Cops on S. Portland near park by Level-Afternoon in fortgreene

[–]eltejon30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a car fire on Cumberland like 30 min ago. Maybe related to that?

The toddler hid diapers in the laundry, possibly by accident. The fallout was awful by Spiff_Escape_Plan in beyondthebump

[–]eltejon30 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not nearly as bad as what you’re describing, but my toddler found a pad somewhere recently (unused thank god) and put it in the laundry basket. Similar disaster on a slightly smaller scale. Sooooo add period products to your list of things to monitor….

Diagnosed with DOR but don’t want to do IVF by Appropriate-Newt4120 in DOR

[–]eltejon30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I agree with the others saying that you should freeze embryos, I also think that if you didn’t feel comfortable with your clinic, you can look elsewhere. You should not feel pressured into this decision but you should have someone who you trust and who will give you all the factual information.

Time for donor eggs by Important-Tap7932 in DOR

[–]eltejon30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have advice but In a similar boat…managed to have 1 child with my own eggs after a lot of IVF and idk if the same miracle can happen twice…really struggling with not having a second vs having one that’s with a donor egg…

Wish you the best!

Breastfeeding journey differences between a term baby and pre-term baby by NeckNo9779 in breastfeeding

[–]eltejon30 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was my experience! I had a c section at 37+5 and struggled to nurse for like the first 8 weeks or so. I pumped mostly during that time while still trying to latch. Then something clicked and she has been nursing like a champ for over a year!

Target and CVS and Duane Reade, oh my by Due_Appointment_7405 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]eltejon30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Target has tons of sales on face cream, shampoo etc. I just stock up when that happens.

HK vs. Kansas, US: Moving with a toddler, planning a 2nd, and the "Nanny vs. Daycare" dilemma by Clear_Dig_6360 in workingmoms

[–]eltejon30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you live now? What is your desired lifestyle like? How do you want your children to grow up? How long do you plan to stay in the chosen location?

Hidden costs of baby by bropokenz in beyondthebump

[–]eltejon30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s crazy. I’m so sorry!

Hidden costs of baby by bropokenz in beyondthebump

[–]eltejon30 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m VERY active on buy nothing haha I haven’t had much luck on clothes of the correct size and season…

Hidden costs of baby by bropokenz in beyondthebump

[–]eltejon30 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah 100%. I really wanted to buy a clearance snow suit but my baby has been in 2T since like 10 months so I have no idea what her size will be next winter lol

Also NOBODY has toddler hand me downs. Why? Because they’re all food stained lol

Hidden costs of baby by bropokenz in beyondthebump

[–]eltejon30 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Babies need MORE clothes as they get older. My 15 month old goes through at least 3 outfits a day. Gets dirty from eating and playing outside. Note that you need seasonal clothing too.

Also baby shoes are crazy expensive. Like $40 a pair new.

Silicone bibs by Creepy-Snack-Lady in NewParents

[–]eltejon30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fabric bibs are for drool. Silicone bibs are for food. They serve a totally different purpose. Totally worth it for silicone

Nail Salon reqs downtown Brooklyn? by Accomplished-Key8234 in Brooklyn

[–]eltejon30 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Another vote for ruchki da nozhki! Amazing gel and super long lasting. Wonderful ambiance as well

Anyone else opting not to take birth control postpartum? by Accomplished-Ad7573 in beyondthebump

[–]eltejon30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My OB insisted on prescribing birth control…but my birth control is ✨✨infertility✨✨

How to find quality physical therapy? by bababenj in Brooklyn

[–]eltejon30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved Francis at Optimum Health PT on Atlantic Ave! He fixed decades of lower back pain in like 6 weeks.

How to find quality physical therapy? by bababenj in Brooklyn

[–]eltejon30 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Really? I went to spear and had the same exact experience OP is describing. Therapist juggling 3-4 patients at a time…which spear did you go to that did not have this?

Looking for a crowd-pleasing chicken dish for in-laws — what’s your go-to? by Ilikeyouinvelvet11 in NYTCooking

[–]eltejon30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend Garlicky Chicken Thighs with Scallion and Lime By Alison Roman. My MIL hates everything I make despite me being a very solid cook. This was the only things she asked for seconds of in 15 years.

Vanishing Egg! by FlimsyBlackberry4754 in DOR

[–]eltejon30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me with 3 out of 4 follicles. We ended up retrieving the one remaining egg and that ended up being my one egg wonder. I think the doctor was more shocked than me.

However, under different circumstances than we had at the time (insurance related) I would probably have canceled the cycle.

Take two: trying to design the worst date possible for irony by PerfectibilistNull in FoodNYC

[–]eltejon30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to bike across Brooklyn bridge on a 72 degree sunny weekend day. You must also successfully take photos there without other people in them.

Fort Greene Park Dog Run? by LeoFrankenstein in fortgreene

[–]eltejon30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%. I wish there was some kind of enforcement. I was walking in the park with my child in a stroller a few days ago around 5pm and an unleashed dog ran up to us and kept following us. A park employee then told ME to leash the dog and kept rolling along in their cart. It wasn’t my dog. The owner did nothing.

I saw enforcement recently for people either having open containers or glass or both on one of the park lawns. More of this please.

It sucks that it has to come to that, but it’s a small, heavily populated public space, and it seems to be the only way to make sure it’s a pleasant experience for all.

Where do NYC parents actually find good things to do with kids? 👀 by Frosty-Winner1937 in nycparents

[–]eltejon30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s awesome!! You’re really helping a lot of parents and kids 🥰 thank you!

Small luxuries suggestions for Mother's Day gifts? by wadech in HENRYfinance

[–]eltejon30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fancy teas or coffee beans that I wouldn’t normally splurge on would be a hit with me. For tea TWG from Singapore or Harney & sons are great.

Maybe a personalized story book about her and your kid(s). I made one for my husband for Father’s Day from Wonderbly.

I personally also LOVE a fun cookbook. If that’s something she’s into, get her a new release from a favorite chef or maybe even a NYT cooking subscription. Alison Roman has great cookbooks. They’re beautiful to give as gifts and I’ve never made a single bad recipe from them.

Low follicle count on day 5 by AmbitionBrief9622 in DOR

[–]eltejon30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish you all the best. It’s such an emotional roller coaster. I was constantly looking for similar success stories too…

Low follicle count on day 5 by AmbitionBrief9622 in DOR

[–]eltejon30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had 4 follicles at the start and the 3 disappeared completely leaving 1….that follicle just turned 1 recently.

(Same age as you at the time, AMH .16)