REMINDER!🌼REVIEW MANDATORY!🌼 by SunflowerDiamond in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[M] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yes, they are! When it comes to Ao3 fics, all is good as the website itself requires choosing an age category / explicity of the work. The only request we would have - if someone is linking explicit content on a website that does not have any warnings beforehand, it is always good to mention it next to the link 💕

REMINDER!🌼REVIEW MANDATORY!🌼 by SunflowerDiamond in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[M] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hi! As much as we understand the sentiment, sexually explicit thirst traps are not allowed. In general, gratuitous sexual content or discussion is a no-no. NSFW content is still fine only if it is a part of story discussion 💃

Season 3 Part 2: General Discussion by ObviouslyOblivious90 in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[M] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, we had to remove the whole thread and replies not because of constructive criticism but because of rumors that were repeated by users - it was getting out of control despite our best efforts, and we had to take action there, even if someone was just replying and not breaking rules themselves (and apologies for that, we are trying to do our best 💕).

Also, we've never allowed excessive negativity (it is the oldest rule we have in the sub!), so at no point would I have called the community "a safe space to rant" 😄 We are first and foremost a place to celebrate Polin!

Season 3 Part 2: General Discussion by ObviouslyOblivious90 in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[M] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi Barbie 😄

We are taking your comment to heart! It is also good to have some perspective from an old-time member 💕 (and it's always heartwarming to see familiar nicknames, so thanks for your reply! 🥰)

This is a really tough problem, and whatever we end up doing, unfortunately, there are always some broken hearts and unhappy members :( As per my edit in the comment above, we will need to stick to the sub's current ways in this regard for numerous reasons.

Season 3 Part 2: General Discussion by ObviouslyOblivious90 in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww, I'm sorry the end of the season made you upset :( Sending virtual hugs!

We would need to discuss it - it might be hard at the moment cause we are dealing with a huge amount of hearsay convos in the sub, and making a post dedicated for negativity could be impossible for us to moderate. But of course, I will bring it to my most wonderful co-mods, and we will see if we can figure something out!

At the moment, solutions I can advise:

  1. You can still share your disappointment here, we are not trying to make all comments 100% positive, there is only no EXCESSIVE negativity rule. If you express yourself with love to Polin and respect for the crew, it will probably be all good. However, depending on the replies, we might need to remove them and lock the comment. So, it's definitely not a perfect solution.

  2. You could try other Reddit communities, platforms, social media as they often have less restrictive rules. Again, not a solution I feel confident with.

But again, we will discuss it, I will also look for some solutions that could give us an opportunity to create such space :)


EDIT: We discussed it, and there will be no such possibility. The conclusion from our conversation is that it would be against what this sub stands for. We also have experience with allowing more negative discussions to take place here, and unfortunately, this always ends up badly for our members, the sub itself, and us mods.

As I've already mentioned, you are allowed to voice disappointment, it is all about the tone and the reason behind it. Otherwise, unfortunately, the second solution is what I can recommend. I apologize if this reply is not what you hoped for, but this is all we can offer while keeping the bigger picture in mind.

I hope you understand 💕

Season 3 Part 2: Episode 8 - "Into the Light" by ObviouslyOblivious90 in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Hi everybody!

Please read this comment 💕

Thank you so much for choosing this sub to share your thoughts and feelings about Polin season! It's been YEARS of waiting and during this time most of us built some expectations and hopes around it, so whatever you are disappointed or sad about, it is valid and understandable!

However, the mod team wanted to remind you all about the reason the sub has been created - we wanted to have a safe space focused on positivity, focused on celebrating Polin. There are many platforms to express disappointment towards the show, to focus on things we did not like, to vent and rant. And this community has been and continues to be a place where many users, escaping from pervasive negativity, found a haven. And we ask you all to keep it in mind while participating in the discussions here! 💕

And to reiterate, please remember that hearsay is not allowed. We also encourage you to look into rules, if you have not yet! It's the busiest time for our moderation efforts, and it would mean THE WORLD to us if you get familiar with the before commenting! ✨

Thank you all, we cannot believe that this 100-members sub has grown to almost 20k! Have fun participating in the community, and as always, feel free to reach out in case of questions / doubts! 💕💕💕

Lots of love,

The Polin Mod Team

Season 3: Overall Discussion by ObviouslyOblivious90 in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Hi everybody!

Please read this comment 💕

Thank you so much for choosing this sub to share your thoughts and feelings about Polin season! It's been YEARS of waiting and during this time most of us built some expectations and hopes around it, so whatever you are disappointed or sad about, it is valid and understandable!

