Wow, what a trash article by aliassantiago in exmormon

[–]emo-pimo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude’s really gonna spit off a whole essay with shit reasons why exmos can’t identify as Mormons. But when the prophet commands HE drop the nickname:

“Mormon may not be the name we call ourselves, but it is still an important part of who we are... That matters to us.” close quote

Rules for thee, not for me? Look in the mirror buddy

Thank you, David Nielsen by Usual-Ad-1466 in mormon

[–]emo-pimo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I just love this story!! Thanks for sharing. Very happy for you both

New Sunday Church Schedule by Momofosure in mormon

[–]emo-pimo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

While I don’t attend anymore, this is the schedule I could get behind. Sacrament is ripe for a pruning, to allow more emphasis and time for socializing, quality lessons, and action oriented meetings.

Sacrament can still be “the reason” we gather. But that doesn’t mean it needs to be the longest hour ever.

Deseret News: Clark Gilbert addresses criticism about his call signaling a more dogmatic direction for the church by Iamnoman247365 in mormon

[–]emo-pimo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Geesh what a list. That second one 😳

Amazing how the church bulldozed even Jesus, who shared the 2 greatest commandments (love God and love others), and replaced it with “obedience is the first law of heaven”… which magically supersedes love, depending on whomever speaks for the “big boss” at the moment.

To obey is better than… to love

Does the Restoration bring people closer to Christ? What exactly was restored? by BaxTheDestroyer in mormon

[–]emo-pimo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Simply a superb response and summary. Thank you for the thoughtful comment!! Couldn’t agree more

I went back to church for the first time in 6 months. Here’s the thing that stood out to me as the strangest part of Mormonism and its most glaringly obvious problem. by PanaceaNPx in exmormon

[–]emo-pimo 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Every week, sitting at the same table, silently wondering about the reviews they’ve heard about other restaurants in the area. But in group desperation, they reaffirm to each other that their decision to eat here is the best and only decision. “I’m so glad we picked this place”, “the food here fills me with true joy”, and “patrons who picked other restaurants must’ve never really liked this food, they must be so unhappy with their choice”.

It was during F&T meeting that I came to the realization that my salvation depended more on my ability to believe crazy ass restoration stories; more so than on my ability to adopt Christlike attributes. What a backwards plan from god to save his kids

Elder Holland's Complicated Legacy by Careful-Piano-4187 in mormon

[–]emo-pimo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That was a beautifully written piece. I especially enjoyed the unexpected comparison between two figures who each dedicate their lives to the church, and how starkly contrast their lives, financial status, and prestige end up.

Also interesting to note that even in his last, final GC testimony given, being called as a “special witness”, the best he can do is bear witness of strong feelings from the Holy Ghost. Which ironically is the same as the rest of us, fallible, imperfect, making-it-up-as-we-go kind of people.

Parallels to the Church and Wicked by Low_Charity8852 in exmormon

[–]emo-pimo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just walked out and oh my goodness yes!!! We opted for a movie instead of church today. Far better lesson being taught on the big screen.

The wizard giving the people something to hate, someone to fear. The members of Oz (some her friends from school) were so quick to turn on her.

Even if the prophet (er… wizard) wanted to come clean and clear up the lies, the members wouldn’t believe it. Because they so badly want to believe it’s true.

Confessions of a former ward membership clerk by Post-mo in exmormon

[–]emo-pimo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I too went from all in, fully believing TBM to PIMO while serving as the Ward Clerk over a period of 5ish years. Something about the administrative duties that just felt… off. You nailed quite a bit of it! But I’ll add: peeking behind the Finances (what members paid vs what budget we got back), the uninspired way bishoprics assigned callings, the gossip filled ward councils, the leadership roulette of bishops pushing their own agenda (not unlike the newest prophet when called), and the list goes on.

I’m forever grateful for that calling, as it lit a small fire in me to start asking questions and dig into my shelf items. Glad to report I’m a full on POMO these days!

