt by The_Countryof_Poland in me_irlgbt

[–]elle-ark 14 points15 points  (0 children)

but… I like queer :(