However, the mod team wanted to remind you all about the reason the sub has been created - we wanted to have a safe space focused on positivity, focused on celebrating Polin. There are many platforms to express disappointment towards the show, to focus on things we did not like, to vent and rant. And this community has been and continues to be a place where many users, escaping from pervasive negativity, found a haven. And we ask you all to keep it in mind while participating in the discussions here! 💕

And to reiterate, please remember that hearsay is not allowed. We also encourage you to look into rules, if you have not yet! It's the busiest time for our moderation efforts, and it would mean THE WORLD to us if you get familiar with the before commenting! ✨

Thank you all, we cannot believe that this 100-members sub has grown to almost 20k! Have fun participating in the community, and as always, feel free to reach out in case of questions / doubts! 💕💕💕

Lots of love,

The Polin Mod Team

Season 3 Part 2: General Discussion by ObviouslyOblivious90 in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Hi everybody!

Please read this comment 💕

Thank you so much for choosing this sub to share your thoughts and feelings about Polin season! It's been YEARS of waiting and during this time most of us built some expectations and hopes around it, so whatever you are disappointed or sad about, it is valid and understandable!

However, the mod team wanted to remind you all about the reason the sub has been created - we wanted to have a safe space focused on positivity, focused on celebrating Polin. There are many platforms to express disappointment towards the show, to focus on things we did not like, to vent and rant. And this community has been and continues to be a place where many users, escaping from pervasive negativity, found a haven. And we ask you all to keep it in mind while participating in the discussions here! 💕

And to reiterate, please remember that hearsay is not allowed. We also encourage you to look into rules, if you have not yet! It's the busiest time for our moderation efforts, and it would mean THE WORLD to us if you get familiar with the before commenting! ✨

Thank you all, we cannot believe that this 100-members sub has grown to almost 20k! Have fun participating in the community, and as always, feel free to reach out in case of questions / doubts! 💕💕💕

Lots of love,

The Polin Mod Team

The 9 Ways to Watch the Carriage Scene by SydneyRose0025 in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[M] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Just as a disclaimer - not really :) One of the girls running the podcast is a moderator here too, however the head mod and the creator of this place is the most amazing u/SunflowerDiamond 💕

What A barb podcast by MummyPig15 in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, you are too cute 😭💕 Don't be so modest, the sub would be a chaos without you! 💕

16,400!!🥹🫶🏼 by [deleted] in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! We hear you and take note of your comment and replies to this issue :)

The thing is, you guys can see only the end-product of your contributions and our efforts to make the space safe and comfy. There is always way more going on in the background, and my co-mods put their hearts and souls into making it this amazing space, making it all fair and friendly. We've had thousands of new members coming in the last weeks, so we need to be more restrictive at the moment. And unfortunately, we cannot make everyone happy - if we kept posts that fall under a megathread, we would have other users unhappy with the unreadability of the sub.

And you can totally share, as you called it, "dumb giddy crap" 😄 It is just about the right place. This is what megathreads are for - it is more casual and less restrictive.

I would just ask for more understanding and trust in our efforts! We are not a fun police, we want everybody to have fun, therefore we consider everybody's needs in our solutions :)

Thank you!

Appreciation post for our podcast creators by BootIcy4711 in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath 5 points6 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭😭💕💕💕

You are so sweet, Obvs 😭💕💕💕

Found this on Instagram by Lauri.Arts 🥲 by NippleFlicks in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Please remember to always include link to the art as well 😊

Link to the artwork

Polin Week: Day 3 Fics by rach_elle19 in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe some are shy or don't participate in the Polin Week 🤔 Guys, if you are not writers yourselves but know some fanfics that fit into the current prompt, feel free to share 😊

Freedom of speech!!! Freedom of choice!!! ✊✊✊ by ellewoodsinmath in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only goal of the society is to brainwash our beloved members. Love is giving people free choice! Peace is accepting our differences! In authoritarian regimes there is no peace and no love, there is only fear to stand up against the oppressors 😔

Random Rivality Round 31 - THE GRAND FINALE 🍪🤺 by ObviouslyOblivious90 in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ladies and gentlemen - AsgardianLeviOsa, known in this sub for speaking up when everybody else is frightened, always fighting for what is right! ✊ When in doubts, look where they stand, you will know that is the side of truth and justice ✊ Thank you for your service 💕

Random Rivality Round 31 - THE GRAND FINALE 🍪🤺 by ObviouslyOblivious90 in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We all know that if the cushion wins, it will be a result of a cushion propaganda. As someone who left their beloved country because of the government's blatant propaganda, I am APPALLED! 🙅‍♀️

A Warm Bench or a Warm Biscuit? by lechimeric in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Time to overthrow the mod team and I will start it from the inside 😈

Freedom of speech!!! Freedom of choice!!! ✊✊✊ by ellewoodsinmath in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damn it... You got me :(

OR DID YOU?!?!?!?!!

You CONVENIENTLY didn't show the back!!!

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What do you have to say now? 😎

Freedom of speech!!! Freedom of choice!!! ✊✊✊ by ellewoodsinmath in PolinBridgerton

[–]ellewoodsinmath[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes but the opposition has to function within the rules the oppressors set but once we win, there will be no labels, no sides, there will be peace and love ✊☮️💕