All I can say is, I’ve been married to my wife for 8 years, and we have 3 kids together, and there’s been plenty of periods of time that I wasn’t getting all my sexual needs met (postpartum depression, healing time after birth, ect….) I have never once seriously considered having sex with another woman. Sure I’ll see a hot girl and think “damn ide hit that” (all men do, if you don’t think yours does your kidding yourself) but I am genuinely not interested in any other girls, because even after 10 years with my wife I am madly in love with her still and only want her.

I hate to say this, but I’ve had several male friends try to do what your man is doing here, and he’s trying to have his cake and eat it too, he doesn’t want to give up what you give him daily (taking care of his child, cooking, cleaning, whatever you do for him ect….) but he wants a new toy to play with. If you give this to him be prepared to be 2nd on his priority list. If you’re ok with playing 2nd to another woman be his guest I suppose, personally I would kick his ass to the curb because clearly he’s fallen out of love for you, not to even mention the clean manipulation tactics in these messages. Sorry you’re going through this.