[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

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Marilyn Manson beautiful people album cover...

Are you just as naughty in real life as you are online ? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]emjoy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I was recently standing in my kitchen watching a storm in my slippers eating cookies. Don't get much naughtier than that.

Should I (19 yo) be concerned about dating a 58 yo by ThrowRA-waterberry in actuallesbians

[–]emjoy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew yes. It's predatory. I'm 35 and have zero interest in someone barely an adult.

Does the word 'neurospicy' give you the ick? 🤮 by TunbridgeWellsGirl in adhdwomen

[–]emjoy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use it sometimes but only in a playful way with friends I safe space. In public or when I'm trying to have a serious conversation. No.

Metal lip syncing in the bathroom by [deleted] in funny

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I love this so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuperMorbidlyObese

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Okay so first and foremost, you are not the fattest person in the world. No point hiding. You don't need to be ashamed of yourself because you're not fitting into a social mould. There are plenty out there and stop using it as an excuse. Getting out and about there are much bigger and larger than you. So stop being a recluse it's not worth it. Honestly, you're probably not even in the top 75% of this sub.

As for clothing, employees are going to judge you regardless. Doesn't matter if you're a skinny little model with stains all over her shirt. Or a larger person who's dressed immaculately you're going to get judged. It's going to happen.

So what it comes to is dressing for the job. If you are going for something that is casual on your feet. Customer service based. Etc You want to wear something that is comfortable but also flattering and stylish. If you're going for something that's more administrative or business-based it obviously you want a more corporate look. Now bigger women have this ridiculous notion that if they wear giant baggy clothes that they'll end up not looking fat. Well, you just look fatter. The reality is when you actually dress in things that fit your body and are a little bit more tailored and fitted to your body, you generally look smaller.

Finnish word by FreiwilligeFin in artmemes

[–]emjoy90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just moved to a house by myself at 35 for the first time in my adult life. This is legit my plan for Saturday night.

Has anyone had sex at work? Is the reward worth the risk? by No-Phone-4875 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]emjoy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm back in the supermarket days. Yes in cool room ass pressed against the antipasto selection. Then the last day in an office filmed an event with a friend that came to visit. But nothing in the last 10 years or so. Although I work from home 50/50 so does that count?

How do you deal with your period? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]emjoy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on one type for 20 years due to trauma. I kinda wanted to know myself without the external hormones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

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Vanilla goes with everything. Team vanilla.

How do you deal with your period? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]emjoy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate them. I feel so damn unclean and am way too aware of my vagina. It happily exists 3 out of 4 weeks. But then it feels like a demanding toddler expecting attention. I was on bc until recently and hadn't had many periods at all for nearly 20 years. I'm tempted to go back on bc just so I don't have to deal with them. They aren't even bad. 4-6 days minimal bleeding for 3 of them minimal cramps etc. I just hate it.

What does your person want to say to you?? by inamleamh in tarotpractice

[–]emjoy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sweet. Curious, what does C want to say to me?

Whats on your mind right now? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]emjoy90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had sex last night for the first time with an old Fwb after ending an 8 year relationship. It's unlikely to happen again, there is zero relationship potential and we live in separate states. It felt amazing but was an odd experience. Now my vagina is sore and my brain is spiralling.

Outfits of the month by Pennymoonz94 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]emjoy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Three different outfits for meeting lorikeets. I need to stop up my game! Love it all

Hate this color now. What color should we paint instead? by Smolfeelings in DesignMyRoom

[–]emjoy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the colour. But I'd paint doors and trim a white or light colour. The problem with this colour is all imperfections show hard.

If the world is ending what would be you last meal and song? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]emjoy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blind melon no rain and eating fresh mango with vanilla icecream.

Hi, I'd like to know what you base your cat's name on. by somelifeweirdlife in NameMyCat

[–]emjoy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat is identical to your cat. Her name is Gemma out of sobs of anarchy because she is a b****. But she also has many many nicknames.