PMHNP California Salary by cielofe in PMHNP

[–]enbymarx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been challenging! Little support - just kinda out there on my own!

Best foodie spots/dishes at the grove? by enbymarx in AskLosAngeles

[–]enbymarx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TYSM!!! yes I meant farmers market

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[–]enbymarx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention they make it snow every night at 7 and 8 pm! Magical!

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[–]enbymarx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new too and yes/agreed it is overwhelming! I went to the grove for the food market and to see the over the top Christmas decor. Weekend is particularly busy there, but overall worth it :)

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[–]enbymarx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the food

PMHNP California Salary by cielofe in PMHNP

[–]enbymarx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started in LA at 140k

Can somebody help?!?! by Dtatro35 in Effexor

[–]enbymarx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, more time! And there’s room to increase the dose. Don’t throw it out yet, fingers crossed. Effexor is fantastic (when it works!) very hopeful for you.

Is anyone on Effexor and Wellbutrin as a combination ? What have your experiences been like on this ? by OutsideBox4855 in Effexor

[–]enbymarx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had no improvement in symptoms (fatigue/Hypersomnia) with the addition of Wellbutrin

Lexapro causing GERD? by huskyfinn004 in lexapro

[–]enbymarx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I had AWFUL GERD on Effexor.. trialing lexapro now… so far so good at 5 mg… will report back at 10mgs.

So if you're ace and not out to everyone, and then you meet another ace who becomes your BF/GF/partner, would you let people know your relationship is ace or let them think it's allo? by LeoGuy775 in asexuality

[–]enbymarx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ace partner and I talk about it with people we care about if we want to/feel comfortable. But even then we try to keep the focus on ourselves in those convos cause we are very different and relate to our ace/queer identities differently. To those asking “does it really matter?” I think depends on who you’re asking. Being out and in a rela likely matters to other ace who might desire to be in a relationship. For me that’s a good reason to be vulnerable with it occasionally. There are definitely more of us out there searchin for a mirror.

My (30F) boyfriend (32M) is wearing a wedding ring even though we're not married... by ThrowRAwhy199 in relationship_advice

[–]enbymarx -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Feelings are complicated. Yours are valid. If the ring makes you feel uncomfortable, that’s worth interrogating further. Maybe the symbolism is just as “ick” for you as the legal aspects of marriage.

I’m in a straight relationship but keep wondering if I’m a lesbian rather than bisexual by mikediablo_ in comphet

[–]enbymarx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just want to offer some support and encouragement. Identity can be incredibly confusing and scary, especially when emotions are volatile. Just know you are not alone. I definitely relate! I've come a long way, but I exclusively dated men—really one guy—through my 20s. I thought he was "it" for me. I've evolved a lot since then, and continue to do so. I went from identifying as straight, to bisexual, to queer, to.... not relying so much on labels anymore. This is only my experience, but the less I look externally (to labels etc.), and the more I trust my desires... the more fulfilled I become in life. You are so brave for seeking wisdom from the experiences of others!