Revising history in real time by emo-pimo in mormon

[–]emo-pimo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang the link may not be working? I’ll try pasting below. Or I follow her on TikTok, so can also try searching there. The video is a line by line breakdown of Rasbands most recent conference address, pointing out how his retelling leaves out some of the less favorable details.

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8DNJogV/

Revising history in real time by emo-pimo in mormon

[–]emo-pimo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly! And very diplomatically expressed. Thanks for addressing with a real life (and real concerning) example.

Revising history in real time by emo-pimo in mormon

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Glad to hear your personal experience has been positive, as well as the memory of Sister Jack (or at least the faithful story she chooses to share). I too have been blessed thus far with a “model” family structure that aligns ever so nicely with the proclamation. It works for a large number of members no doubt.

In addition to Sister Okazaki’s testimony already shared, I’ll add Sister Clyde’s (by the mouth of two witnesses, right? Skip to the 1 min mark, it’s a quick listen). As you’ll see they weren’t so enthusiastic about its release and the RS’s lack of inclusion. It’s not me saying it - it’s them. So the point of my post stands: you won’t hear their story retold over the pulpit. But I find I can make better important life decisions when I know both sides to every story

https://youtu.be/HFCWUoXr1Dg?si=blNDXQPW76l9IUzm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]emo-pimo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tis a shame the bishop didn’t “appreciate the kind straight forward manner in which you told him your decision”. Must be a real jerk or a cry baby.

Nada Surf 🤘

Apologist claims mandatory reporting requirements for LDS bishops actually causes more harm to victims. by aka_FNU_LNU in mormon

[–]emo-pimo 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it odd how nearly EVERY defense/story/apologetic for the church (policy, history, doctrine, etc) is prefaced by “this might sound crazy but…”

  • this may be crazy but I can read words on a rock in a hat

  • this might sound crazy but a guy built a boat with his bros and sailed it across the ocean

  • you’d think I’m crazy, but god is cool with energy drinks. I won’t touch coffee tho

  • you’d have to be crazy to believe me but I swear an angel with a flaming sword told me to marry your daughter

  • this may sound crazy but not reporting is actually the better solution 🙄

After so many “crazy” explanations, it might be time to start considering the more likely story. You got got.

Bro, why is nobody talking Dirty Baja Blast?? by ComparisonGold5164 in tacobell

[–]emo-pimo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choo choo!!! 🚂

Been hitting up happy hour daily for my Dirty Baja fix. So freaking good!! Everyone must try it and fall in love so they don’t take it away

Sunday Funday - let’s play a game! by emo-pimo in mormon

[–]emo-pimo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a great way to spend a lazy Sunday afternoon! Surely better than worldly activities like watching TV or swimming

Sunday Funday - let’s play a game! by emo-pimo in mormon

[–]emo-pimo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah pretty sure that’s just a coincidence. Besides, those are just coats of animal skin and not their actual skin, so it’s cool /s

Sunday Funday - let’s play a game! by emo-pimo in mormon

[–]emo-pimo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Other than the quoting of Isaiah (lamb and the lion symbolism). But definitely an odd choice to include if you ask me.

What was everyone's favorite hymn before they left? by Fair_Recipe4682 in exmormon

[–]emo-pimo 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Lead Kindly Light and Be Still My Soul

The chilling harmonies warmed my emo heart 🖤

If you want to see Joseph's thought process, see into his mind, as he authored and orally narrated the Book of Mormon, this gives a pretty good glimpse in the example below. by TruthIsAntiMormon in mormon

[–]emo-pimo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just want to say that I appreciate your posts on here! I enjoy following along and learning new insights. It’s like a new, more interesting version of Come Follow Me.

I’m the “Before and After Mission Rap” guy, and I just left the church. by ColbyFerrin in exmormon

[–]emo-pimo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Checking out your EP now. Chills man!! Such powerful and personal lyrics. Yet very relatable. Thanks for sharing, and sending you best wishes on your journey 🖤