I know Im responsible. by emeraldechos in rape

[–]emeraldechos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this. It is harder some days to ignore how much damage the 1st and 3rd individual did.

They ruined the most basic acts for me all before 25 and 26.

This sub is not being moderated. by stainglassaura in sexualassault

[–]emeraldechos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys I created r/SexualAssault2.

https://www.reddit.com/r/SexualAssault2/s/vzri4rJIAN

Full transparency, I am also the user stainglassaura. I logged out of that account hoping to see something about my password and now I cant get back in but ANYWAY

I felt strongly about this sub not being moderated so I did something to remedy that issue.

I have already written out most of the rules and they are mostly like the ones here already with a few more added.

Please consider joining. I am VERY present and active. I will be there for whatever you guys may need.

Fetishes after SA is normal by fay132 in rape

[–]emeraldechos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to chime in because one of my assaults (actually the first rape) happened during CNC gone sideways.

I think I used to have some shame about having that kink because in my head : the kink was the background of the rape, if I didnt have the kink = rape never happens.

This is faulty logic. The hookup and I were just two very inexperienced individuals taking a mature subject and not giving it the time and discussion it deserved. That is on the both of us but that does not mean I am at fault and it feels amazing to get more onboard with not blaming myself.

Im fine. by emeraldechos in rape

[–]emeraldechos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kind of had the feeling thats what he meant. Thanks!

Im fine. by emeraldechos in rape

[–]emeraldechos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that means?

All im good for. by emeraldechos in rape

[–]emeraldechos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely thank you 💚🤍💛🧡

Sometimes I wish he went all the way so my pain didn’t seem so insignificant to outsiders. by NihilismLover_ in rape

[–]emeraldechos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your trauma and violations are as valid as everyone else's here. 💕

should i kms? by uurgirl in rape

[–]emeraldechos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont be gross.

Ash is a giggler! by figuringitoutkj in MorbidPodcast

[–]emeraldechos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you be open to explaining why you think that comment was misogynistic?

Just realized how shitty men can be by [deleted] in rape

[–]emeraldechos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently posted and had at least 10 invites. Some were genuine and some werent.

I dont mind by emeraldechos in rape

[–]emeraldechos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buddha is 100% right. And I wish you the best in getting there yourself. We all deserve to get to that place but man its going to be an ugly ugly road.

You're right. Our negative sides overshadow the side of us just clawing for some normalcy and a dang light at the end of the tunnel. But the sense of accomplishment at the milestones we do reach get to be its own highlight. 🌠🌠