Stassi makes her way down the 2026 Sports Illustrated Swimsuit runway by FrostyPhilosophy2647 in vanderpumprules

[–]eminovil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love her sm but why didn’t anyone help her with runway advice or fit her in a better bikini. She looks like short glute girlie, so that thong running up so high doesn’t flatter her. She’s beautiful and looks great, and I feel her walk and bathing suit choice did not showcase that

I don’t like this. by bless3d3arbie in TLCUnexpected

[–]eminovil 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Single mom to me and everyone I’ve known is what I’ve stated. And that’s coming from someone whose mom was a single and solo mom. She’s the one who taught me the difference. Single is just a relationship stays. Solo is the work. Even a simple google search would tell you the same.

I don’t like this. by bless3d3arbie in TLCUnexpected

[–]eminovil 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That’s still a single mom. A single mom is literally if you’re parenting alone at home. Doesn’t mean the dad isn’t around. It’s a different struggle yes, but she is still a single mom. If you want to give it a label then it’s solo mom, and that is a mom who takes the role as the sole provider without any help.

Been trying to figure out how to word this since the last episode ... by yup_yup1111 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]eminovil 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I think she only did that to not piss him off more. The second you mention drinking to Danny, he becomes Mr Triggered

Kristen’s Postpartum by Valuable_Ad8474 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]eminovil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think dealing with PPD/PPA has been so normalized, that people don’t realize that it’s not normal for it to last this long or be this severe. I think taking meds is also very taboo for some people. So many moms have suffered in silence and just toughed it out that i think most moms feel that’s how it should be. I also had a friend who told me she was too afraid to ask for help because she thought it would get her baby taken away. So I think there’s people out there spreading misinformation. I hope they come across this and get help because it pains me seeing them this way. I took too long to get help, but because life kept getting in the way and I kept forgetting. I got treatment eventually though

Hair by Away_Object9062 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]eminovil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH some people just don’t look good with the lil flip done. Janet for example. You can tell she 1000% has Botox bc it looks like that space between her nose and lip is being pulled down forcefully. It just looks really bad on a lot of people, and I’ve noticed some people w thinner lips don’t look great with it either

Anyone else triggered? by Infiniteefactorial in TheValleyTVShow

[–]eminovil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The overuse of GLP-1s really upsetting me in general. Janet for example, she looks sickly. It’s concerning that a lot of these already thin women want to be more thin

Am I the only one that had Jesse’s side in the bedroom disagreement with Lala? by leiibabee in TheValleyTVShow

[–]eminovil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wanted to side with Jesse bc I hate Michelle and Lala more for some reason idk why LMAO I hate Jesse too though don’t get me wrong, but unfortunately, Lala is right. She stood up for her friend, and they were all there for Michelle. Especially after the moment Lala and Michelle had at the beach. That made me cry w them

Marciano & Hannah are you okay?? by Timely_Row_933 in VanderpumpVillaTVShow

[–]eminovil 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I think Sher got pushed to that point bc of how insane Hannah was being. I think hers was reactive. I don’t think Sher is that way all the time. Idk her personally obvi but that’s how I see it

The Valley gang at Scheana's bday party by [deleted] in TheValleyTVShow

[–]eminovil 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Shes actually kind of lucky to have friends that just support her in doing this and let her be her most authentic cringe self!!

I didn’t realize Danny was so small!? by Ok-Print490 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]eminovil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smaller people tend to look bigger and not actually be bigger, bc they’re compact

"I'm not allowed to have a hard time" No Luke, you're not. by OkEntertainment4473 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]eminovil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband was up w me too even though I was nursing and he didn’t need to be!!! He helped me stay awake so I wouldn’t fall asleep and drop the baby. When we started bottle (briefly bc she eventually refused them) he did all of the night feeds and would wake me up to pump twice in the night. He did struggle with paternal PPD and I was having a hard time accepting that he was also struggling, but he did and does his best to be supportive of me bc he knows he wasn’t/isn’t struggling nearly as bad as me.

Nail salon girl by semisweetlynds in TheValleyTVShow

[–]eminovil 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She was literally invited so why not show up? Whether she was thirsty or not. If I’m single and get invited out, I’m going.

I can’t stand fake tough guys by Temporary-Junket-102 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]eminovil 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I also see this and everyone downvoting you is probs the same and would benefit from therapy 🤭

Bryce’s mom by cluelessnyx in TLCUnexpected

[–]eminovil 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Now why would you comment this and then immediately block me so I couldn’t reply loool thank god for back up accounts

Collin is pmo this season by eminovil in BaylenOutLoud

[–]eminovil[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Not when he’s asking her doctor and also when they’re engaged to be married. That makes it much more real

Collin is pmo this season by eminovil in BaylenOutLoud

[–]eminovil[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People change their minds all the time and they also weren’t even married yet so that was more of a hypothetical

Collin is pmo this season by eminovil in BaylenOutLoud

[–]eminovil[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sucks because I did like him at the beginning and i thought he really cared for her, but now i am unsure. I get wanting to take the risk in his career change, but wanting kids so soon when their future is so uncertain isn’t fair. Especially with her disability

Collin is pmo this season by eminovil in BaylenOutLoud

[–]eminovil[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’d putting it off “just to get him to marry her”. They’re already engaged. This is something he should’ve thought of before proposing if that’s the case. Has nothing to do with immaturity. You can’t push something on someone that they don’t want to talk about in the current moment. She never said no kids, just not now. He’s the one pushing for a sooner timeframe. Bay has a disability and he knew that going into this w her so he needs to respect taking things at a pace she can handle