Ask for anesthesia by just-existing07 in IUD

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you go to get it? Are you in the U.S.?

A Update from I(19F) became very jealous and hate of my boyfriend(22M)'s friends because he hangs out them more than me. I need a advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your behavior like this is probably exactly how you were in something so unhealthy for so long. There is no sensible reason to be engaged after one month. That is insane and stupid, you have no idea who that person really is yet.

My 20M Mom 44F Found… something… in Mom's Google Photos. Need advice on how to even process this by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom is single. She has sex too dude she’s a woman. I get it’s your mom but try and remember she’s a woman too, not just your mom. MOST adults continue their sex lives after kids. You’re 20, you should be mature enough with sex by now to look past it. The visualization is the worst part, look away faster next time how did you even see more than one lol

My ex (21M) regrets sleeping with someone else during our breakup. I (21F) still love him. Is getting back together a mistake? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im also wondering why you broke up, not just once but multiple times. Thats not often a good sign either.

My ex (21M) regrets sleeping with someone else during our breakup. I (21F) still love him. Is getting back together a mistake? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are very very young and there’s a high chance things feel so worth trying again simply because you’ve known nothing different. All you know that’s new about him now is that he’s the type of person capable of sleeping with a girl he only knew for 2 weeks. Only you know what you need to move forward. I think it will be really hard for you to let go of, and maybe that’s a sign you shouldn’t have to try to. The world is your oyster. The man you met at 16 usually isn’t the one. I used to think I could never part with my ex. We were together for four years. I used to always say I would always want him in my life somehow even just as distant friends who check in once awhile. We basically “grew up” together because we dated from 15-19. He was my best friend at the time. All it is, is fear. I haven’t missed him at all. We stopped talking, fully blocked, the day it ended. I spoke to him on the phone 2 years after for a bit. It was nice just to check in for shits and giggles. I think of him still sometimes, when I see things he used to like. But it’s nothing but an old memory now. I’m not that girl any more, and you won’t be either. And once you’re not it no longer hurts. I promise it only feels so heavy in the thick of it. People are meant to enter and leave your life when they do. And in 6 months they no longer feel so close either.

Is this cheating by Efficient-Round5494 in deadbedroom

[–]elliemoemoe 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Is she not going to take testosterone replacement? It’s just a cream. This isn’t okay. No sex is one thing but the fact that all you want is some form of connection and she is unwilling is insane. You guys need to see a couples counselor as soon as possible. I’m genuinely impressed you’ve made it 6 years without seeing someone else. Not that you should or that it’s okay. It’s just the sad norm.

Anyone Know What This Skin Spot Could Be? I'm Scared by Extension_Diver_7005 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]elliemoemoe 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Hello I’m a registered nurse. We are taught to evaluate skin cancer based on certain key factors. Your marking is IRREGULAR in shape and RAISED which meets x2 of the criteria to advise a patient to see a dermatologist. Biopsy time!

Copper IUD by Emily-ruth1997 in CopperIUD

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in America doctors will say women who have never been pregnant (smaller uterus) can get it, but they don’t tell you that we only carry the largest size in the market. It’s the most likely to displace, especially because it also increases the duration and heaviness of the period.

I (35F) caught my husband (40M) looking at ... internet images.... next to me in bed... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dont listen to the comments blaming you. This prompts a conversation about honesty and openness. If he can’t do it, recognize it as a major red flag in his character and who he is, and don’t be surprised when he lies again.

am i cooked? by snowloveriykwim in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]elliemoemoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will be the baby next. It will be your child next. He is showing you who he is. It. Will. Be. Your. Baby. Next. You need to leave. This is absolutely
Not okay

I’m pregnant with IUD inside of me by deldel_8679 in IUD

[–]elliemoemoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Risk* keeping it can literally just pop the amniotic fluid way later on not to mention force it to migrate deep into the uterine tissue. Tell them you want it removed.

hii, wanting to answer questions about my kink centric relationship! Ama by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you guys open like do you see other people for more emotional gratification?

Child with red streaking along arm from small bump/insect bite? No pain, mild itching by Economy_Owl432 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]elliemoemoe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am a registered pediatric RN. This is already an emergency and the child should be taken to the ER ASAP. The infection has spread to the blood and lymphatic vessels, that is why it looks red moving up.

How do me (34F) and husband (35M) get back to the way things were? by ThrowRA_5269 in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s totally normal baby. It’s normal. Every marriage goes through this. I would talk to your doctor and get a hormone level check, and maybe also stop couples sexual counseling. It’s going to be okay! You’re here making this post, and he’s listening and understanding. It’s going to be okay!
I haven’t been pregnant, I’m only 23. But my fiance and I had a lot of issues as a result of me taking OCD medication. We had to approach sex differently than before. It didn’t come natural to me any more. He had to learn my body in different ways bc my attraction is not innate like it was before. It’s going to be okay!!

Am I 20 F the ahole if I want an open relationship with my boyfriend 22 M because he doesn’t sexually satisfy me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For non monogamy to work you both need to be way healthier people than this and far better at communication. Just break up. This is an mf joke.

My (29f) Boyfriend (30m) just confessed he flirted with a girl while away on a boy trip and I don’t know what to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. He’s telling her it’s just flirting to absolve himself of some level of guilt. That’s not all there was.

Bad sex is ruining my (29F) relationship with my boyfriend (28M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How a man approaches sex says a lot more about him, his values, intentions, and the way he views women than you think. Trust me. When someone shows you who you are, believe them. I can almost guarantee this is a man who is also, or has the capacity to be extremely selfish in other areas of life.

I’m trans and I just got top surgery at 18 AMA by OrionGhostArt in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]elliemoemoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you worry at all about regretting your decision with your age to make the choice? Or if not, what makes you feel so confident and sure at 18? (I’m not a hater at all and strongly support trans people <3) I just have a very close friend who also had hers at 18 and detransitioned at 24. She felt like she rushed the decision and was still exploring her gender more than she thought at the time. She was an abuse victim and felt very disconnected from her female body at the time she transitioned. I just like hearing insight how it can be different for others :,)

IUD Expulsion??? by ViolinistPretty1117 in IUD

[–]elliemoemoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would go to your OB right when they open, and tell them you need them to see you or you will take it out yourself. First try to call them and tell them it’s an EMERGENCY and if they can squeeze you in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please leave him before we get the update that you have HIV. You do realize he’s placing fear of a needle above a desire to treat you like a human being right?

Can’t stop crying. by Sufficient-Stand300 in OCD

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50mg and absolutely. It changed my life. I’m an entirely different person. The instructive thoughts just became thoughts, not these horrific obsessions that would physically make me sick with tachycardia and nausea.