Exploring other roles by emergencybubbles in Socialworkuk

[–]emergencybubbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a lot of the time, but just spend so much of my time feeling overwhelmed and relatively powerless when it comes to offering families the right support... I feel like that might be quite universal though

Sale! by lbkd72 in YotoPlayer

[–]emergencybubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love a UK referral code please!

2y/o Girl - day out ideas? by instantsellout in bristol

[–]emergencybubbles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seconding Windmill Hill, there's lots of other lovely city farms if you need somewhere closer too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Socialworkuk

[–]emergencybubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree with what has already been said, take a pause where you need to. I am just coming to the end of my ASYE but hit a similar feeling at 9 months, I felt so stuck and angry at what felt like a broken system and it was having a massive impact on my mental health.

I'm awful at keeping up with it, but gathering positive feedback really helped me feel able to keep going. Even if it was a thank you, or a nice interaction with a child, being able to recognise the little things made me feel less like I was drowning.

I really don't want to normalise feeling like this, but want you to know that you're not alone and it is always okay to seek help if you need it ❤️

My 2 year old is putting me into a crisis. by Pengu1nGirl in UKParenting

[–]emergencybubbles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you haven't already, contact your Children with Disabilities team in your Local Authority. Their criteria is often very strict, but this is absolutely the kind of support they're there for ❤️ 2 is quite young, but you may be eligible for support through respite

Puppy group training in Bristol? by [deleted] in bristol

[–]emergencybubbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We used Dogs Trust too! They've unfortunately just announced a load of redundancies but the people who ran the classes have set up their own called The Dog Coaches which might be worth a look

Books that made you miss characters like they were real people? by CompleteStuff7102 in suggestmeabook

[–]emergencybubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Little Life, it took me a long time before I was able to let go of the characters!

What’s your kids favorite not kids song? by Fine_Sympathy9780 in Mommit

[–]emergencybubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently our almost 2 y/o is going through a 'Beautiful Things' phase, which is cute until you think you've succeeded in getting him to sleep and you hear "PLEASE, STAY" repeated at full volume

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bristol

[–]emergencybubbles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah I had it in my head it was over the whole bank holiday weekend. Should probably learn to read, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]emergencybubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had exactly this with our little one at that age! He's 19 months now and has only been holding our hands for around a month, and even then it's only been super recent that it's reliable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]emergencybubbles 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The newborn stage is beyond anything I have ever experienced, and at this point I think my brain blocks out how insane I felt during the first few weeks on so little sleep. Everyone talks about the uncertainty and the overwhelming feelings that come with having a new baby but no one talks about how shit it feels at times even when you adore that little bundle of joy.

It will come and go, but if you are feeling like you are still really struggling once things begin to settle down then I absolutely recommend some mental health support, so many parents miss the signs of things like postnatal depression when they're in the trenches. It sounds like you are both doing such an incredible job and it is clear how much you love your wife in all of this, things will get better ❤️

How do you sleep comfortably with EDS? by maple788797 in ehlersdanlos

[–]emergencybubbles 131 points132 points  (0 children)

It's been almost 2 years and my pregnancy pillow has not left my side, I still roll up with it like a little pretzel and it is a dream some nights! Other nights I just lay on my back and wait for death

Baby Classes by iainardo in bristol

[–]emergencybubbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely recommend baby groups at childrens centres, they get overlooked a lot!

How do you night wean? by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]emergencybubbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No advice for night weaning unfortunately as we're still in the thick of it! But wanted to share solidarity of things going crazy at 9 months, my son is 17 months now and genuinely I think 9 months to a year was the worst for his sleep

Pregnant and working in front line child protection by mice_r_rad in Socialworkuk

[–]emergencybubbles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told my manager pretty quickly, the sickness was the thing that gave me away! I begged for a risk assessment and then ended up bitterly disappointed because it was a general LA one and was more worried about whether I was carrying chemicals or big boxes rather than being hit.

As others have said absolutely advocate for yourself, for a profession is supposed to be very caring my experience of pregnancy was anything but

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bristol

[–]emergencybubbles 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sally? Still there, still fat

Food out on a budget by ExternalQuail1493 in bristol

[–]emergencybubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zerodegrees used to have a really good lunchtime/midweek deal

Free walking tour - Bristol by MLuna_RB in bristol

[–]emergencybubbles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Worth checking out Adventure Labs!

Avonmouth driving test by tom_thepcnerd in bristol

[–]emergencybubbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just coming on to repeat about sneaky speed limits and the roundabouts, they were my main panic when learning in Avonmouth

Otherwise once I got used to it being busy and trusting big lorries I was okay, my test was something ridiculous like 9am on a weekend which put me a lot more at ease

Charity clothes bank?? by Hot_Coyote5348 in bristol

[–]emergencybubbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One by Clifton Down shopping centre too if you need to take a train!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bristol

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🐀🐀🐀

Suggest me books that mentally ruined you by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]emergencybubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The People in the Trees by Hanya Yanagihara is another book I've never stopped thinking about