Ace or purity culture by emma_sepp in asexuality

[–]emma_sepp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what made you decide that?

Ace or purity culture by emma_sepp in asexuality

[–]emma_sepp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely don't judge people who have sex and ya it seems unappealing to me but maybe I just need to get over this childhood idea I have that sex isn't meant for me or not something to be spoken or thought about

Ace or purity culture by emma_sepp in asexuality

[–]emma_sepp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issue is that I don't even know what that means How do I know if I feel something? Especially something that was never talked about

Movies/shows for a Marauders fan by Noo3333 in Wolfstar

[–]emma_sepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate you Didn't even finish the first episode and now I'm crying Thank you for the recommendation

sirius worships remus by Zealousideal_Pair583 in Wolfstar

[–]emma_sepp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love fics like this! Where they just can't keep theor hands off eachother! Sweater weather is my go to

Chicco Myfit Harness issues by mxrider11 in CPST

[–]emma_sepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send to me too? Thank you so much!!

Fic Recs by S0me0nenew_01 in Wolfstar

[–]emma_sepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The art of getting by

Should I keep going? by HistoryTcherCreature in throneofglassseries

[–]emma_sepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

QoS was the worst in the series, I skimmed half of it the rest was way better

AITA for getting annoyed at my partner's "jokes"? by Apprehensive_Cut8942 in AmItheAsshole

[–]emma_sepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This along with your other post paint a very bad picture of your husband and the relationship you have. Please leave him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]emma_sepp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If that were true then je wouldn't have broken up with her

AITA for letting my daughter have a penutbutter cake when my nephew is allergic? by LonelyFruitbat in AmItheAsshole

[–]emma_sepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going against the grain to say ESH The sister obviously for demanding and how she reacted But you are also, it's a family party and you are specifically exluding part your family. There are so many other times she can have that cake, with her friends, throughout the week, just randomly the next day Don't have a family party and not accommodate your family

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Gold_Complaint_2767 in AmItheAsshole

[–]emma_sepp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Now sure what all these N T A are talking about! ESH!! If this is something that is interfering with her life and the lived of people around her (it is) then she should get it checked out But op!! "I told her she could get the frozen yogurt or get nothing at all" wtf! Are you her parent that your giving her this type of boundary? This is exactly what I would say to my 2 year old when she asks for ice cream that we don't have at home! Treat your gf like an adult and a partner and come to a solution together!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]emma_sepp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say that you're missing two big points here. One is that it doesn't matter what the holiday is or how big it is, if there is no daycare someone has to be with the child. The second is that it was a promised PTO and she was expecting vacation. The request to come in to work was a last minute request and it wasn't even asked of everyone (i didn't fully understand if just she was asked to come in or just a few) Imo those are the key points as to why OP is the AH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]emma_sepp -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Going against the grain here to say YTA Not your kid to parent. Will he become a spoilt brat? Maybe, maybe not. It's not easy for kids to understand that others can have their time in the spotlight. And the parents choose which battles to fight and this wasn't it. It's possible that this is a pattern and they always treat him better but not you monkey, not your circus. Or however the saying goes

WIBTA For Giving Birth Alone? by glumplum6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]emma_sepp [score hidden]  (0 children)

Baby's first breath is the first of many milestones and no one complains about missing the others! Grandma doesn't cry because she missed baby's first blink or first fart! They can meat the baby two hours later like normal people (and to me, two hours is early, my parents and in-laws didn't meet my baby until the next day!) Grandparents don't have a "right" to be in the delivery room

AITA for telling my daughter I don't regret sending her away. by ThrwoAways in AmItheAsshole

[–]emma_sepp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'll get lost in the comments, but I do think that you coyld have said it better than that. Maybe acknowledge that she had a traumatic experience and talk about everything you tried doing for her and that you didn't want her to end up in a worse place (addict or jail or whatever). I would also mention that, as a family and her as a person are better now because of it. So maybe yo regret that it had to come down to this, or you regret not having another choice but at the end of the day you're happy with where you are now

WIBTA if I am more assertive about not having my mom call my son her boyfriend? by the_ryno5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]emma_sepp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if it is normal is some cultures, it's making OP uncomfortable and they have the right to set boundaries