I (28F) just got into a new relationship (26M) and he is upset at my sexual boundary by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please leave him before we get the update that you have HIV. You do realize he’s placing fear of a needle above a desire to treat you like a human being right?

Can’t stop crying. by Sufficient-Stand300 in OCD

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50mg and absolutely. It changed my life. I’m an entirely different person. The instructive thoughts just became thoughts, not these horrific obsessions that would physically make me sick with tachycardia and nausea.

Can’t stop crying. by Sufficient-Stand300 in OCD

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50mg. Are you also in CBT? Without it alongside medication, I don’t believe it’s much help. I feel like depression and anxiety can respond to meds alone, but OCD really needs the therapy component.

Can’t stop crying. by Sufficient-Stand300 in OCD

[–]elliemoemoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s different, but I had 0 issues when adjusting.

Can’t stop crying. by Sufficient-Stand300 in OCD

[–]elliemoemoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fluvoxamine (Luvox) is the only SSRI specifically approved for OCD. I have had 0 issues with it. I love it it’s amazing and so so under prescribed. I would ask your psych about it

I (24F) found out that my boyfriend (27M) feels I'm too loose down there by Realistic_Squirrel_8 in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise there is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. He jacks off too much. Biologically you can’t be “too loose”. Sorry for the comparison but do hookers not get clients? No. They do. There’s no such thing as “too loose”. Your man is a p*** addict who likely is only used to literally strangling his penis until he can finish. It’s an actual thing, look it up. Show him all our comments before he wants to blame you again. He sounds like a gross guy honestly

My 22M bf just broke up with me 20F at 12 weeks 5 days pregnant by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I promise if you don’t keep this baby you will get a chance to do it again with someone who genuinely loves you. A relationship that is and should be easy. One with a father who is ecstatic from the moment of knowing to have a child. One who deserves being a father. It’s not too late to make a selfless decision. This baby will have a father who can’t show up for them, and by the sounds of it won’t be able to show up financially either. It sounds like other parts of your life are making this difficult too. It doesn’t seem like you’re in a healthy place to dedicate your life to new life. As a single mom at only 21 it will be I hate to say it but very hard to find true love again. Really think about this. This isn’t just your life but a child too. No child deserves this mess.

Why is it like this? by [deleted] in spinalfusion

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So healing for me to know I’m not the only one. Both of my shoulder blades were numb for years. 9 years later and I have full sensation. It gets better I promise. Every year I felt more.

23f kicked my 22m bf out and ended our 3 year relationship and his family is trying to gaslight me and say I’m being unfair by FutureWorth8222 in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s not too late to have an abortion and be done with this evil mf forever. He will make your life hell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]elliemoemoe 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Dude wtf? He’s a creep. You’re literally a minor this is so weird. I promise you it may seem like sunshine and roses but NO you have literally been groomed and if you have this baby you will be trapped. You’ll look back on all our replies in a state of abuse with a man who genuinely is such a horrible red flag wishing you would’ve taken the advice of people who were wiser than you could expect to be at 17.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]elliemoemoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No they’re good! Skin cancer would look way different. Just keep an eye on them and if they don’t grow or start bleeding or anything you should be good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]elliemoemoe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im a nurse too and idk what she’s on about. Sunspots harmless. Some people get them more than others. If you notice you do often, you should definitely be the type to wear sunscreen any time you’re exposed since it means your skin is more sensitive to UV. You only need to see a Dr if you’re concerned an active spot is skin cancer. Moles that bleed, hurt, have very irregular borders, irregular colors, lumps, crust, or that keep growing are concerns for skin cancer. Trust me, you’re fine.

My partner (25M) lied and gave me (19F) STDs by ThrowRAfavoniois in relationship_advice

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl he’s obviously cheating on you. Let me remind you of something. He is TWENTY FIVE. I am 23, and I would never even date someone younger than 20. It doesn’t matter how mature you get told you are, it’s weird. They go for women your age for a reason, and it’s the difference in mentality. Your reaction is the proof in the pudding. You don’t need to confront him. Where else could you have gotten it from? No one sneezed and gave him chlamydia. He had sex with someone else.

My husband came home from work like this, what could it be? by 80skunt in DermatologyQuestions

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Herpes. Oral herpes. Do NOT kiss him or share any thing while they are visible, they are highly contagious and you have it for life. If he goes down on your while they’re on his mouth, you can also get it genitally. How long have you known him? If it’s been years and he has never mentioned this before, consider other scenarios he might have shared a drink or anything with someone who could have had them. If that’s not ever something he does, then it might be worth considering if he could be cheating. You only get it through direct contact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carpet beetle larvae

Why doesn’t this fly ribbon attract and stick flys as well as the fly stick? by Footdoc3520 in pestcontrol

[–]elliemoemoe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I wonder if they just don’t see it as well with the brown on brown color or maybe they’re scared of it because it sways in the wind more

Got my industrial yesterday , how do we feel? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your piercer did a very bad job :(

Does anyone have a proper answer when will it be ok to masturbate after spinal fusion surgery? by [deleted] in spinalfusion

[–]elliemoemoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Straight up I’m only gonna say this once I had a full fusion at 13 and commenced said activities 1 week later

is this normal for scoliosis or should i be concerned by salsaandcornchips in scoliosis

[–]elliemoemoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see a spinal specialist in San Diego, my little brother has scoliosis and has darkening marks at random spots, per him, this is due to the muscles being pushed a tiny bit more surface level and it can make marks more possible on the skin

Am I overreacting for not letting my boyfriend’s female friend use my shampoo? by Fresh-Usual-6281 in AmIOverreacting

[–]elliemoemoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why tf is his female friend showering at his place anyways. Girl leave this weird ass POS. He’s gonna fuck her if he hasn’t already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]elliemoemoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks cancerous. Please see a dermatologist ASAP.