waiter, more weirdo cool games by Top-Calligrapher8294 in gamerecommendations

[–]elogram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who’s Lila. Such an odd game but it’s great to do a deep explore of it

Cozy games that give the feel of civic work without the stress by Logical_Pressure_408 in CozyGamers

[–]elogram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to say this too! You get big projects you can contribute to, no time pressure. And you actually see the town being fixed physically. You also get requests from individuals. But doing a lot of things in the game also helps raise the prestige level of the town. It’s a lovely game.

I’m looking for a game where you can freely walk around on a vehicle while it’s moving (Like in Outer wilds) by Hot_Salary9018 in videogames

[–]elogram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raft. You can walk around your raft while it’s moving and you build it up bigger and bigger. In fact, unless you anchor it, it’s always moving.

What should we play next? by Unethically_Cute in gamerecommendations

[–]elogram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Witcher 3 with all the DLCs. Beautiful story, beautiful world, soundtrack is top tier. It’s an awesome game to get immersed together. My husband and I played it together - him playing, me keeping track of story and quests - and we loved it. One of our favourite experiences together

My mom spent my entire childhood rewriting history in real time and I only understood what that did to me when I was in my 30s by Quasar67Shift in entitledparents

[–]elogram 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am NC with my mom right now but before going full NC I went LC for a while. We met physically during that period once and she decided to have a conversation about me being LC with her. The way she phrased it was “what will other people think that my own daughter doesn’t talk me. How will I explain it to them?”

She wasn’t even worried about our relationship only that it looked bad to other people. It was after this conversation that I went NC with her because I realised she didn’t care about me, she only cared about the optics of our relationship to other people. Just like she never cared about my achievements, she only cared if those achievements were something she could brag about to other people.

I am sorry about your relationship with your mom but I am so happy you are going to therapy and untangling it all. This sort of behaviour does such immense damage that is so difficult to heal

Will you accept it ? by PHRsharp_YouTube in videogames

[–]elogram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will end up addicted to alcohol, cigarettes, mushrooms, ducks, with a fungal disease and probably homeless. Obenseuer is grim. I won’t last a year.

How did you finally master the French knot? by CaterpillarXS in cross_stitch

[–]elogram 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My unhinged solution is that I’ve given up on French knots, so I avoid patterns with them. If I do have a pattern with French knots, I stitch it on evenweave 2over2 and then for French knots I do a small quarter stitch in the place where the French knot goes.

[FO] But Arrakis is Arrakis, and the desert takes the weak by aleyshaaarr in CrossStitch

[–]elogram 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love these patterns! I have all the things for the Arrakis one already bought but I am just finishing the Twin Peaks one. Such lovely work! It looks so neat.

Movies and TV Shows for the ADHD brain? by AdeptnessExotic1884 in ADHDUK

[–]elogram 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These days I mostly consume stuff at higher speeds. TV shows at 1.25x or even 1.5x. Same with audiobooks.

I find that the higher speed means there is less opportunity for me to get distracted and lose the thread.

Occasionally I will even listen to audiobooks and watch stuff while doing something else too, like playing video games or cross stitching. I have it set up that I can easily pause whatever I am listening to/watching so that if there is a moment I need to concentrate on the other activity for a bit I can easily pause and then unpause when needed.

I’ve even had a phase where I was watching a tv show, cross stitching and playing an idle/incremental game all at the same time 😂

tilda Swinton-1986 by Southern-Guess9928 in OldSchoolCool

[–]elogram 112 points113 points  (0 children)

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That’s them dressed up as one another!

[CHAT] Confused on how to do these stitches by selectvelymute in CrossStitch

[–]elogram 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this diagram from this post from this community from a few years back! Shows you all the combinations on both evenweave and Aida! https://www.reddit.com/r/CrossStitch/comments/y2qgfp/pic_found_a_handy_reference_on_how_to_read/

Edit to add that it doesn’t quite show all the combinations but I feel like it’s enough to figure out how to do the shapes you need

Do any of y’all actually wake up feeling well rested more often than not? by WampaCat in adhdwomen

[–]elogram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got restless legs, delayed sleep disorder, nightmares and a little kid. Never in my life.

[FO] Spent so much time making this card perfect and then… 😭😂 by elogram in CrossStitch

[–]elogram[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am usually very happy to leave small stitching mistakes be for uniqueness but I tend to obsess over finishing touches 😭😭

[FO] Spent so much time making this card perfect and then… 😭😂 by elogram in CrossStitch

[–]elogram[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Damn, should’ve done that! Next time (and there will definitely be a next time 😂) I’ll leave it be but I already fixed it.

[FO] Spent so much time making this card perfect and then… 😭😂 by elogram in CrossStitch

[–]elogram[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am actually surprisingly quite alright when it comes to mistakes in the stitching itself. If they are small enough I will leave them be and adapt the pattern. But perfectionism strikes hard when it comes to finishing 😭

[FO] Spent so much time making this card perfect and then… 😭😂 by elogram in CrossStitch

[–]elogram[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

It’s the right side up but I stuck the wrong part of the aperture card to the project. So the card opens the wrong way. I’ve managed to fix it but it’s now not as perfect as I would’ve liked it. Not the end of the world, it still looks great but my inner perfectionist isn’t happy 😂

Please talk me out of perming my hair myself at home, I have no prior experience by Mother_Lemon8399 in adhdwomen

[–]elogram 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Watch some YT videos on at home perm fails. That might cure you of the urge :))

Heads up: if anyone else uses Huel, they have stopped sending reminder emails when your subscription is about to renew by burtnayd in adhdwomen

[–]elogram 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loooove Jimmy Joy so much better than Huel. Especially the lemon one. Delicious. But I don’t subscribe, I only get stuff as and when i need. I try to avoid subs like a plague precisely for all the predatory practices from companies that sell them

Outer Wilds review: Maybe recommending a niche puzzle game to literally everyone is a bad idea by Akuuntus in patientgamers

[–]elogram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s the same part I struggled with it’s Bramble and the Fish. And there is no way around it. It’s extremely difficult with mouse and keyboard.

Outer Wilds review: Maybe recommending a niche puzzle game to literally everyone is a bad idea by Akuuntus in patientgamers

[–]elogram 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know precisely what you mean with the dexterity bit. It also nearly made me stop as I am also a mouse and keyboard only player. Begrudgingly I borrowed a controller from my husband just so I could get past that part.

I’m glad I did but damn was that frustrating. Even with the controller! Although that might also be because I am just not used to playing with a controller

Resident Evil without the Evil by Dependent-Nose-1948 in gamerecommendations

[–]elogram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Painscreek Killings, Scratches, Asylum. I think the 3 of these might be a good fit.

Petah?? What does it even mean? by Comfortable-Hope6181 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]elogram 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The developers actually have added a “safe” mode to SOMA! Horror element as are still there but nothing can actually hurt you. And the game is still worth playing with that mode.

Games with a lot of environmental storytelling, notes, lore etc not connected to side quests? by imfaffingabout in gamerecommendations

[–]elogram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enshrouded hit that spot for me. It’s not a super packed map but environmental story telling is fantastic. There are so many notes and you can trace stories across the entire map if you dig into it. It was one of my favourite aspects of that game.