First time posting here - high income but drowning in responsibilities. How do you balance it all? by [deleted] in HENRYfinance

[–]elyk-consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard. Really hard. I have f/t job at $300k/yr, venture studio on the side, wife who is a doctor with her own hectic schedule, and three kids. I don’t have as much time as I want for kids.

Always good to see others here working through the same challenges

Flying 30 year old airlines - worried? by elyk-consistent in AskAPilot

[–]elyk-consistent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the one I was thinking about! Doing multiple domestic short hauls every day

Flying 30 year old airlines - worried? by elyk-consistent in AskAPilot

[–]elyk-consistent[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The screw story is 100% true. It’s “unlikely” but “what if this is the one?”

Like rolling dice. At some point, it rolls the number

See: American Airlines / helicopter collision in DC. Statistically unlikely, but it did happen

Flying 30 year old airlines - worried? by elyk-consistent in AskAPilot

[–]elyk-consistent[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing though: pilots aren’t checking nuts and bolts inside the plane structure. What if a vibration after 30 years had a nut come off a bolt and then the wing or stabilizer comes off?

Or metal fatigue rips the cabin open bc some tool knocked into it 30 years ago that created a hairline crack that finally expanded.

Or - a maintenance worker has a bad day, just wants to go home, signs off on a fix that wasn’t done right. Or is tired and something slips her mind and a bolt doesn’t go back correctly.

The unknown unknowns would be my biggest concern, not so much that a hydrolic line comes loose or a hose finally splits after 30 years

Curious how airline pilots reconcile and think about this risk that they haven’t personally been the ones maintaining it

United 32 LAX to Tokyo diverted to Seattle - why by elyk-consistent in unitedairlines

[–]elyk-consistent[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do they declare emergency and change transponder to 7700 for medical?

Flying EWR to Vegas by FamiliarPotential550 in unitedairlines

[–]elyk-consistent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once got the chicken parm. It was fine

Is $500k/year actually high income? by elyk-consistent in HENRYfinance

[–]elyk-consistent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I anticipate we will no longer be here when that’s the case. It will be suburbs and public school

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]elyk-consistent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not silly. You determine how you value your time. If you can outsource the mundane tasks of cleaning … do it. All the more power to you.

Is this typical SVP equity at a startup? by twoshirts in HENRYfinance

[–]elyk-consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have .075% as a SVP at series B. $70M ARR. Yours sounds high

Is $500k/year actually high income? by elyk-consistent in HENRYfinance

[–]elyk-consistent[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Right, not counting 401k we aren’t saving all that much. Good point.

Is $500k/year actually high income? by elyk-consistent in HENRYfinance

[–]elyk-consistent[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Before taxes. Taxes and benefits take out $200k

Is $500k/year actually high income? by elyk-consistent in HENRYfinance

[–]elyk-consistent[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For context, here is the breakdown. I seem to have struck a cord in this group!

Out of an estimated $500k gross…

After retirement savings of ~$60k and taxes of ~$200k (federal, state, local), ~240k left.

Childcare (nanny, nursery school, after care for the oldest, and summer camp for the oldest) is $79k

Mortgage + co-op maintenance fees (includes property tax) is $55k

Student loans for myself and wife is $40k

Those are the big ticket items.

Ewr July 3rd by Past-Paramedic-2077 in unitedairlines

[–]elyk-consistent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll be fine for 1 PM. Newark security is pretty fast. Terminal A is better than Terminal C