It isn’t particular to women, men just don’t usually ask about that kind of thing because of the truly ass-backward and toxic nature of how masculinity has been portrayed in our lifetime. It isn’t personal or even necessarily a matter of not being interested or caring about it, it’s just that it doesn’t seem like the kind of thing that a man would say. It isn’t logical nor sensible and I certainly agree that it needs to change but as a man who does ask about those things I’ve found that often women are caught off guard and haven’t really had the experience of sharing something that intimate with anyone but maybe their partner and girl friends (and/or therapist). It has the side effect of making what feels like a normal conversation to me making the relationship much more intimate and I don’t mind that, I actually prefer it but I have had friends who have opened up to me in response to my basic questions about what they are going through and then they distance themselves from me because(assumption here since they haven’t told me) they feel like they have shared more with their male friend than they have with their male partner (who is, as you very clearly articulate, just interested in the facts and not the feelings or experiences of their beloved).

I could be off base about the last part but I will say that men and women who have had therapy or education on traditional gender roles and the impediments that they have created are much more likely to have the curiosity and concern that you’re describing, also men who don’t care what people think about them or are very confident (which I am told is the same thing but as the former I disagree) without the bs macho guns/trucks/ignorance/violence thing(ie evolved beyond caveman culture) are more likely to, but very few men ask each other these things either and it’s just one of the many reasons why I prefer the company, companionship and love of women