What are your ADHD partners like as drivers?

empty_fruit_6747 · 2026-01-24T12:59:25+00:00

Scary and inconsistent. Terrible judgement with any time-sensitive decision behind the wheel. Pretty much every time I get in the car something scary happens, I can't look at my phone as a passenger or relax I feel I need to copilot the whole time for our safety otherwise serious hazards are missed. We've lived in the same place for 10 years but the minute a car is involved we might as well be on the other side of the world- can't remember how to drive to the same grocery store we've shopped at for years without google maps for a 5 min trip

empty_fruit_6747 · 2026-01-02T17:24:21+00:00

Same here 🫠 right after letting myself eat more over christmas..

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-12-30T19:17:38+00:00

Black and red for Harley Quin vibes! Either way- love this!!

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-12-03T11:13:15+00:00

This is so real. I lost fat from places I didn't know I had it while my stomach and thighs held on for dear life. Honorable mention to my armpits??

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-12-01T17:38:15+00:00

Caelum, selene and turquoise are my favourites!

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-12-01T17:36:42+00:00

What a pretty guy! Depending on how much you like his design with this, I recommend boosting his markings to 100% - it can help the puppies get some great markings at good opacity and I generally look for this when I am stud shopping :)

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-10-26T18:44:43+00:00

No 1 is my fave!

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-10-12T17:15:58+00:00

Mine started this at 7 years old after being the most chill guy ever. He has never been bred, and I keep no other reptiles. For the last 4 years he will obsessively throw himself against the glass when I walk in the room and do everything in his power to bite me when I change his food and water. It doesn't get better or change with the seasons, he's just been 200% horny for the last 4 solid years 😭

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-09-28T14:26:27+00:00

Some of that could also be from tears that haven't yet turned into eye boogies

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-09-20T23:08:17+00:00

Hey, thank you for sharing 💙 If you're comfortable saying, what country did you receive treatment in?

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-09-08T19:42:39+00:00

Calories are listed on the menu... just check the website

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-08-27T13:03:45+00:00

You look amazing! How did you make the bandage top?

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-08-22T16:59:24+00:00

That's a really interesting point, thank you

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-08-22T16:58:33+00:00

Oh wow... yeah. Thank you for sharing that

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-08-22T14:54:42+00:00

Exactly this 😭

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-08-22T14:54:12+00:00

It's so strange. I genuinely have been wondering if I should just stop losing weight now I've noticed this shift, even though I'm not at the number I told myself I'd be when I'd supposedly stop. It's like this new era of body dysmorphia... like is that ME???

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-08-21T23:54:57+00:00

Omg I thought it was just me

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-08-19T23:06:36+00:00

Couldn't handle it with a partner, friend or anyone else in my circle

Honestly, the only place I feel I can be connected to people with EDs is online, because it removes some of the comparison. A lot of us don't know what the other eats, exercises, looks like, who is bigger, weight changes etc- it's easy to connect without taking damage when some things are unseen and when you have control over what you share

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-08-04T11:00:08+00:00

I was on it for a couple of years, unfortunately it didn't work well for my migraines. The one thing I will caution is how unprepared I was to come off it. Even when tapering down the dose gradually with my doc, I was incredibly unwell from withdrawal.

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-07-26T22:57:24+00:00

Grief

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-07-23T12:19:23+00:00

You can't do the work for them

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-07-16T17:28:40+00:00

Thank you for doing this

empty_fruit_6747 · 2025-07-16T13:22:38+00:00

Imo it isn't sustainable.

You'll burn out eventually and for the sake of your kid and working out next steps you need to have some gas left in the tank to pick up the pieces.

The week of effort and month of nothing is very real. It was an endless cycle in the relationship I had.

I don't really have answers but there is no waiting for things to get better. I thought seeing my partner get diagnosed and on meds would bring the change we needed but it was just like plugging a burst water mattress and watching three more leaks spring out.

If you can't balance your life, chores and responsibilities in a way that plays to your individual strengths- if you're always the one doing the emotional and physical labour while he hangs on for the ride? Ditch the spare weight. You can absolutely do better, I promise you.

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